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Paris Lees on “What makes us human” R2 Jeremy Vine

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NoSquirrels · 03/07/2018 12:03

Coming up later, apparently.

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R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 14:42

There is, I think, some contradiction to Paris Lees' assertions in today's interview with Jeremy Vine and her comments in the Guardian article in 2013:

www.theguardian.com/society/2013/jan/22/voices-from-trans-community-prejudice

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"In 25 years, Barrett has seen trans people become "a networked bunch" – more so than other people, he thinks – thanks to the internet. Lees, who also works for Trans Media Action, says social media is the "essential catalyst" for the transformation of trans people in society. "Society is in transition and we've woken up from the operation and there's no going back. We can't pretend that trans people don't exist any more," she says. "People have been taking the piss out of trans people for 60 years. The narrative on trans issues has been controlled by people who have no understanding of them. Social media is about us grabbing the narrative back and telling our own stories – this is our reality, this is what we go through and this is what matters to us. We're here, we're in your face, we definitely exist. That's the most important thing – realising we exist." (continues)

TerfAndSerf · 03/07/2018 14:22

PL is a keen journalist campaigning for the decriminalisation of sex workers.

Failing to mention that means pimps as wrll as prostitutes.....

Vine mentioned some of the praise via the Twitterati.

So inspirational.....

R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 14:12

Paris Lees is a very engaging and persuasive speaker, I was interested to hear that her degree was English Language and Literature. So was mine.
Its often worth re listening to interviews and focussing on the actual words that are used and to what effect.

ChristmasTablecloth · 03/07/2018 14:08

What a ridiculous soft interview that was. If Jeremy Vine is unaware of the aggressive and even violent sidelining and shutting down of women to make way for trans rights then he does not deserve his £750,000 salary. Well, he doesn't deserve it anyway imo but that's another story.

R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 14:05

WichBitch It was an interesting mis-type!

NoSquirrels · 03/07/2018 14:00

Not that I am suggesting you have to be a parent to get it. Just that was the tipping point for me and that’s a common experience for a lot of other women, I believe.

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WichBitchHarpyTerfThatsMe · 03/07/2018 14:00

Sorry it was ROwan who coined genderational.

WichBitchHarpyTerfThatsMe · 03/07/2018 13:59

Fab new word Absinthe.

Yes, ageism completely acceptable to try and dismiss our opinions - nice one. My feelz are hurt about that. Will I define it as hate speech, nah, just ignorance.

NoSquirrels · 03/07/2018 13:59

I was much more accepting in my 20s, and into my 30s.

Then I had children and a lot of previously ‘hidden’ (i.e. I’d not been looking until I slammed into it) sexism and misogyny became blindingly obvious to me.

No trans woman will ever experience that. So in many ways it’s understandable that they can’t appreciate the viewpoint of gender critical biological women on Mumsnet who are generationally older...

They’ll have experienced different misogyny and sexism, and probably have more in common with the 20-somethings generation.

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OunceOfFlounce · 03/07/2018 13:59

I'm a millennial, lots of us get it.

AbsintheFriends · 03/07/2018 13:52

There have been a number of comments by some TRAs that this is a genderational thing and that 40+ people don't understand diversity.

Yes, it's trotted out a lot, because ageism is seemingly perfectly acceptable. ('The Olds are too stupid/busy clutching their pearls to understand.') It misses the point that the obvious explanation for the generational divide is that older people have more life experience, tend to be more widely read, are better at seeing through propaganda, are far less swayed by peer pressure to conform and less afraid of speaking the truth.

(I think you may have coined a new term in 'generational'!)

OunceOfFlounce · 03/07/2018 13:49

Me and my mum didn't hear that part of Paris's story. I'm obviously very sorry to hear that.

We are of different generations though and disagree about lots of thing, but not about what a woman is.

NoSquirrels · 03/07/2018 13:48

I thought it was a good essay, and an interesting interview. On a human level I am extremely sympathetic to the predicament PL is in - a terrible childhood, certainly gender dysphoria, happily now transitioned and living as the opposite sex. I am a bit confused though that you can just “stop talking” about being trans - and require everyone else not to find it remarkable, whilst still campaigning for trans issues to do with children etc.

I’m extremely happy to consider PL. a campaigning trans woman. But it’s the “always a woman”, “is a woman” part that I struggle with.

I’m all for acceptance. PL is a trans woman. I hope she’ll continue to campaign as a trans woman and drop any “we’re all just women” rhetoric.

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R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 13:42

generational!

R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 13:42

There have been a number of comments by some TRAs that this is a genderational thing and that 40+ people don't understand diversity.

Pratchet · 03/07/2018 13:40

No one hasn't changed sex, however sympathetic one might feel.

LizzieSiddal · 03/07/2018 13:38

I think they’re coming across much better than I expected. I feel for them and their awful childhood.

R0wantrees · 03/07/2018 13:36

Paris Lees describes the experience of being 'pimped' by an older man as a vulnerable 16 year old which led to the incident resulting in conviction and imprisonment.

Later brings up that as well as campaigning for transgender rights she is also keen to campaign for sex work, mentions advertising.

OunceOfFlounce · 03/07/2018 13:35

At home with mum today. She's not political and hasn't been aware or much of this but without a second's hesitation found the idea that you can change sex or be born in the wrong body utterly ridiculous.

AbsintheFriends · 03/07/2018 13:32

Interesting.

PL: I just needed to be me

JV: And 'being me' meaning what? Fully transitioning to being female?

PL: (nervous laugh. Hesitation.) Well... yeah. Just being a girl.

dinosaursandtea · 03/07/2018 13:31

Love Paris. She’s a terrific journalist and activist and a genuinely nice person.

Pratchet · 03/07/2018 13:30

Oh thanks. There was a lot of homophobia driving h** choices there, I guess.

AbsintheFriends · 03/07/2018 13:29

Pratchet it's a regular slot called 'what makes us human' where prominent people read out an essay they've written (on what makes us human, surprisingly) then get their chosen record played and are interviewed afterwards.

PL's essay was good, BUT I was Hmm about the opening bit which was all about his (not misgendering - talking about PL as a small child) explicit and extreme violent fantasies of beating up his father, battering him with a baseball bat etc. As someone who claims to have been essentially female since birth, this seems highly incongruous. And contradictory. To say the least.

LARLARLAND · 03/07/2018 13:28

I think she was quoting her father when she used the word poofter.

Pratchet · 03/07/2018 13:27

That's homophobic