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Witch hunts and gender-critical feminists

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heresyandwitchcraft · 16/08/2018 01:43

As you may have surmised from my username, I see parallels between the witch-hunts of yesteryear and the current movement to label gender-critical women T*RFs alongside disturbing calls to use violence against such females.

I personally have found it interesting to briefly look back at the history of witch trials to get some perspective on the misogyny I perceive in this "debate." Being accused of witchcraft in many countries was (and in some places still is!) a charge disproportionately leveled at females. One might idly ponder if current transgender ideology arguably relies too heavily on belief in an unproveable/"supernatural" force (e.g. that of the "feminine/masculine" essence that transcends biology) and whether there are commonalities between such views and the beliefs in magic of yore. Who knows? Certainly both "sides" in this "debate" appear to accuse each other of moral panic, and persecution.

However, it is definitely worth thinking about historical misogyny. In my post these will be predominantly from a European perspective. I recently found out that "scolding" used to be an actual crime - reserved predominantly for angry, quarrelsome females for speaking out of turn, gossiping, or behaving rudely. This was punishable by the "cucking stool," where she would be strapped to a chair and dunked underwater. Or she might be made to wear what was known as a "scold's bridle"/"witch's bridle," which physically prevented her from speaking lest she cut her tongue, and was typically accompanied by public humiliation.

During many witch trials, once you were labelled a witch you either confessed your sins for a quick execution or you professed your innocence. If you kept denying witchery, you would be systematically broken down using brutal means. In some places, they would tie you up and throw you in the water first to test the witchcraft accusation. If you floated then your witchcraft was confirmed and you would meet a very grim fate. If you sank then you were innocent but at high risk of drowning. You'd likely be asked to name your "co-conspirators," so that the hunters could root out all the witches in the area. Importantly, there was usually no dignified way out once you were branded a witch.

One might ask whether there are any similar principles of misogyny that hold true now. I have stopped worrying as much about being called a modern witch because these historical examples weirdly remind me (eerily) of what women are currently being asked to do: shut up, stop thinking about certain issues, and play nice to keep the peace. I do not think it was an accident that there is a feminist theory that midwives (those specialists of the female body) allegedly were over-represented in being accused of witchcraft. I do not think it is completely out of the blue that it is now the female body which is again being erased from the public domain - only to be spoken of in hushed, convoluted terms. I do not think it is merely coincidental that some trans activists wonder whether women even exist, much less have the authority to speak with authority on the female experience. And I certainly do not think it's outside the pattern for misogyny that the main people being targeted in this debate are dissenting females, with some corners of the internet seeming to wish to enforce corporeal punishment on women simply for speaking, as a consequence for not acquiescing completely to an ideology.

All I can say is that I may very well be considered to be an evil witch. I know in my own heart that I have no ill-intent towards anyone, but I have no way of proving this. I have come to terms with that idea. I now take accusations against other people with a healthy pinch of skepticism - the way I would have wanted society to consider those accused of witchcraft in the past. I try to continually re-evaluate my own position and carefully examine evidence. Throughout all this I have only kept thinking it is important for the other "witches" to be able to have their opinions heard instead of calling for them to be burned at the stake.

Thanks MN for still allowing us to express ourselves. Special thanks to all the heretics, especially the ones who display so much courage and patience on a daily basis. I personally have come to see this moment in history as just the latest in a long line of outspoken women who are being outcast for daring to have an unorthodox point of view. Women still have voices, even though they may not get the respect that a man who is defending free speech might be afforded, or get any of the broad institutional support provided to some trans rights activists.

Perhaps it is considered uncouth for a woman to say that females are real and exist as their own category, unified by their sex. Humans cannot change their reproductive sex.
Females matter. Feminism was designed to help females.
Please keep talking.
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Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 18/08/2018 20:20

I should add that some accounts are even more graphic about the tortures that the accused were put to - fixed to walls with the scold's bridle or having pins driven under the finger nails. I'm not sue that we can ascribe these specifically, but they were definitely in use at the time. It would mean that these poor souls really were a bloody mess when they came to trial and execution.

2rebecca · 18/08/2018 19:21

Loving the lessons on witches. I have 4 books on witchcraft (worried my current husband when I set them up on the bookshelf when we moved in together!) A mix of history of witchcraft history and a bonkers one on "mastering witchcraft with actual spells and chants in it. I studied herbal medicine as well as normal medicine and at one point was the only NHS herbalist in Scotland hence the fascination.

