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'Get the L Out' Statement by the lesbian protesters at Pride London

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R0wantrees · 09/07/2018 00:57

getthelout.wordpress.com/blog/

Why “Get The L Out” ?
July 5, 2018
Angela C. Wild
Who We Are

Get the L Out is a group of lesbian and feminist individuals and organisations, opposing the increasingly anti-lesbian and misogynistic LGBT movement and the erasure of lesbians

Why We Protest

We believe that lesbian rights are under attack by the trans movement and we encourage lesbians everywhere to leave the LGBT and form their own independent movement, as well as to be vocal and take action against the proposed changes to the GRA.

Get the L Out believes trans politics (with uncritical support from the LGBT movement) does the following:

Promotes the social transition of lesbians, encouraging them to present as straight men thus favouring the pretence of heterosexuality over lesbianism – this is nothing more than a form of conversion therapy.
Promotes the medical transition of lesbians and pushes harmful drugs (untested hormone blockers, Lupron etc.) as well as unnecessary medical practices on perfectly healthy bodies – these are a form of misogynist medical abuse against lesbians.
Promotes the rights of heterosexual males who “identify” as women and lesbians (despite most of them still retaining their male genitals) over the rights of lesbians to choose their sexual partners. This new ‘queer’ LGBT politics thus coerces lesbians to accept the penis as a female organ and promotes heterosexual intercourse between male and female as a form of lesbian sex. This is simply a new facet to rape culture and compulsory heterosexuality." (continues)

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 19:20

SuperDandy

I found it ambiguous in its wording. I read it a few times. Ambiguity means 'the quality of being open to more than one interpretation'.

The rest of your post contains accusations against me which I utterly refute.

Check my posting history.

Have a read back about what was discussed prior to your comment. I am one of the women directly and personally affected by the TRA comments and appropriation of hysterectomies and infertility.

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Ereshkigal · 10/07/2018 19:18

It's so interesting how all your criticism and condemnation is of the gender critical side of the coin though. You are trying to pretend that it's equal to point out that women face our own issues when trans people complain about their lives, to when TRAs make deeply offensive, callous and cruel comments about women who have had hysterectomies. Completely wrong headed comparison and if you weren't so sure of your own woke self righteous world view I think you'd see that.

Ereshkigal · 10/07/2018 19:13

Oh I thought you didn't realise what was being referred to?

SuperDandy · 10/07/2018 18:45

R0wantrees it's really not ambiguous, let alone deliberately so. I think it's truly awful and hugely upsetting to use those things used for point-scoring or comparison, and they have no place in this discussion as far as I can see.

Round and round the accusation comes that people who disagree with GC views do not condemn unacceptable actions, yet when I do exactly that you and Eresh go straight for goady and ambiguous.

You are reading things into my posting that are not there. There is no subtext, no hidden meanings, no euphemisms, no codes, no hint, no entrapment, no cunning use of an opposite position in sarcasm.

I've had my sincerity and integrity questioned so many times on this board for the offense of disagreeing with some aspects of the GC position, but this one really takes the biscuit.

It's hard to see how there can be meaningful or constructive discourse when regular participants read with such heavy prejudice and react with bias to that degree.

Once again, for the record, I am not a TRA or a bloke, no one sent me and no one pulls my strings. I question self ID as a proposal, and I abhor disrespectful language, needless cruelty and sweeping generalisations, whoever is saying it. If we could have footers on mn mine would be something like that, along with a reminder that it is in fact possible to be at neither one extreme nor the other.

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 16:26

There is also an issue as to the long term consequeces of hormones.

There is much known and still more to establish about the possible side effects of taking HRT (& the R is significant) for women.

These studies have focussed on women, within a certain age range & for a limited period of time.

HRT is prescribed with caution because of the balance between potential risk and potential benefit. This is relevent for many women who have had gyny cancer and surgical menopause. The decision is made following histology, MDT meetings and a great deal of consideration. The decision for many women is not to take the medication (which also has increased risks eg osteoporosis & cardiac issues)

The effects of taking testosterone illegally as a 'performance enhancing drug' are well established.

It would be naive not to consider the likelhood that cross-sex hormones may have additional side effects.

