This may just be a problem of the difference between those game types not being pronounced enough to make a difference.
If you have any inclination to explore the topic further, rather than simply running through the same conjecture, please re-read the section on cognitive loading to see how much of a difference both the virtual environment and the use of directly replayed physical interaction plays a role.
A 3-D game bar involvement of all 5 senses ain't no Holo-Deck.
I doubt the taste and smell aspects will be comparable between a lump of rubber and a living person. If anything, the presence of these differences will act to disconnect the experience further from reality than a scenario where they're purely absent (where the mind is able to fill in the blanks).
But then again, you seem to believe that a heterosexual male is fine with sucking dick
That's a somewhat creepy bit of cyberstalking but I appreciate the effort. I was advising against re-engaging in a debate with a specific 'trump card' of a point in mind and no plan for a subsequent response. My line of reasoning was purely a thought experiment for how a 'woke' person might respond rather than a personal belief.
It seems that you're really not interested in discussing the matter but rather in attacking anyone who disagrees with you, so I won't waste any more of our time. If you wish to make some evidence-based counterpoints, please do so, I'd love to be wrong.