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 18/08/2018 19:16

The North Berwick trials are fascinating for so many reasons: cultural, political and social. Although people may not be familiar with the events themselves, they have passed into popular imagination as the standard by which we view witches in the UK. The report “News from Scotland” which sensationalized the events described the Sabbat, the spells etc. It influences literature, notably Macbeth in which the witches talk of sailing in sieves and raising storms as they were reported to have done in NB and also Burns’ Tam O’Shanter who stumbles on the night gathering at a kirk. It’s also important because we clearly see witchcraft allegations being used as a political tool to destroy rivals and as a way King James attempted to assert his personal authority and promote his version of monarchy. We don’t really know how many of the witches died, but it seems that the trials implicated around 70-100 people many of whom would have been executed.

The trials began in 1590 and, while there had been a few small witch trials before this, they really mark the start of a concentrated period of witch hunts in Scotland which continue for about 100 years. I've mentioned the difference between countries before and the disparity between Scotland and England is of especial note. It is estimated that Scotland - or more specifically lowland Scotland - executed approximately twice the number of witches as her southern neighbour despite her population being a fraction of England's. In fact the intensity of Scotland’s witch hunt years was possibly second only to the Holy Roman Empire. Some argue that the character of James and his interest in the subject was a contributing factor (to which I shall return) but the key elements we see elsewhere of economic hardship, political instability and religious turbulence are much more marked in Scotland than England. In the case of the East Lothian women, there is clear evidence of aspects of the old religion and superstitions coming into conflict with the new Calvinist kirk.

Events begin when the marriage of James VI and Anne of Denmark is arranged. Anne attempts to sail to Scotland in the Autumn of 1589 but is delayed by storms and driven back to Norway. Storms off Scotland, meanwhile, drown a Scottish lady-in-waiting. James then declares that he will go to Norway himself and fetch his bride. This is slightly unusual, but James was perhaps looking to asset some personal authority - he declares that he is “a true prince” and not “an irresolute ass”. Behind this may be the fear that some of his nobles had whispered that he was actually the illegitimate son of Rizzio, that his many years as a minor governed by his courtiers has left him vulnerable, and that his homosexuality is suspected. He leaves in charge his cousins Lennox and Bothwell.

James arrived in Norway despite more gales and he and Anne returned safely (if storm-tossed) to Scotland in the spring of 1590. Meanwhile, the Danish Admiral alleged that the storms which endangered Anne were caused by a Danish witch (specifically someone with whom he’d quarrelled): as James and Anne arrived in Edinburgh, executions took place in Denmark, news of which reached Scotland later in the summer. This then raises the question of whether witches were also working against the king in Scotland and in November a likely candidate is found in Geillis Duncan of Tranent, a servant who had suddenly acquired healing skills. According to News from Scotland, Geillis’ own master applied torture to force a confession and then searched her for the devil’s mark - she broke and began to implicate several other people.

Quick digression here: the use of torture was prohibited in England (although things like sleep deprivation etc were used) but not in Scotland. However, if Duncan’s master did take it upon himself to use thumbscrews, this was illegal. The official records of the confessions and depositions do not mention torture at all, but while News may be exaggerated and salacious, the author was in no doubt that it had been applied. We also have a letter stating that Robert Greyson, one of the accused, died from “the extremity of the tortures applied to him” and fear of the boot was alleged to have played a part in the testimony of Ritchie Graham.

Amongst those accused by Duncan were Agnes Sampson and John Fian (aka Cunningham) the schoolmaster of Prestonpans. The first is often said to have been a respected midwife, although her status may have been exaggerated. In the initial examination, she comes across as a traditional local cunning woman of some reputation: she admits to some folk cures - rubbing whisky on the laird’s son and saying a prayer over him for example. As her place as a central figure in the testimony of the other witches is magnified, she is ascribed a great deal of diabolical knowledge and a central role in the political plot. By this point, Agnes had already been executed, so she could not speak for herself.

News is clear that both of them were put to severe torture: Agnes initially refusing to confess until she was shaven (to reveal hidden marks) and had a rope tightened around her head. A mark was supposedly found on her genitals. The boot was used on Fian.

Under this pressure they both admitted to travelling to a gathering of witches at the kirk in North Berwick (the remains of which stand by the harbour near the new seabird centre) having sailed out into the Forth in sieves. Geillies Duncan played a jew’s harp and sang while they danced widdershins around the church, the doors of which were then blown open and they entered to meet the devil. The devil apparently suggested that they should kiss his buttocks as a sign of loyalty (they were cold and hard), he then inveighed against the king as his greatest enemy (which no doubt pleased James) and ordered them to raise spells against him. To do this they dug up some corpses and ground the joints to powder and also threw a black cat (to which the limbs of a man had been stitched) into the sea.

