Like all the other words, (transphobic, terf, etc,) the term 'hate speech' is getting diluted to the point of ridicule.
People will read. The advertisers, the readership. They will read what is being termed hate speech.
Women wanting to talk about a law change, and pointing out that one protected characteristic does not trump others, simply isn't hate speech.
Women pointing out the sexual motivation underpinning the transition of some men, isn't hate speech.
Women wanting safety isn't hate speech.
Even if you vehemently disagree with what women are saying, it still isn't hate speech.
People either think you're a snowflake millennial without a clue, or you have a hidden agenda. The words hate speech are increasingly being put in inverted commas as they get applied to more and more ludicrous situations.