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Travez Perry - violent attack at high school

132 replies

FeminaSum · 25/10/2018 22:50

This video is really shocking. www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6317165/Transgender-girl-charged-brutal-high-school-attack-caught-camera-says-bullied.html

Obviously it goes without saying that bullying is wrong, and should have been dealt with by the school. But this person kicking and stomping on people who are lying on the ground, resulting in their hospitalisation? That goes far beyond a response to bullying.

A commenter on GC Reddit whose daughter attends the school in question reports that the girl who was beaten has either a broken jaw or fractured skull.

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QuietContraryMary · 27/10/2018 08:04

chron.com/neighborhood/tomball/news/article/Transgender-teen-says-she-was-bullied-before-13335970.php

" Perry, who is transgender, told police that the female victim had taken her picture and posted it on Snapchat with a negative comment, according to a Tomball police report."

My son had someone take a picture of him with a negative comment on Snapchat, but he didn't beat the culprit to a bloody pulp.

"According to court records, the female victim sustained a possible broken nose. "

Theswaggyotter · 26/10/2018 20:44

When I was bullied for a long term at school it would have never entered my head that jumping on the bully’s head was a good solution. No excuse for that attack and I hope he is punished in the courts for his violence

MIdgebabe · 26/10/2018 19:58

It may be unfashionable, but I believe the words of my mother “sticks and stones may break your bones but words can never hurt you” whilst being at one level untrue, at the same time helped me to develop strength to ignore the bullies. Physically I was weaker, mentally I could be stronger.

Bowlofbabelfish · 26/10/2018 19:57

Nobody knows what Millie has gone through, and this could have just been a final straw for her.

What exactly is enough and justifies kicking a woman in the head almost killing her? Just so we’re clear on exactly how many words it takes for a woman to deserve her head kicking in?

Bowlofbabelfish · 26/10/2018 19:53

s but not on male violence (that is not transgender) in the UK?

We’ve started umpteen of those threads. Strangely enough, when we do, MRA types appear and tell us why we are wrong to do so.

It’s almost like Male violence against women is normalised...

How are we wrong discussing this again?

nauticant · 26/10/2018 19:34

There might have been bullying by one or both of the victims in the form of comments on social media. But it doesn't matter. Any bullying is one thing, the very violent assaults are another. Although I suspect they'll end up being entangled and will influence what happens in court.

But that's just supposition by me. Let's see what happens.

CarolDanvers · 26/10/2018 19:23

He would have killed her if he hadn't been stopped, he was totally out of control. I'm sorry but I call utter bullshit on the "bullying"as well. We all know these men/boys don't like to be thwarted. Sounds more like the girl said something he didn't like and he attacked her. Someone who is built like that is simply not going to be bullied consistently by smaller girls/women, they'd be too scared.

QuietContraryMary · 26/10/2018 19:04

It's not really clear that this person identifies as a transwoman.
Comments here from someone who posted 'I luv u' on Travez' FB:

"I have no voice T, sick in the bed. Angie just texted me... SMH. I watched the video. He's got his Momma's fight in him I tell you that!"

" Ikr...they calling him a tranny and she turning over.... He has been bullied at school for a min and people know and he lost it."

" I noticed that in their reference's to Tra. They should've known to leave him alone."

"Still sad though, didn't want him getting into criminal trouble."

Materialist · 26/10/2018 18:59

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BiologyMatters · 26/10/2018 18:46

I wonder if certain people here so keen to believe every trans person is brave and stunning instead of a fucking thug in this case would be so keen to take their side if it was their daughter who had been violently attacked.

HomeStar · 26/10/2018 18:37

Nobody knows what Millie has gone through, and this could have just been a final straw for her. That is all speculation of course because I don't personally know her or her family'

Angry

I think the societal tendency to make excuses for male perpetrators is multiplied tenfold or a hundredfold when the perpetrator is a transwoman. And it's disgusting. I can't believe the mental gymnastics people will perform to excuse the inexcusable.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 26/10/2018 15:05

I'm bored of you now feminist4 you post incessantly yet you don't answer questions posed to you.

The scroll button is your friend. Seriously. Remember the saying "Don't get in the mud with a pig. You'll only get dirty and the pig will enjoy it." If a poster annoys you, scroll by. Don't engage.

Sarahjconnor · 26/10/2018 14:45

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loveyouradvice · 26/10/2018 14:31

F.... THAT IS VIOLENT.

Seriously, No excuse EVER.

DeRigueurMortis · 26/10/2018 14:20

That's a really shocking piece of footage.

I can't understand how anyone watching it can attempt to justify that level of agression.

Stomping on someone already on the ground, who is is no position to defend themselves clearly demonstrates a desire to cause serious injury by someone dangerously out of control.

If you didn't know anything about this case all you could conclude is that a powerfully built male seriously and viscously assaulted a young women by kicking her senseless in a frenzied attack.

The insight that the perps id's as trans and that the girl has said something on Social Media they didn't like, doesn't change the narrative above one iota.

donajimena · 26/10/2018 14:12

I'm bored of you now feminist4 you post incessantly yet you don't answer questions posed to you.

Datun · 26/10/2018 14:02

It's also depressing to read the comments. And how many people find that sort of reaction totally justified.

Datun · 26/10/2018 14:01

YetAnotherSpartacus

Yes, I really don't know why I expected everyone to read my mind!

YetAnotherSpartacus · 26/10/2018 13:56

Oh OK - I get it now. I wasn't sure if you were critical of the quote you posted or not initially! Or, at least I knew you were critical but could not quite join the dots...

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 26/10/2018 13:55

Stop trolling our boards feminist

My advice is to ignore the trolling. If you engage, you give the action attention.

Datun · 26/10/2018 13:51

Sorry. I should've been clearer. Yes they don't know the person involved, nor the family, they're just having a guess, but the implication is it's justified.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 26/10/2018 12:46

Oh OK I get that.

In fact re this ... (Countess)

In how many other situations would you watch a video of a man violently beating up a woman and say 'but we don’t know what the background is to this situation'?

I actually thought - well most really. Because it's always women's fault.

FermatsTheorem · 26/10/2018 12:42

I presume what Datun's getting at is that we see comments like the one she's bolded every single time male-on-female violence is reported.

Domestic violence/family annihilation? "What sort of a nag was she that she drove him to such extreme actions?"

Rape? "What was she wearing?" "Did she say no forcefully enough?" "Well how was he supposed to know she didn't want it? She let him buy her a drink and 50 Shades is mostly bought by women, doncha know?" "She probably just regretted it the next morning..."

We see it every time. So much so that when we see, as in this video, incontravertible film footage of a male bodied individual stomping on a much smaller woman, there are people whose first reaction (without any evidence one way or the other) is to say "Well, obviously she was a bully and drove him to it."

FloralBunting · 26/10/2018 12:29

Yeah, a video of a male bodied person kicking seven bells out of a girl is very likely to make us fall into the trap of thinking male violence is a much, much more prolific problem than feral girl gangs.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 26/10/2018 12:29

Nope - still don't get it.

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