KeepOnKeepingOnAgainandAgain
Its all about spaces , We all used to love to go up to Manchester gay scene at weekends , but its not safe for lesbians in Manchesters gay village at weekends now certain gay pubs and clubs are full of straight people , and its straight men hitting on lesbians or causing fights with our butch girlfriends
both me and Jo were married to men decades ago, , we don't hate men , , we just don't want them hitting on us
to the point lesbians feel really unsafe , its ridiculous , the gay village full of Stag and Hen, do,s not to supports gay people ,
even down here in Birmingham many bars are now letting straight couples in Not To support us
a few Lesbian FB groups have had get togethers , in supposedly gay clubs , where single straight men start hitting on lesbians, recently the butch women have blocked these straight cruising guys from hitting on the more feminine women , its not nice for my boyish girlfriend to have to fight just for us to have a dance or for us to be intimate in our own spaces
which is why we introduced women only dinner partys at each others houses , at least we know our straight female friends , are respecting us ,
they know their husbands/boyfriends arent welcome, but it hasn't stopped one friends boyfriend wanting to know what we do, we laugh, debate the issues like on here, and have some great nights