People who actively seek this out maybe do it for different reasons and tend to be the ones who end up in the power wielding positions?
What a depressing world sad
yep, unfortunately - once seen it's hard to unsee and hard to think there are enough good people around sometimes. Hence why here and forums like it are so important. We are the voice of sanity and reason.
I feel for your friend - yes illness is another vulnerable point as unfortunately is exiting from DV - many women get recruited by cult-like churches where I am, after coming out of DV and desperately looking for a good community. Many are asset stripped. It's insidious stuff and largely ignored by police etc as it's the mind control and grooming which somehow is downplayed and dismissed in adults - as though they deserve what they get :(
The Cluster Bs are the worse type of abuser - these have psychopathic tendencies so know how to hide and keep within the letter of the law if not the spirit and they are the ones who end up in power. They need to be limited as they know no limits themselves.