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Parent killer blames murder on lack of gender affirmation by parents

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doedoe90303811 · 19/09/2018 17:27

Andrea, formerly Andrew, killed parents & their pet chihuahua. Andrea allowed brother Christopher to escape.

www.centralmaine.com/2017/10/25/winthrop-teenager-tells-police-dispatcher-i-snapped-on-the-night-he-is-accused-of-killing-his-parents/

Andrea has long blamed the murders on the lack of affirmation of gender identity by the parents, but has now come up with a new excuse, that mum was overly affectionate.

www.pressherald.com/2018/09/15/winthrop-teen-alleges-abuse-preceded-slayings/

We are expected to use female pronouns to refer to this monster.

Parent killer blames murder on lack of gender affirmation by parents
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WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 20/09/2018 00:37

Psychopaths can.

Welshmaiden85 · 20/09/2018 00:13

To my mind, definitionally if you murder your parents you are mentally unwell. This kid either has some serious psychiatric condition or was seriously abused by someone. Normal young people don’t murder their parents.

DuckingGoodPJs · 20/09/2018 00:00

Wow, the Big Mac of defences - one with The Lot. Balcer is hoping one of them will stick so they can get off from double parricide, going for 'crazy, but not too crazy as to be locked up in a mental institution for life'.

Premeditated murder - did he also deliberately do this before turning 18 to avoid adult justice system? He seemed more upset about killing the dog to be honest.

The timing was impeccable. Little tiny dog "collateral damage". The mother morphed from being 'too caring' into a sexual child abuser and animal torturer (hint to Balcer, statistically more believable if they had accused the father of those things), father 'transphobic', tinnitus turns someone into a psycho killer, and...

Killed them on Halloween.
He wants someone to make movies about him.

Perhaps the film version will have the chihuahua relaying homicidal instructions via the tone that only Balcer and the dog could hear?

At least the brother no longer feels sorry for Balcer, and is angered by the lack of genuine remorse. Good for Christopher, there comes a point when whatever issues are not even an excuse, and the person should be held to account. Particularly when genuine remorse is nowhere to be seen.

The trans thing, just another red herring. No doubt the TRAs will still scramble to Balcer's defence though.

BettyDuMonde · 19/09/2018 21:10

(I suppose murdering your allegedly non-affirming parents was always going to be the next stage, after the suicide threats stop working?

Those who threaten suicide are statistically more likely to commit domestic homicide)

BettyDuMonde · 19/09/2018 21:07

Killed them on Halloween.
He wants someone to make movies about him.

Norman Bates was a cross dresser, of course. Sheltering under the edge of the Stonewall umbrella.

This is starting to feel like a really depressing parlour game: ‘Real Trans/Fake Trans?’

Just please, please don’t lock any women or girls in with him.

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 19/09/2018 20:29

fall

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 19/09/2018 20:28

He could just be a cold blooded, lying murdering fuck like Ted Bundy that would talk shit about made up parental abuse that gullible psychologist feel over themselves to believe.

DickTERFin · 19/09/2018 19:44

I'm not sure exactly where the best place for him to be is, but I know it isn't in a female facility.

I suspect this was deeply premeditated and the month before his 18th Birthday was not by accident. We'll probably never know if there was any abuse in the home. It's quite possible that he has severe mental health/personality issues and has been abused in some way.

WhereDoWeBeginToCovetClarice · 19/09/2018 19:34

Probably a psychopath.

Theswaggyotter · 19/09/2018 19:17

Premeditated murder - did he also deliberately do this before turning 18 to avoid adult justice system? He seemed more upset about killing the dog to be honest.
I suspect he has deep mental health problems and may be better in a mental health hospital than prison (but don’t know how that works in USA)

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 19:02

I wonder if he will ever realise what he has done to his parents and brother. All he seems to be concerned with is mememe.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 19/09/2018 18:59

Even if it does drive you to murder the accused is certainly attempting to cover the waterfront when it comes to their defence

Or probably defences

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 18:57

Or tinnitus. Lots of people in my family have tinnitus. Whilst it may make you feel thy you want to rip your ears off I can't say it's driven anyone to murder.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 19/09/2018 18:47

festering

I saw the curl comment as well...ridiculous whoever they are describing

AspieAndProud · 19/09/2018 18:44

*He also talked about hearing an occasional “tone” in his head that affects his thinking.

“I figured it’s 13 kilohertz, just a high-pitched, constant tone,” he said, adding that it was present around the time of the slaying as well.*

I've heard about this before. It was in The X-Files and a recent Criminal Minds

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Hum

It could be sounds generated by the inner ear.

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 18:25

He'd've blamed Satan or the communists.

NotTerfNorCis · 19/09/2018 18:19

I doubt that if this had happened 20 years ago he would have identified as female. It would probably not have crossed his mind.

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 18:06

His brother calls him 'he'. That says aot to be honest.

happydappy2 · 19/09/2018 18:01

Clearly he is a male, he has killed two innocent people who were also his parents....he should be referred to as he. I don’t think people should be allowed to have SRS if they are in a prison (then transfer to the women’s prison.)
Just so sad on so many levels.

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 18:00

It sounds like a disturbed violent individual looking for a cause. It could very easily have been a violent religious cult persuading him to go and blow himself up.

SlowlyShrinking · 19/09/2018 17:58

I wonder if it’s a case of him feeling ‘not right’ and latching onto transgenderism as a possible reason, the number getting lots of affirmation that his parents won’t understand him?

Angharad07 · 19/09/2018 17:58

The monster may also be trying to fake the symptoms of a mental illness so that his defence can plead for a more lenient sentence on the grounds of insanity...

CrackpotsArePots · 19/09/2018 17:57

We do not know whether he was abused

We do not know whether he was groomed online, as you allude to

It's just all very very tragic.

And for God's sake, let's hope he is treated, and he is not put in a woman's facility

AsAProfessionalFekko · 19/09/2018 17:57

Hard reading. Was he never diagnosed with mental illness?

SlowlyShrinking · 19/09/2018 17:56

He sounds very disturbed

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