Interesting to see this in the Guardian. I know people have been a bit uncomfortable with pieces in this slot in the past, so this makes a bit of a change. I really wanted to go below the line and refer her to the Trans Widows thread, but they'd closed comments by the time I found it on the site.
www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/05/my-life-in-sex-woman-whose-husband-is-transitioning