My feeling about the transing of kids is known, but what actually annoyed me about that was the reasons behind the campaigning to remove the 'spousal veto'.
Now, I actually think it should be made so that it's grounds for divorce, but the only acknowledgement in that 'guidance' was that the non-trans partner in the marriage may be abusive. The transwidows thread and the experience of my transwidows friend couldn't be more illustrative of how bloody DARVO that is.