Datun
Ah.
So you won't retract or refine your sweeping statement that "Women don't have to regularly dilate their vaginas to prevent them from closing up".
You're happy enough to use those women as a shield to try and excuse your behaviour, but apparently don't care enough about them to amend your statement, regardless of the fact that it has been repeatedly pointed out that needless sweeping statements like yours can only lead to women experiencing more stress, anxiety, and shame at having to need to dilate, through no fault of their own. Likewise you don't wish to address either your implication that real women don't dilate or the statement you made reinforcing and confirming that implication, "But it's also quite obvious, that this is a uniquely transwoman experience, not a woman's."
Yes, I would imagine that the people watching are not particular impressed at a poster on a Feminism board wilfully erasing and belittling women's experiences, and then doubling down on that position when called on it.
How much easier would it have been to have simply stated that you misspoke, and that some women do indeed have to dilate and that there is no shame to it, and it does not make them less or, or not a real, woman.
I can do it.
Happy to do it.
There are an unknown number of women who need to dilate for a variety of health reasons. There is no shame to it, and needing to dilate a vagina does not make anybody less of a woman, and that making an implication or statement that it does is just wrong.