I think Bex is like India W and favours the tactic of making it personal. 'Poor me, I'm just a harmless lady trying to live my life and wanting to be part of the gang, why would you ostracise me?'
It really annoys me as it's such a reductive and disingenuous way to view the issue and the ideology, but countering it makes the GC person look like a meanie (cf Posie on This Morning.) I imagine Bex has been practicing their wounded voice.