Bottom line: "girls, sex is not for you to enjoy, it's for you to find a way to get through and tolerate for the sake of someone's superior and higher status need - and no, that someone will never expect second best or to put anyone else first. In fact that someone is busy validating that it's ok not to give a damn that you're unwillingly forcing yourself to allow them to use your body".
Rape culture, with a heavy, stark dose of misogyny and male supremacy. About as attractive to any woman with a brain and a grain of self esteem as a plate of cow dung.
It's all tied up with the whole 'sex worker positive' narrative, which is about imagining shiny eyed little girls saying "mummy I want to grow up and be a sex worker" and enthusiastic sex workers who love having their bodies used, in order to cover up the ugliness, scariness, huge dose of male violence and male entitlement that it all involves and absolve the purchaser. Fuck that.
The answer is what it has always been: there will always be weird, entitled, unpleasant men who can't get anyone to have sex with them because of being entitled and unpleasant, and feels pissed off about this. That's their problem. Women and girls need reminding, frequently, of the stickied post at the top of the relationships board. What sane person wants any little girl to grow up aspiring to 'tolerate sex' and put some vile male who isn't interested in her consent or pleasure above her own needs?