We don’t have the record of John Fian’s confession, but his dittay (indictment) is interesting as it has many more of the elements we recognise from the continental records (and works like Malleus and Summis Disiderantes) and is more reflective and religious in tone. His position as school teacher would account for this greater level of education and literacy. Fian spoke of the devil carrying him through the air to “many mountains” and, apparently, travelled in spirit to the Sabbat - “soughing athwart the earth” - while his body lay in bed unlike the others who, more prosaically, rode or went on foot. At his execution, Fian is said to have recanted and claimed innocence.

James took an extraordinary interest in the trials and apparently interviewed the suspects himself. Initially sceptical (because witches must be liars), he was said to have been persuaded of the power of the witches by Agnes Sampson recounting what passed between him and Anne on their wedding night. Perhaps, again, we detect James’s unease with allegations against his virility and there is also the flattering suggestion that he is the devil’s greatest adversary.

At this stage, the trials become political.

Francis Hepburn Earl of Bothwell was the nephew Mary Queen of Scots third husband and cousin to James. James had left him as Lennox’s deputy while he was in Norway and in charge of the fleet. Bothwell was clever and cultured but also arrogant and violent - he had a tendency to indulge in feuds and in the course of one he murdered several members of the Hume family. This was not entirely uncommon for Scottish nobles of the period and kings had long found their most powerful subjects hard to contain. Unsurprisingly, Bothwell had enemies and they saw the witch trials as an opportunity to snare him. In April 1591, it was alleged that Agnes Sampson had implicated him in the plot to murder the king. By this point, Agnes was dead - she was strangled and burnt in January - so another accused, Ritchie Graham was persuaded to testify and two women of higher social status, Barbara Napier and Euphame MacCalzean were implicated (again through the post mortem testimony of Sampson) as they had plausible links to Bothwell. The allegations of treason and the use of image-magic to kill the king become more pronounced. MacCalzean was well connected in the legal world and she had many defenders, nevertheless, she was sentenced to be burned alive.

It is ironic that the allegation that the devil worked through women because of their weakness in order to destroy the king was also the modus operandi of Bothwell’s enemies. I have mentioned the men implicated in the trial, but overall they were in a substantial minority and all of a poorer class. Once the accusations began to affect those of higher status, it was naturally the women who were most at risk.

Bothwell escaped and the next couple of years saw the power balance between him and the king shift several times. On one occasion Bothwell mounted a successful coup and he gained an acquittal and recovered his confiscated estates. James eventually managed to oust him, drive him into permanent exile and persuade the presbytery to excommunicate him. He died a broken man in Italy.

Using allegations of witchcraft to discredit rivals was not a new thing (see, for example Eleanor Cobham, Duchess of Gloucester) and would continue to feature in future trials but this gained such a traction that many would come to believe that the witches had indeed gathered at the kirk at the behest of Bothwell and it would later be said that he attended in person disguised as the devil with the bare buttocks.

For James, the event solidified many of his views of kingship as an office ordained by God. He wrote Demonology which becomes a standard witch-finder text in the British isles. In it, he harks back to the testimony of Fian when he speaks of witches “being carried by the force of the Spirit… either above the earth or above the sea”. He also says that there are 20 female witches for one man and gives the reason “that sex is frailer than man is, so it is easier to be entrapped in those gross snares of the devil, as was over-proved to be true by the serpent’s deceiving of Eva”. On ascending to the throne in England, James brought in harsher punishments for witchcraft: the mere act would now carry a hanging sentence whereas before this was reserved for murder by magic. Yet, for all this, James considered himself a rational man and many in his new kingdom like Reginald Scott were deeply sceptical of witches, arguing that to overstate their power reduced God’s. James also drew a line between attacks upon the Royal house (which were naturally dealt with harshly) and those between his subjects when he enjoyed acting as the impartial, wise judge. In fact, he had in his day a reputation for using his expertise to expose fraud in cases of witch-trials and he intervened to save several witches in Leicester as well as taking a great interest in debunking the case of Anne Gunter.

I think, perhaps, most crucially James and the Church of England didn’t need witches to the extent that he and the Kirk had done in Scotland. That is what is so fascinating and horrific: the death of women as a major political tool.

