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Why is he crying? Laura Huteson death

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/08/2018 15:39

Laura Huteson death: Hull man killed woman in 'bizarre' sex game www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-45140580

How often hetersexual men die during “risky” sex games because I can’t think of one case from the news? I know that sadly happens in same sex couples/ participants (can think of a couple examples from the news) but in hetero? It seems it tends to be women who love being throttled, punched, tied up, brutalised.

What does it mean he did not intend that to happen. What did he think would happen.

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Nuffaluff · 10/08/2018 15:58

The judge said it was consensual. How the hell do they know she consented to having a knife held against her neck?
Surely the judge isn’t just taking this guy’s word for it.

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/08/2018 15:55

Crankly saying I feel offended by his teary mugshot. How dare he.

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/08/2018 15:53

So if someone asks me to punch them, I oblige, they die, then I’m not responsible.

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TwistedStitch · 10/08/2018 15:53

So really if you want to strangle a woman to death or cut her throat, just make sure you do it in the bedroom and claim it was sex gone wrong and you'll probably get away with murder.

theOtherPamAyres · 10/08/2018 15:52

It is a cynical defence, nothing more.

We are to infer that the woman consented. He may go as far to say that she initiated the incident, or encouraged it, that she was experienced and knew what she was doing. We are meant to empathise with the poor man who wouldn't have been in this position if she'd only been more responsible.

Dead women can't speak.

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/08/2018 15:51

He kept the knife under his pillow for such occassion. You could say that is premeditating something.

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53rdWay · 10/08/2018 15:45

How do you accidentally stab someone in the neck during sex?

UpstartCrow · 10/08/2018 15:42

We say it over and over again; strangulation is never safe. There is always a risk of death, every time.

(Its also been used in the past by men who get away with murder, so it is never safe with a stranger.)

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 10/08/2018 15:39

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-45140580

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