I also should add that I don't think that any law should exist to allow people to pretend they are the sex they aren't because of dysphoria. I'm sorry it hurts, lots of other people also suffer from mental health disorders which are immensely painful and difficult to manage, including me - the pain of sex dysphoria, as bad as it might be, should not be made a special case legally because of the issues that causes for everyone else wrt privacy, safety, and truth. We need to all push for better mental health services.
I don't think this is a heartless position, this situation where sex dysphoria is treated like a special case with special legal protections (and screw the wider impact) should never have happened in the first place.