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So this happened today in DC’s school

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zen1 · 08/10/2018 18:58

DS told me this when he came in from school (no real names used):

12 year old DS was lining up outside maths class and the teacher told the class to go in. One of the boys (Josh) walked into the class in an ‘affected’ manner. Teacher asked Josh why he’s walking like that and Josh replies that he’s changed gender and his name’s not Josh, it’s Sarah. Teacher says, “Go and sit down and stop being ridiculous”. Josh replies, “actually you have to call me Sarah because it’s the law” (paraphrasing from DS). For the rest of the lesson, the teacher referred to Josh as Sarah (with an eye-roll according to DS). When the bell went at the end of the lesson, Josh informed the teacher that he was no longer a girl and he had changed his name back to Josh.

DS knows my feelings on self-id, which I think is why he told me, but it just sums up the whole ludicrousness of the situation. I think this boy was just having a laugh, but potentially this kind of shit could really happen, with kids just deciding they’re going to identify as the opposite sex for a couple of hours. My concern is that staff will be too worried to challenge them.

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zen1 · 08/10/2018 19:19

Agree it’s just the tip of the iceberg. All the stuff I read on here peak transes me every day, but in the back of my mind, I always thought ‘I can’t imagine any of this actually happening in my DCs schools’. Yet here we are.

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VickyEadie · 08/10/2018 19:15

Although his aim was probably just to be cheeky this young man did a good job of inadvertently highlighting the absurdity of the situation to his peers and teachers.

Didn't he just? Also, do you think this belongs in the 'this will never happen' file?

Micaela64 · 08/10/2018 19:13

Although his aim was probably just to be cheeky this young man did a good job of inadvertently highlighting the absurdity of the situation to his peers and teachers.

VickyEadie · 08/10/2018 19:05

Tip of the iceberg, I think.

PerspicaciaTick · 08/10/2018 19:03

It sounds like the teacher handled it calmly, however it sounds like the sort of behaviour which used to be labelled as homophobic bullying when done front of boys the other children had decided were gay (regardless of whether it was true).

Mumfun · 08/10/2018 19:00

God, controlling behaviour of young men being facilitated. FFS