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 18/08/2018 19:06

Right, I'm really sorry but I got a bit carried away. I'm afraid this is going to be long...

PeakPants · 18/08/2018 12:49

I sense some (possible but understandable) defence in your post. No one (GC) has actually ever said that, but the accusations have been along those lines.

Yes, that was my point. We are accused of being like the apartheid regime, but nobody has ever suggested that. It would be like men started saying that the idea of women's sports was man-hating and anti-men (to be fair, there probably are some idiots who do say that).

DuckingGoodPJs · 18/08/2018 11:14

Interesting thread.

Just going back to what Pants said:
I am not like apartheid supporters because I do not want to segregate trans people from the rest of society.

I sense some (possible but understandable) defence in your post. No one (GC) has actually ever said that, but the accusations have been along those lines. It is a false claim though, because it relies on the parallel of those in power excluding those without power. Women still don't have equal representation in politics or the boardroom or in the pay packet - so we are hardly the ones 'in power' to discriminate against another group.

If the TRA had said "we want to wear frocks and be called Loretta", then they would hardly have been a blip on the feminist radar, more "go for it buddy, whatever floats your boat, it is harmless enough".

But what the TRA position actually is, is that "we want to be called women, actually, the default kind of women, and those other occupiers (formerly known as women) need to stfu about their biology and give up their spaces". We call that a hostile take-over, which is why no compromise solution will ever be reached.

That 80% of trans, and probably about 95% of TRAs are male born and socialised, gives a clue to their tactics and demands. I for one, am not going to budge. And sorry not sorry. I don't feel guilty for that position at all.

sociopathsunited · 18/08/2018 10:06

woman11017 you made me look for Jewish history in Scotland. There's a long history, but a small population (5000 or so just now) and pretty much all in Glasgow (4000 ish) and Edinburgh. As expected in this horrible atmosphere, anti semitism attacks have increased recently, but are still low (in the twenties, but that's a biggish percentage of a small population). It tickled me that in the first half of the 20th century, a new hybrid language developed, mixing lowland Scots and Yiddish. That, I love! I love when cultures languages mix. Alas, the new language has gone now....

sociopathsunited · 18/08/2018 09:52

heresy yes please. I'll wave too, I'm in Fife as well...

DuggeesWoggle · 18/08/2018 06:35

I learn so much from Mumsnet. I want to get all of you in a pub and put the world to rights. Actually I think we might just manage it!!

heresyandwitchcraft · 18/08/2018 00:41

When I'm sober, is anyone interested in the North Berwick case (Rebecca, you can wave across the Forth!)? They're a favourite of mine...

Yes please! Smile

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LastOneDancing · 18/08/2018 00:06

Posting as a shameless placemark!
This thread is fascinating.

woman11017 · 17/08/2018 23:30

anti-Semitism certainly does run very deep in European culture
In Britain there was a massacre of 150 in York and expulsion of Jews.
www.haaretz.com/jewish/1.5205561
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_the_Jews_in_England_(1066%E2%80%931290)#Massacres_at_London_and_York_(1189%E2%80%931190)
Also in Oxford there was a murder and expulsion of the Jews: there's a little monument to it by the Botanical Gardens.
www.oxfordchabad.org/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/450812/jewish/A-Brief-History-of-Jews-of-Oxford.htm

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 17/08/2018 23:17

Oh, and yes, Heresy, I think there is a lot to untangle in that. Also a great deal of knowledge came to the west in the mediaeval period largely through the Arabic discoveries of lost Latin tracts and Jewish Cabbala (not the nonsense Madonna version!). There was a really uneasy relationship with this reality.

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 17/08/2018 22:58

Sorry, now rather drunk, but the relationship to contemporary immigrants is really interesting and sad. I've mentioned that women turned on each other and I think it's a factor that a marginalised group will 'prove' loyalty by aligning to the powers that be to protect themselves. We saw that in brexit, where established immigrant communities voted leave. The awful thing is that those who actually drive this fear will exploit the division but will never actually make good on promises.

A relative told me she was seeing it in the British Indian community (the idea they'd integrated and others were taking advantage etc). I said that Farage and his ilk didn't really care, they'd exploit them and then throw then under a bus later as they didn't think they were really British.

Ironically, Jewish communities in Europe in the middle ages had most freedom in the Islamic part of southern Spain where there was considerable religious and intellectual freedom.

