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What is ‘cis privilege’?

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MissSusanSays · 24/10/2018 09:21

I’ve seen quite a few of the posters wo come on to make the pro-self id argument rage about ‘cis privilege’

Could one of them actually explain what it is? Because I struggle to see how women, who are oppressed by their sex and forced into gender norms, abused, paid less, over looked for promotions, given shoddy maternity care, suffer post natal depression in silence, suffer miscarriages, fight through the shame and difficulty on infertility, endometriosis, breast cancer, rape, sexual assault, menopause, hysterectomy, groping, belittling etc are privileged.

If someone who believes in ‘cis privilege’ can point out to me what privileged women have then I’d really, really like to know.

Or is it just another way to shame women into not talking about the tragic and terrifying things that happen to them because of the way their bodies function?

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pennydrew · 24/10/2018 17:12

Karen White is a rapist. 99% of all rapes are committed by males.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 17:11

FloralBunting thanks! Def not upset!

ProfessoressWoland · 24/10/2018 17:10

You seem to have very little understanding of the tribulations of trans people.
I think you may have a slightly outdated idea about who qualifies as a transwoman these days.

Materialist · 24/10/2018 17:09

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Jezebelz · 24/10/2018 17:08

Privilege has a number of different meanings. Whilst I agree that on a personal level, child bearing feels like a privilege, particularly in comparison to a woman who is infertile and heartbroken, that is not the definition of the term being used here.

My understanding of 'cis-privilege' includes exactly this definition. The privilege to have the anatomy to grow a child, something many trans women yearn for.

FloralBunting · 24/10/2018 17:07

pennydrew, honestly, don't worry about it. I have engaged with that poster before now, and personally don't actually believe a word they say, and consider the flailing around a very poor disguise for a simple lack of comprehension and a need to be the creator of much drama.

I have no interest in supplying them with what they need for their gratification, so I have made my boundary very clear to avoid any confusion. Please don't get yourself get up on my account. And certainly don't get upset by them.

Spasm0dic · 24/10/2018 17:07

I have to say that even though I have been in the joyous position of being comfortable being a woman, this does not make me privileged. We all have shit to deal with. Most of us know that if we shout about it, we’ll be told to shut up. Why are these TRAs treated differently?

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 17:04

Posted too soon...,

You then blamed women for the violent behaviour I highlighted and have now swiftly moved on from the trans rapist, to... women can be violent too. Just amazing the lengths people like you will go to throw women under the bus.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 17:03

No Karen White is a violent criminal. There are violent women too- like Rose West. We don’t judge all women as being like Rose West.

My questions were in response to you blabbing on about how mean the feminists were being to trans people and how brave they were being

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 17:01

Feminist4

You aren’t debating. You pretty much keep saying the same thing and you have a poor grasp of the specific terms we are using, which makes conversation with you frustrating and time consuming. Your rape apologist comment might just have been the final straw though. Gross.

Feminist4 · 24/10/2018 17:01

No Karen White is a violent criminal. There are violent women too- like Rose West. We don’t judge all women as being like Rose West.

Feminist4 · 24/10/2018 17:00

Yes Floralbunting, I’m not surprised you are blocking me. Women with your anti GRA views want to debate this, but only when they hear their own point of view. It’s very hippocritical to want debate and then block.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:58

Feminist 4

I’m going to ask this again, specifically

What about Karen White, the transwoman who raped an autistic teen and then sexually assaulted women in prison, is he brave?

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:57

Seems appropriate

What is ‘cis privilege’?
Gncq · 24/10/2018 16:57

The BBC routinely showcase biological males, as in transwomen alongside men, to discuss what is best for women's rights and even what language women should use to describe themselves without women being represented.

It is a rare occurrence that the BBC have actual women on to talk about women's rights without a transwoman shouting over her.

Transwomen are in the eyes on the BBC the beholders of all knowledge of womanhood.

The LP recently had three male (transgender) "women's officers" which is vastly over representative of the general population. Amnesty may I remind you had Shon "enjoy ur erasure" Faye recently presenting their woman of the year award. No one buys the "most opressed" narrative. No one at all. Because it's a lie. TW are time over time usurping women.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:56

Feminist4

Grasping at straws? 🤦🏽‍♀️ From the ‘feminist’ who just excused Male violence and RAPE, with ‘ they’re angry and desperate’. What a disgusting thing to do.

ProfessoressWoland · 24/10/2018 16:56

A trans woman is marginalised and victimised by society more than most women are.
I struggle with that statement when I think of a middle-aged autogynephile who decides to go the whole hog and starts presenting as a woman 24/7. He carries on in his well-paid job, the wife doesn't leave him, and everyone says how brave he is.

FloralBunting · 24/10/2018 16:55

Feminist4, just to be kind and save you expending any further energy trying to get me to respond to you, I shall let you know that I am using an inner 'block user' mechanism and ignoring everything you post. Go well, but don't try and engage me again. Thanks everso.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:54

They are angry and desperate

In other words, ‘ she made me do it! ‘

How pathetic

Feminist4 · 24/10/2018 16:51

‘Structural advantage’ that really seems to be grasping at straws.

FloralBunting · 24/10/2018 16:50

Jezebelz, whilst I appreciate the elasticity of the English language in many ways, it's not going to help to use every definition of of a word interchangeably if we're going to communicate with each other.

Privilege has a number of different meanings. Whilst I agree that on a personal level, child bearing feels like a privilege, particularly in comparison to a woman who is infertile and heartbroken, that is not the definition of the term being used here.

Perhaps it would help you if you thought of it as 'Structural advantage'?

Feminist4 · 24/10/2018 16:47

They are angry and desperate. Most trans women aren’t violent. Women can be violent too

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:47

Jezebelz

So the fertility struggles of a female are being compared to transwomen who wish they could give birth? Wow.

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:45

Feminist4

Are you talking about the meeting where trans people wore balaclavas and tried to stop women entering a meeting?

pennydrew · 24/10/2018 16:43

Feminist4

Did you see the transwoman successfully prosecuted for punching a 60 year old feminist outside a women’s meeting? Do you think that transwoman was brave? What about the TRA’s that issued a bomb threat to another women’s meeting? What about Karen White, the transwoman who raped an autistic teen and then sexually assaulted women in prison, is he brave?

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