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Should we let our kids go off with strangers?

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Nightwitch · 14/10/2018 00:49

I've been thinking.

Are we wrong to tell children not to talk to strangers? After all, most strangers are completely normal, nice people. Only about 5% of the male population are paedophiles and even then, most of them aren't murderera.
Are we teaching children to discriminate against people who may very well have puppies to show off or have genuinely lost their cat?
why are we teaching our young to discriminate against over 95% of the entire population, some of whom may just be lonely or depressed or seriously proud of their litter of kittens on the tiny, tiny chance that that person might be a paedo?
It's insulting and disgusting to assume that every stranger is a pervert! Most child abuse is carried out by someone close to the child anyway, a relative or a family friend. Why punish strangers who are simply trying to live their own lives? If perverts want to attack children, they will do so whether or not, children are taught not to speak to strangers and they will be punished accordingly. Don't teach children prejudice and boundaries. They won't need them when they're older.

Would you like to see my puppies?

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AjasLipstick · 14/10/2018 00:54

I suppose it's about risk-management isn't it? Anyway...I've taught my children about "tricky adults".

Adults who try to trick them. This includes adults who talk to them about things which adults don't usually talk to children, adults who ask children for help, adults who ask children to go somewhere with them without asking me first and so on.

Not "strangers" because children are smart and mine see me chat to complete strangers on a daily basis as I'm friendly and like a ilttle chat.

Mine have also been taught to listen to their instincts.

Someone talking to them and making them feel odd? Leave. Don't speak to them anymore. Manners don't come into it.