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Stella Creasey is on a guest post invoking SEX as a protected characteristic for legislation!

231 replies

BarrackerBarmer · 04/09/2018 17:46

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/guest_posts/3355761-Stella-Creasy-guest-post-If-MNers-act-today-you-can-help-make-street-harassment-a-hate-crime

Right now!

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AngryAttackKittens · 04/09/2018 23:23

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 04/09/2018 23:22

I’m really confused about who posted a post partum photo of someone and where they did it.

BettyDuMonde · 04/09/2018 23:19

Tried to post this but the thread disapparated

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I looked like a bloated, dead, fish postpartum.

It’s a funny night on Mumsnet when shaming new mums is ok, but criticising porn isn’t.

Better hurry up with the anti misogyny laws, us women clearly need them to stay safe.

Vickyyyy · 04/09/2018 22:58

Sietersofmercy and stefiewoodcock are clearly tagteam TRAs.

I just had a reply deleted, that was in reply to stefies suggestion that basically the meaning of misogyny needs to be widened to include male people, for fucks sake. But this

I've reported those comments to the mods. Apologies for that horrendous abuse, hopefully those abusive trolls will be removed.

Along with other questionable comments, kind of proves that they are just trying to get women banned.

AngryAttackKittens · 04/09/2018 22:41

Agreed that late the day before is not the time you ask if you are an organized person genuinely trying to muster support. Would most MPs even read new messages from constituents just before the vote?

Vickyyyy · 04/09/2018 22:35

Come on, MN alone cannot take the blame. Stella herself must have known that this would come up!

I thought the point of guestposts rather than webchats was that they didn't have to engage anyway..

I am suspicious of Stellas motives, to be honest, if its tomorrow. She must know that not many MPs will be able to do anything at a days notice? And that many won't even check their emails tonight.

HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 04/09/2018 22:33

As I said on the other thread:
And what’s the betting if this doesn’t go through it will all be down to Mumsnetters? Despite us only being approached late in the day, the day before.

AngryAttackKittens · 04/09/2018 22:29

Another one agreeing with Lang. Stella is a politician - if she'd been prepped that this was a question likely to come up she'd have had an answer ready, and expected the question to come up. MNHQ must have known it would come up. Any egg on their faces is due to not planning appropriately, and should not be blamed on the wimminz being too uppity.

maryzisbanned · 04/09/2018 22:22

This is what I was trying to post:

That thread is making me feel physically ill.

I haven't found you lot on Reddit (or wherever you are) yet, but I might have to.

I can't believe they deleted ReluctantCamper's post (and mine), reinstated it, and then lied about it Shock

AccioWine · 04/09/2018 22:21

Oh no maryz that is bad news. Proper shitty. I'm sorry.

maryzisbanned · 04/09/2018 22:20

As in, I've been logged out and can't log back in.

maryzisbanned · 04/09/2018 22:20

Looks like I've been banned for the first time in 17 years.

Oh well, nice knowing you all.

I think it's bed time Grin

Wanderabout · 04/09/2018 22:16

It is impossible to have a dialogue about women's issues with a person who denies what and who women are.

This

Vickyyyy · 04/09/2018 22:10

I don't understand how posters asking about self ID and such are stopping others from contributing to the thread. Nor how GC posters are apparently making people miss this once in a lifetime opportunity for women. HOW? Stellas not engaging anyway, so surely every post made bumps the thread so more women actually see it.

Bit sick of this new trend of accusing GC posters of being either anti-children or anti-women mind.

Vickyyyy · 04/09/2018 22:04

My replies on that thread were before I read this one. Yes it is suspect that stonewall (arguably one of the most misogynistic organisations around, in their current form) were consulted on this. This does make me suspect this ammendment, and the reason for it.

AccioWine · 04/09/2018 22:01

It's all a bit of a shit show, currently.
I wonder if this is the new #no debate? #debate but only within these parameters I have set?
Furious calls of derailing and silencing other voices, as if there is limited space for debate.
But then again my paranoia has begun to get the better of me.

HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 04/09/2018 22:01

The gas lighting on that other thread!
I’ve felt the need to screenshot all of my posts on it.

Maryzsnewaccount · 04/09/2018 21:55

So this thread is back

I've just been deleted for saying that deleting and reinstating posts, and then telling posters they've said things they haven't said is gaslighting.

ffs

BarrackerBarmer · 04/09/2018 20:26

The upskirting thing I can support, and I'm amazed it refers to the protected characteristic sex.

The misogyny proposals I have no doubt will be written to bake into our laws that woman means blah and misogyny means hatred of blah and to prove misogyny you have to identify as blah and agree that you are part of a common group of other blahs.

You can have some rights, but only if you "repeat after me" that twaw and you are exactly the same as they are.

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BarrackerBarmer · 04/09/2018 20:22

It is impossible to have a dialogue about women's issues with a person who denies what and who women are.

Without mutual understanding there cannot ever be progress.

It's pointless for a twaw advocate to talk about issues specific to women whilst simultaneously holding the view that every single member of the human race might, by virtue of a declaration, be a woman.

I don't understand why they bother. There can be no specific issues or oppression unique to a class of people if every single person can be in that class and there is nothing differenting them from any other class, save for the three particular consonants and two vowels on their label.

I can't engage with this nonsense thinking.
This dishonesty.
Having to guess, constantly, which version of 'woman' the speaker might mean, and whether they mean the opposite in fact.

Would Stella support any measure which protected the female sex, IF it meant being accurate and truthful and factual and this excluded every member of the male sex from coverage under that particular measure?

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HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 04/09/2018 20:06

Stella's belief that transwomen are women is misogynistic

Agreed.

I’m not forwarding this onto anyone else lest it sew women up onto a tight little box under law, that includes male bodies.

AccioWine · 04/09/2018 19:54

Maryz I know, it's unlikely. Ever the optimist me Grin Not really, but I am despairing at this point and willing to hope for a miracle!

ijustwannadance · 04/09/2018 19:43

'Why grandma, what big teeth you have.
All the better to eat you with my dear'

Not buying it, sorry. Read between the lines. They are asking women to be complicit in their erasure. Stonewall's involvement is huge red flag for me.

"we're asking the Government to commit to a full review of all hate crime which includes misogyny"

As posie asked on the other thread, if a trans women abuses a woman is that misogyny? What other hate crimes do they want reviewing exactly?
If they can't get speaking about our pesky biology made a hate crime they will find a work around. Like adding xy to the definition of women then they can claim anything GC is misogynistic because of their legal sex status.

tiredandweary · 04/09/2018 19:36

I agree with LangCleg
At the time I couldn't see how it could have been handled better but, yes MNHQ should have anticipated this.
Having said that, I am uncomfortable that a really important issue was hijacked by this. Stella Creasy is a good constituency MP and she faces an uphill battle to be reselected. She also puts her head above the parapet for women's issues time after time. I totally disagree with her views about TWAW etc but that doesn't stop me recognising a bloody good woman and feminist MP.
She has to face the misogynists day after day, including those itching to deselect her and I'm not going to add myself to the list of those opposing positive measures for women because I'm frustrated at her views on TWAW.

redshoeblueshoe · 04/09/2018 19:27

Maryz Grin