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I gave all my classes this riddle this week - 3 kids got the answer.

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IHeartKingThistle · 29/09/2018 18:07

I teach secondary English. Last week as a starter I gave all my classes (Yr 7s, 8s and 9s) some riddles to solve and this was one of them:

A man and his son are in a car accident and are rushed to hospital. When they arrive the doctor looks at the boy and exclaims 'I can't operate on him, he's my son!' How can this be?

Some kids guessed that the boy had 2 dads in a gay relationship, which could technically be correct of course. But it only occurred to 3 kids out of nearly 100 that the doctor could be a woman. Not one of the Year 7s thought of it.

In this day and age? I couldn't believe it!

They got a nice little lecture on feminism as a bonus that lesson Grin

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RebelRogue · 29/09/2018 21:26

surgeon a mechanic and a lawyer.

Again just an assumption,but i guess PP didn't think at first that there would be women too in those professions so was confused how Bob was identified straight away from 3 men present?

Saisong · 29/09/2018 21:23

Y7 DD got it right away.
Y4 DS said the Dad was also a doctor, so I told him the Dad was unconscious so he immediately went with Mum, but then followed it up with "so isn't that a nurse". To be fair he did just think nurses and doctors were the same job.

LassWiADelicateAir · 29/09/2018 21:15

I assume it's because Bob was the only man in the room?

Well yes- but what unconcious bias is being shown in arresting Bob?

RebelRogue · 29/09/2018 21:08

I assume it's because Bob was the only man in the room?

LassWiADelicateAir · 29/09/2018 21:03

Had you said the detective instantly arrested Bob I wouldn't have assumed the detective was a man.

pickledhegg11 · 29/09/2018 21:02

I just asked my DS5 and I actually fist pumped the air when he said the Mum.

Unfortunately he then let me down when he went on to say...but girl Doctors are called Nurses Shock

Safe to say he's just had a before bed chat about equality and feminism.

LassWiADelicateAir · 29/09/2018 21:02

You will have to explain this one. Bob is a man's name. If only one of the surgeon, engineer and lawyer is a man the detective will arrest the man.

The detective might well be a woman but you have told us he is a man too.

NoFucksImAQueen · 29/09/2018 20:45

I'm ashamed to say that we were asked a similar riddle on my access course but with a detective overhearing "no bob" and then a gun shot. in the room was a surgeon a mechanic and a lawyer but he instantly arrested bob. I did not get the answer despite being an avid feminist 😳
it just shows how deeply ingrained it is

NopeNi · 29/09/2018 20:44

Would the equivalent be...

A woman and her daughter rush to the GP clinic for a sexual health check (?). The nurse says "I can't treat her, she's my daughter."

Alwaysatyke · 29/09/2018 20:41

As a PP said it's loading your thoughts before it starts by having both main "characters" as male. I'd also say with these kind of riddles you're programmed to look for a cryptic answer not an obvious one*

*saying this is a female working in a male dominated area of healthcare who automatically looked for a more complicated answer

LassWiADelicateAir · 29/09/2018 20:39

bumpitybumpity image in my mind whilst reading that was of a female doctor saying they can't opperate. It's definitely a factor (for me at least). After visualising two males/females the next person of unspecified sex I imagine as the same sex as the previous two

My first reaction to Bumpity's re-write was it's a lesbian couple, not a father.

Di11y · 29/09/2018 20:38

Bumpity bumper, you could also make it a dad and his daughter, so still the less obvious female doctor but I do think daughter = > mother is more logical than son => mother

mummabearfourbabybears · 29/09/2018 20:36

This same example is also used for psychological influencing experiments. It's not unbiased in its asking. A man and his son. It's influencing gender in its description so although I get your point it is certainly not a neutral starting point to ask for a fair representation of answer.

Racecardriver · 29/09/2018 20:36

@bumpitybumpity image in my mind whilst reading that was of a female doctor saying they can't opperate. It's definitely a factor (for me at least). After visualising two males/females the next person of unspecified sex I imagine as the same sex as the previous two.

Racecardriver · 29/09/2018 20:32

The nature of the riddle is such that it encourages the assumption that the doctor is a man. I've had Wem doctors in my family since my grandmother's generation. I nearly became a doctor myself. This isn't a feminist issue. Merely a riddle.

inchoccyheaven · 29/09/2018 20:30

Dsd14 didnt get it first time she said another dad so gay couple, ds16 said mum first or gay couple and ds18 and uni mates said lots of male relatives and adoption etc before mum and then questioned whether doctors can operate on family.
We are same sex couple so partly pleased they considered gay couple but still disappointed 2 out of 23 didn't say mum first.

trilbydoll · 29/09/2018 20:29

We went to A&E the other week and DD (3yo) complained all the way home that the dr had not checked her. I think it was because it was a female Dr Blush too much Dr Ranj maybe? I don't even know how she can have absorbed it at such a young age! All our GPs are women, they're the only other drs that she's seen.

pickleface · 29/09/2018 20:29

*happy

SirVixofVixHall · 29/09/2018 20:29

I just asked dd (11) and DH. Dd said “has he got two dads ? “ and DH , rather bafflingly said “ oh , is it his granddad ?” Hmm .
I’m horrified !

pickleface · 29/09/2018 20:29

Dd13 said isn't she allowed because she doesn't want to cut into her son. Hair with that.

Ds8 said, what, don't get it 😅

LassWiADelicateAir · 29/09/2018 20:28

great clip, and lovely to see the fab Lucy Masoud in there

It is. I tried this riddle out on my son a while back and he did get it right.

ContessasGulagSpaDay · 29/09/2018 20:27

DS1 just guessed at the two gay dads solution. I'm his mum and I have a fucking doctorate!!

HawkeyeInConfusion · 29/09/2018 20:27

DD(7) got it right straight away.

I've done something right.

JFDINow · 29/09/2018 20:27

My 7 year old daughter said "it's his mum" Smile

Bumpitybumper · 29/09/2018 20:23

A woman and her daughter are in a car accident and are rushed to hospital. When they arrive the doctor looks at the girl and exclaims 'I can't operate on her, she's my daughter!' How can this be?

I wonder if the riddle was written as the above, many people would guess that the doctor was the girl's father? That would be a way to test whether it's the language used that's driving the results I guess?

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