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Scottish schoolkids to be taught to ‘choose their own gender’ in class

115 replies

Tinycitrus · 05/08/2018 15:58

According to The Sun: It says that children need to “learn about what we mean by gender, that this is different from the sex we are assigned at birth”, and that “gender is about how we see and present ourselves in the world”.

Here

I’ haven’t seen the new guidance but it will
Become part of the Curriculum for Excellence and is aimed at children between five and nine.

It doesn’t make sense to me. Apparently it starts off explaining to children that girls and boys can all play football and cry etc (hurrah!)

But later will talk
About how we aren’t necessarily the gender we are assigned at birth.

But that doesn’t make sense. If we start out saying that gender stereotypes don’t matter because girls and boys can play football then what is the point of telling children they can choose a gender?

Surely the point is that there IS NO SUCH THING AS GENDER rather than reiterating the stereotypes but tell little kids that they can choose?

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BarrackerBarmer · 06/08/2018 12:32

If the utterly illogical, stupid, dangerous idiots leading this nonsense movement can't and won't explain what a girl is, what a boy is, and how you know the difference, how in the everloving heck do you expect a 5 year old to know either?

I can't tell you what a girl is, children, but you will just know, like magic.

I am coming perilously close to hating people who are advocating this pure bilge upon children.

If you believe yourself intelligent enough to educate a child then you must challenge yourself to actually educate yourself.
If you yourself possess no knowledge of any definition of girl or boy that you can offer, then you have no business trying to impart knowledge and guide a child.

LemonJello · 06/08/2018 12:27

In relation to education I mean. It went plenty far enough in terms of ignoring and eroding girls right to privacy, dignity and safety.

LemonJello · 06/08/2018 12:24

I think this is new- the previous guidance was about supporting transgender young people in school rather than specifically about indoctrinating all children to know the light and the glory of gender identity. Although the previous guidance did touch on making transgender identities more visible in the classroom, it did not go anywhere near as far as this seems to.

Datun · 06/08/2018 12:14

I'm so incensed by this sexist rubbish.

What possible reason would a child have for claiming the opposite sex?

Toy/clothes/lifestyle preference.

Then what???

Are they told no, you're wrong. You can like all that stuff but you're still a girl/boy?

Or are they told they're trans?

It's unbelievable. There can't be this many stupid people, surely?

Tinycitrus · 06/08/2018 12:13

I found this story www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.scotsman.com/news/politics/confusion-over-transgender-guidance-1-4765713/amp

But it was published back in July

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FruitOnAPlatter · 06/08/2018 12:13

I have one child who couldn't care less and at the moment seems immune to this stuff (but I need to keep strong, because he's already emo-hood-bound, so kinda the target market), and one who's a little barbarian who likes pink and sparkles, mixed with black and flames - and who takes no nonsense.

I hope I'm innoculating them with my puzzled looks and 'but colours are for everybody' repeated whenever they come home with some new gender-based rule from school - Christ knows what'll happen if they're told this shit by teachers though, we're still reeling from the healthy-eating talks the oldest had, and trying to give him a bit more nuanced understanding than fat == bad, fruit == good.

Lostinedinburgh · 06/08/2018 12:00

Story is also in the Scotsman and Edinburgh Evening News. Comments seem to be universally negative.

Theswaggyotter · 06/08/2018 11:37

This is beyond ridiculous if true. I will have to speak to school about it and find out what my kids are being told

Tinycitrus · 06/08/2018 10:26

Lemonjello I can’t find anything specific. I’m guessing they are referring to some guidance on supporting transgender pupils published a while ago. But I could be wrong.

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AngryAttackKittens · 06/08/2018 10:26

Primary school kids are just too young to wrap their heads around this stuff, at that age it's indoctrination rather than exploration.

Tinycitrus · 06/08/2018 10:24

If this story is true - and The Sun and The Times articles are very similar - then it means that primary school children will be taught a gender ideology which could only serve to reinforce gender stereotypes under the guise of progression.

I think teens need to discuss gender and are hopefully capable of critical analysis - although in the current climate any critical
Analysis of gender and transgender ideology, any questioning of the orthodoxy, will results accusations of bigotry.

I would be a brave 14 year old who
Would question any of this.

It reminds me of Sunday school - none of that made any logical sense either Hmm

Perhaps it’s my male brain making me apply logic and reason instead of virtue signalling feelz, rainbows and unicorns.

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LemonJello · 06/08/2018 10:07

If anyone finds the actual document please will they link here? Thanks Smile

YeTalkShiteHen · 06/08/2018 10:07

Igneococcus fuck. I’m more inclined to believe the Times than the Sun, and there’s a quote from NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde too.