When I'm sober, is anyone interested in the North Berwick case (Rebecca, you can wave across the Forth!)? They're a favourite of mine...

heresyandwitchcraft · 17/08/2018 22:27

Yes, rebecca. I agree that anti-Muslim bigotry and actually a general xenophobia seem to be prevalent.
Heartbreaking and scary.

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2rebecca · 17/08/2018 22:25

Aren't many Jews in Fife I meant to add. It's not a very multicultural area. I know of several mosques around but no synagogues. In our GP practice we have several Brethren and Jehovahs witnesses but no Jews I can think of.

2rebecca · 17/08/2018 22:23

In my daily life I come across very little antisemitism, probably because there aren't many Jews. I come across more anti-Islam stuff (brewing terrorists)and anti-East European (taking all our jobs).

heresyandwitchcraft · 17/08/2018 22:13

Alice

I think my own thoughts on this subject are very shallow and ahistorical, because I see it from my own personal point of view as a pseudo-psychological-societal thing. Of course the religious tradition and culture must be most influential in all of this. Anti-semitism is completely separate to misogyny - truly its own horrific beast. In my own mind, I tend to look at misogyny and anti-semitism in particular as "canaries in the coalmine" when thinking about society/ideology. For whatever reason, I have spent some time pondering whether hatred of Jews and hatred of women have parallels. My own complete speculation (read: talking out of my a*se) is whether these could be some commonalities:

  • the "mother" aspect: every person is obviously borne of woman although still separate from her. And Christians must acknowledge on some level that their faith is obviously borne from Judaism, even though it still exists as a separate religion. Perhaps a complex relationship is developed because within the pairs mother/child and Christianity/Judaism the entities are related yet fundamentally different.
  • the "non-proselytizing" and "special" nature of each group: womanhood is (as we have established) a separate state of being which cannot really be understood by males, and males cannot take on the vital reproductive role of a female. Judaism does not actively encourage conversion, and I believe it is poorly understood by outsiders (like me). Perhaps there is something to the fact that these are both relatively "closed" groups, where the people within them may develop community bonds that feel exclusive to outsiders. I wonder whether the "hidden knowledge" is a factor here as well - we have already discussed issues like chilbirth, silencing women, and women's bodies. Similarly, in my view, Judaism has its own rituals and language. The separateness of the groups, with their own unique features, appears to spark gross obsessional behaviour in the persecutors, which can look fetishistic, invasive, and destructive.
  • the tension between dependency and resentment: women's roles have traditionally been ranked below that of men, and females are typically thought of as "dependents" - yet men are raised by women and we would literally have no next generation without women. As you mention in your example Jewish people would often be relegated to roles that were frowned upon, and yet these roles could actually serve important functions for others. It seems as though such situations might engender feelings of irrationality or a strange jealousy, a bizarre drive to rid oneself of the "other" yet on some level know one knows that the "other" is needed.
  • the length of time European culture has had to ruminate on these issues: obviously Judaism has been around for longer than Christianity, and females have always co-existed with males.
  • the hardiness/tendency for mutation in both forms of discrimination.

So in summary, just hypothetically from my own Euro-centric, uneducated perspective (and I hope not in a way that offends anyone - let me know and I will delete this post) I speculate on whether anti-semitism and misogyny are somehow interlinked because in both examples we have discrimination against an ancient "Other," where that group has commonalities with the in-group and has always lived among them, yet is separate. Where there is (perhaps on a subconscious level) a knowledge that actually we are indebted to this "other," yet get a perverted desire to also assign them our own failings and wreak "vengeance" on them for completely fabricated slights instead of owning up to our own mistakes. Perhaps societally we have developed a tendency to act (in a really very crude analogy) like murderous teenagers who blame their parents for everything. I wonder whether these two targets (women and Jews) have been available to fulfill the role of scapegoat for the longest time in a broader cultural sense. I also wonder whether anti-semitism is/was so much more brutal is because Jewish people have classically been the minority, whereas women have safety in numbers and are more "protected" (females being required for the very continuation of the species).

Apologies for somewhat incoherent nature of this post, it is the result of my own meditation on this subject and I haven't come across too much outside material to help clarify my thoughts.

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sociopathsunited · 17/08/2018 20:35

Thanks, I'll have a look in our library for her books.

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 17/08/2018 20:29

Of course Goebbels and Magda killed those poor kids (because she didn't want them to face a world without national socialism). They were fanatical...

