So I have 2 DS aged 8 and 11. Whilst they're in primary they are pretty well protected (small school). I know that when they hit the huge secondary they will be hearing a lot more views other than mine.
Even now, their language sometimes surprises me, talking about someone having "gender issues". Ds2 is not typically gender conforming either, luckily he is confident, but want him to have a good grounding / understanding before he is subject to the views of activists.
When did you start having these discussions and how? So far it's just been emphasising that there is no "girl or boy toys ", just things you like or don't. When do kids start picking up the party lines (that TWAW, that you can choose to be girl or boy etc.)?