Looks like I’m just going to have to prepare DD for this shite, and hope it doesn’t sink in.

What do I say in response to her if she asks? Any ideas? She’s 5.

AngryAttackKittens · 06/08/2018 09:54

I desperately wanted a Scalextric aged nine. I used to wish for one every birthday (never got one)

I had one. Hadn't realized till now that this means that my parents recognized my inner bloke identity!

leyat · 06/08/2018 00:33

Exactly. We all relate differently to femininity & masculinity in different ways at different times as well as not relating to these norms, roles and traits imposed on women and men, in different ways at different times, because gender isn't fixed and is not innate. There is nothing essential about gender.

We are in the position where we have to challenge this on the level of ideology and directly. Women's orgs and children's orgs are parroting the same line that the only way we dismantle gender stereotypes is by taking on an ideology that says gender is innate, it's just not always determined by sex. It is not only not true, but it's incoherent as a position on gender and as we all know here only serves to further entrench stereotypes. Where I take heart is in the fact that feminists win this debate hands down, there is literally no basis for gender identity/innate gender, or indeed the idea that if gender is social, the way to dismantle that is to pretend it is innate (!).

silentcrow · 06/08/2018 00:01

It's a pointless waste of time to forcibly categorise people based on their preference over toys and clothes.

It also assumes preferences are fixed forever! How many kids do we all know who loved e.g. football at seven but can't give a toss about it at 12? Who spent every waking minute nursing a doll at 3 but wouldn't know one end of a baby from the other at 13? My cousin was a gaming freak at 15 - but hasn't touched a console seriously in 20 years. What utter bollocks.

BetsyM00 · 05/08/2018 23:42

As far as I know, every school currently has a policy about challenging stereotypes, encouraging girls in STEM subjects, etc. Everyone please download and keep a copy of this, because the new guidance will completely contradict it!

madcatladyforever · 05/08/2018 22:48

Oh dear God, thank goodness I'm retiring soon as I'd be fired for sure.

Datun · 05/08/2018 22:47

OldCrone

I've read a lot of shit about this. But that one really, really got me.

Teach kids the backwards, bonkers concept gender, so you can tell them they're wrong.

Utterly cruel and insane.

OldCrone · 05/08/2018 22:35

This has reminded me of this thread from a few months ago:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3101245-NHS-Transgender-guidance-for-schools

where this document was discussed:
www.centralsexualhealth.org/media/8009/guidance-for-schools-trans-gender-variance.pdf

Here's the advice for indoctrinating children with Additional Support Needs:
Please note: by age 2 or 3, a child starts to develop a sense of being a male or female. Some children with a learning disability/additional support needs, however, may not develop gender awareness at the same age and stage as their peers. It is important that children with ASN are actively taught gender identity so that they understand the gender assigned to them at birth.

Conversely, this often requires blatant ‘boy/girl’ activities. However, once a child understands the gender assigned to them at birth, teaching and practice can diversify to include non-stereotypical approaches and allow the child to explore their True Gender identity.

Datun · 05/08/2018 21:40

What do you give ‘I feel like a girl’ meaning without reinforcing gender stereotypes?

Exactly. Unless you identify, say, 10 genders (not the ones online, because almost all relate to sexual preference and you have sex with, when and how often).

So these 10 genders are, what? Likes football? Likes long hair? Pink?

Let's assume yes, something along those lines. And all those genders are named.

Presumably, wanting to be neutral, it will be something non-judgemental, like 1 to 10.

Then what?

Little Tommy is a three, because he likes football. Sarah is a five because she likes long hair. Joshua is a 10 because he likes football and long hair.

Then what?

It's a pointless waste of time to forcibly categorise people based on their preference over toys and clothes.

So what is the point? It must be to pigeonhole people into male or female. Depending on their preference.

Backwards, damaging, stereotypical claptrap.

Tinycitrus · 05/08/2018 21:08

But scotsheather don’t you see the contradiction?

You first talk to children about gender stereotypes “girls can like football” “boys can show emotions such as sadness and love” great!

The you tell children they can choose a gender identity seperate from your biological sex. What on earth does that mean?

What do you give ‘I feel like a girl’ meaning without reinforcing gender stereotypes?

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scotsheather · 05/08/2018 21:02

But "choosing" your actually biological sex is an impossibility. Its a 1 time deal at birth, and to say otherwise is a fiction.

scotsheather · 05/08/2018 21:01

If the Sun say so it must be true. Wink

Actually I would endorse telling kids they can choose their gender identity or rather remove gendered roles (yes I'm of the boys can wear dresses and like pink if they want mentality).