Sereny interviewed so many conflicted children of Nazi officials and some of their stories are so sad (and most of them insist on rejecting sympathy because they say they aren't the real victims). Some of the interviews are collected in The German Trauma, well worth a look.

sociopathsunited · 17/08/2018 20:18

Chilling is the right word. Goebbels springs immediately to mind. He was instrumental in the murders of millions of people, yet had six children who probably crawled into his lap for bedtime stories.

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 17/08/2018 20:07

Heresy anti-Semitism certainly does run very deep in European culture. The outbreaks of violence against Jews really dwarfs some of the witch hunts - there was not even a pretence of trials etc, they were just wholesale massacres. I think there was certainly a fear of power - real or imagined - in both cases. There differences too: Jews were exempt from Christian restrictions on money lending and this allowed them to profit individually but was also useful to rulers who could leverage off this and tax them (so hypocritically benefited) and also made them useful scapegoats who had wholesale outsider status. Women, of course, couldn't be dismissed as a class to the same extent.

What is really interesting is that both fears are rooted in European Christian traditions but not in gospel. Jesus was very clearly of the Jewish tradition and women were important in his story: women were first at the tomb and first witnesses to the resurrection. I think there is any attempt to bury this (I blame Paul!) to make it attractive to the Roman audience. I wonder if this is the root of the matter?

BeyondRadicalisationPortal · 17/08/2018 20:02

Fascinating thread!

heresyandwitchcraft · 17/08/2018 17:35

But I think that if we don't see them as recognizable we risk ignoring the capability many of us have for doing real evil (not the broomstick kind) through ignorance or weakness or fear. Personally, I think it's much more chilling that someone who loves their kids and can be kind could also commit horrific atrocities.
This times a million. I think one of the things that I really took away from learning about the Holocaust was this DEEPLY unsettling knowledge...

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heresyandwitchcraft · 17/08/2018 17:28

I think I am just quietly going to enjoy reading these contributions as they have certainly reached a level WAY beyond my knowledge. Absolutely fascinating stuff!

The ideas about night meetings, sexual deviance, cannibalism, child murder etc are all directly borrowed from the old accusations levelled at Jews and heretics. So whereas witchcraft allegations had formed a lurid element of the charge sheet against the Templars, for example, it gradually becomes the main event and, crucially, it shifts the focus onto women.

I am definitely speculating wildly here but I find what you've written here so interesting. On a completely separate thread I was wondering whether antisemitism and misogyny are somehow vaguely related, mainly because of what I perceive to be going on in the Labour party right now - in my view, these two forms of discrimination seem to be "blind spots" right now for parts of "the Left"... I've always thought of misogyny and antisemitism as very "old hatreds" as well.

A revolution in communication: the printing press. Kramer and Sprenger were best sellers all over Europe (like Dan Brown, but even more evil). I think we can see parallels with the new social media today. Ideas spread fast but so to do lies and misinformation. Also there is the exaggeration: a witch might not actually do or say anything but wicked intent is ascribed in a funny look or a mutter just as when a woman uses the wrong pronouns it becomes ‘literal violence’ and the perceived desire to eradicate individuals or ‘make’ them kill themselves. Of course men were more literate than women and controlled channels of communication but today we also see that Twitter etc tend to minimise threats against women and be more inclined to censored or ban then. Once you construct a narrative in which a group seeks to actively harm you (and absolutely, Rebecca, the use of emotive demonizing terms is key), you are absolved of responsibility for violence. It becomes 'self-defence'.

Shock This makes so much sense. A soup of change, ideological battles, and revolution in communication... Is this a form of exerting control in uncertain times by blaming the perennial "other" and trying to gain an unattainable state of "purity"?

Give up absolute power, for something as piffly as a willy? Not on your nelly.
LOL!

We, as humans, can't bear the thought that these terrible acts can be committed by our fathers, our brothers, our husbands, our uncles or our sons. But they are. We turn the despicable acts into something a monster does, we call them animals, things, beasts, perverts.

Yes, I think this actually is a real problem. Probably some sort of instinctive need to separate ourselves, whether that someone has an ideological difference or has committed a horrendous act. While it probably serves some form of protective function (isolating a murderer from the rest of society has to be a healthy thing - right?), it doesn't actually help us understand things, and in the context of f.ex. sexual abuse it means we may deny serious problems, such as that awful case of Larry Nassar (www.theguardian.com/sport/2018/jan/26/larry-nassar-abuse-gymnasts-scandal-culture).

Grin Learning so much. Thanks ladies!
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