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A Gentleman In The Ladies

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Jeanhatchet · 11/10/2018 08:53

I asked for views of men in our bathroom. Either gender neutral or single sex. I collared women's views and experiences.

It makes grim and worrying reading indeed.

"It's not ALL about loos .... but it is ALSO about loos"

#AGentlemanInTheLadies

jeanhatchet.blogspot.com/2018/10/a-gentleman-in-ladies.html

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DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 12/10/2018 11:55

Re the post by Rowan: The complaint filed by the ADF noted that in July 2016, at the time the Obama administration was pushing schools to open bathrooms to transgender students, the Decatur School District adopted such a policy.

The complaint noted that the schools were warned such a policy could result in harm to students but kept the policy in place anyhow.

But. But. This would never happen!

GerdaLovesLili · 12/10/2018 11:40

Metro ratecard here:

I've been blocked on twitter by lots of the Mermaid followers who are tweeting this stuff as I'm apparently insufficiently trans-positive. But it does give me pause for thought when the last crowd-funder for WPUK didn't raise anything like that amount.

It's usually a good idea to follow the money.

A Gentleman In The Ladies
R0wantrees · 12/10/2018 11:32

9/10/18 reported case in US:
'Federal Government Targets Transgender Policy After 5-Year-Old Gets Sexually Assaulted'
(extract)
A Georgia school’s transgender bathroom policy is being examined by the U.S. Department of Education as it investigates the sexual assault of a 5-year-old girl in a school bathroom.

The Alliance Defending Freedom filed a complaint about the incident on behalf of the girl’s parent, The Associated Press reported.

The conservative group alleges that last November, a “male student who identified as gender fluid” assaulted the girl at Oakhurst Elementary School in Decatur, Georgia.

Education Department spokesman Nathan Bailey confirmed the department’s Office of Civil Rights is involved.

“The investigation focuses on the school’s response to a report of sexual assault and the examination of any and all factors that may have contributed to a hostile environment,” Bailey said." (continues)

www.westernjournal.com/federal-government-targets-transgender-policy-5-year-old-gets-sexually-assaulted/

R0wantrees · 11/10/2018 13:03

MinecraftHolmes
Its a really serious incident with huge implications.
I haven't seen a follow-up in the paper and did wonder if it had been covered on other loca or Scottish national news.

MinecraftHolmes · 11/10/2018 12:17

R0wantrees fuck I wasn't aware of that and that's my Asda! That Courier article is the only thing that could even be described as coverage in a local paper - and at that it's not "the Dunfermline paper", so most locals will be completely unaware that it happened.

R0wantrees · 11/10/2018 11:31

Dhalandchips

many people have forund this thread helpful:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me

Dhalandchips · 11/10/2018 11:29

@jean can I share your blog? I'm going to get ripped to shreds but...

Dhalandchips · 11/10/2018 11:21

Sorry @jean

Dhalandchips · 11/10/2018 11:17

Sorry, I didn't mean to upset anyone, I'm REALLY baffled by the whole trans thing and trying my very best to get my head around it. @bernard I don't use Twitter, never got my head around it either!
I'm alarmed that there are people who will believe anything they are told in the guise of political correctness.
I'm firmly in the ' women are adult human females' camp.

AngryAttackKittens · 11/10/2018 11:12

I wonder how they keep track of all the lies they tell. Maybe there's an Excel spreadsheet?

AncientLights · 11/10/2018 11:09

But so what if it did cost £45,000? I also doubt that, but it's essentially men telling us what to spend our money on. How much did Bergdorf's face cost? Could've spent that on refuges, food banks too. Jean - brilliant work, where would we be without you?

Jeanhatchet · 11/10/2018 10:53

There's some right nonsense being posted about that ad. It's a free paper so likely to have cost about £2000 not the £45000 being touted by the trans activists. No one needs to go begging the right wing churches of right wingness for £2000. FairPlay For Women raised a decent fund I believe.

Honestly - I'm surprised they can remember their own addresses the stuff they make up .

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SpannerInTheWorks · 11/10/2018 10:45

Haven't had a chance to read your article yet, Jean, but I was heartened to see this being re-tweeted on my work Twitter timeline, which has a few mainstream feminist follows but nothing overtly GC.

It's the latest in a series of Twitter mentions and retweets which I have seen in the last couple of weeks, the message does seem to be leaking out into the mainstream :)

PineappleSunrise · 11/10/2018 10:07

Yes, given how many lesbians, transexuals and bog standard lefty het women are supporting FPFW it's quite a stretch to try and get people to believe it's all a vast right wing conspiracy to keep GNC people down.

QuentinWinters · 11/10/2018 09:58

A thing has popped up on my FB page this morning about the advert in the metro. They're suggesting that the fair play for women campaign is being funded by fundamental christians from America. I'm alarmed

I've seen that too. I didn't find it alarming. Its obviously orchestrated and the TRAs must be rattled to suggest a load of left voting British women are being funded by American far right groups. Anyone with an ounce of intelligence will spot that as extremely unlikely and therefore probably a bollocks smear campaign.
It's a backlash, it shows the tide is turning

AngryAttackKittens · 11/10/2018 09:58

She said she tries not to go at school now.

In addition to all the other issues this is really not good for anyone's health. All the girls will be getting super woke urinary tract infections.

QuentinWinters · 11/10/2018 09:56

The toilet thing is annoying.
They secondary school my dd goes to has unisex toilets that open to the corridor, I asked her about it, she hates it. She hates that she can hear people walking past, she thinks they can hear her. She said she tries not to go at school now.
I don't know why this is happening, using the loo is a private experience. It's PC gorn mad, that's what it is

ADastardlyThing · 11/10/2018 09:54
Wink
AngryAttackKittens · 11/10/2018 09:53

Well actually...

ADastardlyThing · 11/10/2018 09:51

Dhala anyone can suggest anything g. For instance I could suggest that the trans movement is funded by a number of wealthy white men, one in particular from the USA too. Would that make it true?

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 11/10/2018 09:49

and I had to revise that post three times as being honest about how I feel about those people on twitter would certainly be 'not in the spirit'

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 11/10/2018 09:48

also, why are you posting on Jeans thread about the FPFW campaign?

unless you're one of the people who is throwing accusations around on twitter about the FPFW funding being linked to Jean's campaign?

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 11/10/2018 09:46

what are you alarmed Dhalandchips? That's bollocks

the FPFW campaign was funded with fivers and tenners from ordinary women like me

NothingOnTellyAgain · 11/10/2018 09:46

lolol

Because British women don't have any dollars, man.

All the money we get from sending our kids up chimneys goes on chewing tobacco and straw for our bedding.

Dhalandchips · 11/10/2018 09:44

A thing has popped up on my FB page this morning about the advert in the metro. They're suggesting that the fair play for women campaign is being funded by fundamental christians from America. I'm alarmed.

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