I'm home and already in bed. Journey back was a breeze thankfully compared to the traffic nightmare on Friday.
I've spent most of the drive reflecting on the GRA debate and these are my impressions (bear in mind I'm obviously coming from this from a particular viewpoint:
Those that were pro self id:
Compared the trans struggle with that of lesbians and gays 50 years ago.
Went into hyperbole about inclusivity and equality for all women.
Were articulate and persuasive.
Seemed assured that they would stay in the party and win the day.
Seemed less willing to listen, and in some cases were dismissive of concerns.
Those that were concerned about aspects of self id (i.e. not even against it):
Had direct experience of providing services to vulnerable women most at risk from predatory and/or abusive men.
Seemed more willing to talk, debate, find a third way.
Seemed more willing to walk away from WEP if they felt they had "lost".
Had to be more apologetic in language and tone, had to preface remarks to reassure people they weren't transphobic.
It seems even the most respectful, gentle request for concerns to be heard were viewed negatively. The completely inoffensive FPFW leaflet was held up by one speaker as disgusting. God knows what they think of Sticker Woman 