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Nearly a quarter of girls aged 14 self harm

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HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 29/08/2018 05:46

[http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-45329030]]

“A survey of 11,000 children found 22% of the girls and 9% of the boys said they had hurt themselves on purpose in the year prior to the questionnaire.”

This just breaks my heart. I dabbled with a little bit of self harm when I was about 16-17 but I cut it out pretty quickly. It makes me so sad to think of so many young people (22% of girls!) going through this.

22% of 14 year old girls is staggering.

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Saisong · 29/08/2018 12:27

And now those kids are being told that all their problems will magically disappear if they simply change gender.

It's the ultimate self harm really isn't it Sad

ijustwannadance · 29/08/2018 12:17

And now those kids are being told that all their problems will magically disappear if they simply change gender.

IndominusRex · 29/08/2018 12:12

Figure would be higher than a quarter of girls if they included binding in the definition of self harm.

Seriously how are people not adding up 2+2 correctly in the face of so much evidence???

SimonBridges · 29/08/2018 12:10

What I found interesting about this is this bit:

A separate survey of 10- to 17-year-olds and their parents across 2,000 households, also included in The Children's Society report, found the children were unhappiest with school and their appearance.
This research also suggests that boys and girls are often harmed by gender stereotypes.
Those who felt boys should be tough and girls should have nice clothes were least happy with life.

That last sentence speaks volumes. Children who feel that they don’t meet gender stereotypes are unhappy.

We need feminism now more than ever given this.
We also need to look very closely at toxic masculinity.

LadybirdsAreBirds · 29/08/2018 08:45

Having

Yes. I think it's really no coincidence that girls are self-harming to this extent in the climate of:

Academic pressure
Allied with the pornification of girls and women
Allied with the absolute obsession with perfect looks and adhering to sterotypical idea of femininity

It's a pressure cooker

And I see daughters of friends of mine, who are really good at expressing their feminist ideas and standing up at school against being made to wear skirts, then tripping of to Pride with their pink hair, little realising how little of a fuck Pride gives about them and their female bodies and their female experience

HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 29/08/2018 05:55

www.theguardian.com/society/2018/aug/29/quarter-of-14-year-old-girls-in-uk-have-self-harmed-report-finds?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

The Children’s Society report suggested that both boys and girls can be harmed by gender stereotypes and the pressure to live up to them. Children said they felt under pressure from friends to be good-looking, but those who felt boys should be tough and girls should have nice clothes were least happy with life.

And what are schools and other services pushing with this current agenda? Gender stereotypes FFS.

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HavingALittleBabyToolshed · 29/08/2018 05:47

Hopefully clicky

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-45329030

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