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TransplantsArePlants · 10/07/2018 16:10

I've skipped to the sixth page and there's all this discussion about what hormones do to a working penis, and it's all irrelevant, because the vast, vast majority of transwomen don't transition at all. Most never did, even when being dysphoric was an essential component of being trans, and now that being trans and being dysphoric are almost entirely uncoupled, and the trans movement is full of males who are very open about their comfort with their own bodies, and open about the fact that they like using their penis to have sex, it's even more the case now

Where hormones matter, of course, is when they are pushed on children and young people, who haven't had a chance to discover whether they will ever be comfortable in their own bodies or not

Archery Annie - hope you don't mind me bolding this. This is what people who think we are transphobic don't even know

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 16:09

SuperDandy I found your comment below ambiguous, perhaps deliberately so. Was it?

"I do so wish posters would not cite infertility, hysterectomy, missing genitals etc as in any way comparable or relevant to trans issues.

It's so massively inappropriate and horrible."

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SuperDandy · 10/07/2018 16:01

Eresh "Stop goading SD. No one is impressed"

Is that directed at me? What did I do this time?

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 11:20

Germaine Greer's lecture 'The Whole Woman' is very relevent:

www.youtube.com/watch?sns=fb&v=sVzYi4bRNwQ&app=desktop

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/07/2018 11:17

Telling women their anatomy is irrelevant is patriarchal drivel

The other side to that, of course, is when it becomes relevant on men's terms, usually leading to statements like "women can't [x] because women have [y anatomy]".

UpstartCrow · 10/07/2018 11:15

Telling women their anatomy is irrelevant is patriarchal drivel.

Pratchet · 10/07/2018 11:11

VD bought the Kool Aid company and supply contract

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 10/07/2018 11:06

Flowers to all the women personally affected by this offensive drivel

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 11:05

Not least because Victoria Derbyshire has spoken openly about having breast cancer.

Women who are BRCA+ may elect to have hysterectomies.

There are links with Breast cancer and Ovarian cancer.

It was mind-blowing to me that she didn't make the link or demonstate awareness or empathy.

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 11:00

Pratchet
No fury just resoluteness!

I was furious the first time I heard it said on Victoria Derbyshire, and upset that it went unchallenged.

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Pratchet · 10/07/2018 10:58

That's the closest you've ever got to cold fury, Rowan

SophoclesTheFox · 10/07/2018 10:57

I agree about not censoring any of this, R0wan. unlike our erstwhile friends with their fingers over the report button lest a woman accidentally let slip a slight unkindness, I want to hear what sheep, cistern and the rest think, regardless of the hurt and distress it causes me personally.

Because it’s not about my feelings. I don’t have the right not to have hurt feelings, and it’s thinking like that that’s got us into this atrocious middle in the first place.

Also, it saves me the bother of explaining the misogyny and homophobia, because it’s all laid right out there!

Bowlofbabelfish · 10/07/2018 10:52

I’d really like cistern to explain what they mean by a chemical period.

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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 10:35

(& the person who made the statements continues to post on the FWR boards, often cititing the 'privileges' of others here)

'Get the L Out' Statement by the lesbian protesters at Pride London
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R0wantrees · 10/07/2018 10:30

I was there, I pointed this out as I also had a total hystectomy due to medical neccessity at a similar age to you Sophocles.

I know many younger women who are dealing with the consequences of this due to gyny cancer.

Even recognising the experiences and specific needs of this group of women is a relatively recent thing within both NHS and charities.

I believe it needs showing up though, not to cause additional distress but in the hope that more will challenge it.

I believe that censoring the comments only benefits those who make the claims. They will continue to do so and other people become desensitised or accepting of them.

The comments were outrageous and of course a lie.
Flowers

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SophoclesTheFox · 10/07/2018 10:22

On the recent 'Women is an adult human female thread a regular poster claimed that smell of a transwoman's surgically created orifice could be the same as a woman's vagina post hysterectomy. Also that the comparison was 'apt' since both were 'blind canals'

Glad I missed that one, R0wan

That is just so deluded and hateful I don’t even know where to start.

My post hysterectomy vagina is nothing like a neo vagina. Nothing. Jesus.

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 10/07/2018 10:22

It must have taken some ingenuity to come up with an ideology that manages to somehow be biologically essentialist at the same time as asserting that biology is irrelevant and all in the mind

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 10/07/2018 10:08

The idea that the only point of female biology is reproduction is... sad? Sexist?

Look at an image of the internal shape of the clitoris. Print it out and take it to a plastic surgeon and ask if they can replicate it surgically if you like. See what they say.

Ereshkigal · 10/07/2018 10:07

Stop goading SD. No one is impressed.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 10/07/2018 10:06

I think it's why the green party had to bring in their clever new non men category.