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Magdalen Berns has posted an update

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CisMyArse · 07/10/2018 09:13

...and my heart cracked a little hearing her speak.

Love and light to you Magdalen.

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Doobigetta · 09/10/2018 18:54

Thanks, Noodle. Devastating is the word.

NoodleEatingPoodle · 09/10/2018 17:56

Doobigetta there's some information on prognosis and treatments here.

There's no escaping that glioblastoma is an absolutely devastating diagnosis. That said, they would not be putting a patient through major surgery and radiation unless there was a reasonable expectation that it would make a positive difference.

Doobigetta · 09/10/2018 14:54

I’m so sorry Magdalen has to go through this, I have so much respect for her.

Does anyone know, in her first ladybrain video she said that the tumour would eventually be fatal- is there a chance that this surgery could change that? Or can it only remove the immediate danger and not change the long-term prognosis. I’m sorry if that’s an inappropriate question, but Magdalen is so matter of fact about it, and it would be good to hear that there’s a bit of hope.

TheGirlWhoWasntThere · 08/10/2018 20:06

Oh Magdalen, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Flowers

You are an inspiration to us all.

Am thinking of you.

Sending you love.

Poppyred85 · 08/10/2018 19:57

Sending love and support to you Magdalene and so sorry to hear you have to go through this. Be kind to yourself through recovery. We’re all here cheering you on.

NaturalBornWoman · 08/10/2018 19:31

Magdalen, so sorry to hear this and sending you love and light. You are an inspirational woman, thank you for all that you do.

Now, my DD has had some trouble in the brain department over the past year, so is under a neurosurgeon. The guy has done some pioneering work on delivering chemo directly into the tumour, looking to improve outcomes for high grade glioblastoma patients. You may have all the experts you need, but I remember when DD was first diagnosed as a child, I did my own research and found out that opinions and outcomes can vary. Happy to provide details if it would be of interest. X

Farinthepast · 08/10/2018 17:41

Sending love to you Magdalen Flowers

GulagsMyArse · 08/10/2018 17:26

Madeleine, I met briefly and felt like a right idiot because I admire you so much and didn't know what to say Blush.

Your vids help me get it and really understand this whole thing. All my love to you!!!

Lefthanddown · 08/10/2018 17:25

Hope all goes well for your daughter Betsy look after yourself too.

So sorry to hear your tumor is back Magdalene. Best wishes for your op and chemo.

waterlego6064 · 08/10/2018 17:21

Just another voice joining the chorus of good wishes coming your way.

I too found it very hard to watch you deliver your news. I can’t imagine how terrifying it must be to be going through this.

See how loved you are here? I have enormous respect for your common sense, wisdom and wit. You run rings around academics twice your age in terms of cutting through to the heart of issues.

Keep going Magdalen, your MN army are behind you. 💐

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 08/10/2018 17:10

Glad you didn't mind, Floral.

doublethink · 08/10/2018 16:57

Sitting in tears watching this. Magdelen, you brilliant, brave, wonderful woman, you have impacted my life so much. I binge watched all of your videos a few months ago and haven't been the same since. Your courage and wit have inspired me and many of my friends. I hope someone is able to post this thread to her. Know that there are many women sending strength and love to you as you walk through this.

Mwnci123 · 08/10/2018 15:17

This news made me cry. Please let this brilliant, principled, clever, funny, incisive, righteous rockstar of a woman make it.

LurkbeaLady · 08/10/2018 07:43

Gods that was hard to watch.

Just wanted to add my voice to those who found Magdalen an inspiration to start the push back and to wish her a speedy recovery.

WichBitchHarpyTerfThatsMe · 08/10/2018 00:00

Shouting out much respect and admiration Magdelene. This is terrible news but you are a young, strong and resilient woman. Keep asking questions of the medical staff and keep asking no matter how irritated they might be. Take someone with you to every medical appointment as second voice and pair of ears.

You've changed lives Ms B, let us know if there's anything we can help you with.

FloralBunting · 07/10/2018 22:47

I'm actually on a self-imposed MN break right now, but as I've been @ed (quite happily for a useful purpose btw) I came along to say that yes, I am doing all that religious stuff right now for her, even though I know she'll probably think it's all cobblers, as many people do. It's my way of shouting at the darkness, by literally lighting candles. (Actually appropriate use of 'literally' there, for those new to the idea of using language properly).

Magdalen, you are totally magnificent, and you galvanized my misgivings into clear thought, and gave me the courage I needed to take a stand in my family and community. I will pray for you, and I will stick a few bob your way as well, because prayer is supposed to galvanise us into action too.

And I promise here, as I promised aloud when I saw your video, as my kids will attest to, that I will not stop fighting.

You are Boudicca to us all. Much, much love. x

LuggsaysNotaWomen · 07/10/2018 22:32

Magdelan, helps if I got her name right!!

LuggsaysNotaWomen · 07/10/2018 22:32

Heartbreaking video.

Magdeline you are the epitome of womanhood. Courageous, intelligent, witty and warm. I watched your update today and because I did, when I saw the link to email MPs about the Fair Play for Women meeting, I immeadiatly did it because I owe it to women like you who have put themselves out there on the front line. Thank you for your awesomeness, I would be very pleased if my daughter turned out like you Flowers.

Voice0fReason · 07/10/2018 22:27

Magdalen is an inspiration.
I hope she's able to get through this.

IdaBWells · 07/10/2018 22:07

I haven’t watched your update Magdalen but there is a Neurologist in this household if you ever need explanations just PM me.

Every blessing to you x

SirVixofVixHall · 07/10/2018 22:02

I will donate to the patreon. I have done that before, but with this I thought a specific fund might raise more money. However it seems sensible to just donate to Magdalen and then she can use the money for anything she might need.

WeWantJustice · 07/10/2018 21:59
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Mrscaindingle · 07/10/2018 21:56

Love love love Magdalen and like pp's it was her videos which chrystalised this argument for me with her sharp wit and dead pan humour.
I was lurking on the other thread about feeling weary re the Manchester police tweet and was (inwardly)agreeing that it just feels so hard fighting the establishment. That now seems a bit self indulgent given what Magdalen is going through, hope to see her back fighting the good fight soon.

BingBongSong · 07/10/2018 21:27

Magdalen, your video deconstructing Riley Dennis's "Your Dating Preferences" (sorry, I forget the exact title), made me laugh (with you) and rage (at Riley) in equal measure. I wish you only good in the next week and beyond, and hope that we will be hearing your brilliant, articulate and important voice again soon Flowers.

SirVixofVixHall · 07/10/2018 21:10

Agree with pp
YOU ARE COURAGEOUS AND WE ALL LOVE YOU .

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