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Very basic, obvious examples of male privilege please?

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tigersox · 18/06/2018 19:21

Examples every man will experience. Undeniable and obvious

I'm trying to make male privilege simple to a friend who feels us feminists have gone too far.

Thanks Grin

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Pratchet · 23/06/2018 13:09

How does that back up what you claim? It's ludicrous to say that.

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 13:06

"I was addressing the ridiculous claim that it is mens fault that they die whilst doing dangerous jobs."

"That hasn't been done. Screenshot please."

"95% of all work place deaths are male because many of said males DON’T FOLLOW THE SAFETY PROCEDURES!!! "

""In North America, where these stats often come from, construction workers use drugs and alcohol at an alarming rate. I worked in a homeless shelter, used as cheap accommodation for migrant construction workers, who would get good and fucking high on meth all night then go to work. ""

OK

Pratchet · 23/06/2018 12:58

I'm right here calling you out on your nonsense Smile

Pratchet · 23/06/2018 12:57

In no way does that you say what you said it says. Are you actually kidding?

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 12:57

@haxxor try reading the posts I quoted again, you are misrepresenting their argument

Where did @pratchet go??????

haXXor · 23/06/2018 12:56

@fmsfms It is the fault of the class of men that some men die doing dangerous jobs. This is not the same as blaming the individual men who die.

The men in our majority-male Parliament fail to pass laws to stop the men who make up the majority of directors and senior management from putting the men they employ at risk.

Working class men suffer socio-economic class oppression from others who are more privileged and mainly men. This is distinct from the sex class oppression that women suffer from men.

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 12:52

"Implying that all men are blyth [sic] about safety precautions and using machinary [sic] whilst on drugs

I literally saw them. With my girly eyes.

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 12:51

Another one:

"In North America, where these stats often come from, construction workers use drugs and alcohol at an alarming rate. I worked in a homeless shelter, used as cheap accommodation for migrant construction workers, who would get good and fucking high on meth all night then go to work. "

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 12:51

Christ lol, at least make an effort to keep up with the thread before you make stupid claims about what has and hasn't been posted. It's literally at the top of the page

"1)95% of all work place deaths are male because many of said males DON’T FOLLOW THE SAFETY PROCEDURES!!! And why? Because male privileges mean that they are used to doing as they damn well please and others cannot tell them what to do. Even when it is “Don’t smoke near the gas leaks”, “wear a hard hat”, “use the safety equipment”, “Don’t drink alcohol before operating this machine”."

Verbena87 · 23/06/2018 12:50

When was the last time a man was made to feel uncomfortable because he couldn’t be arsed/didn’t want to shave his legs? (Bodies being socially acceptable as long as they’re clean vs bodies needing to be shaved/made up in order to be seen as ‘normal’)

Any men get asked why they’re not planning to have kids, as if this is an odd choice?

Also this: “a man and his son were injured in a major car accident. The man was pronounced dead on arrival to the hospital and the son was rushed to theatre. The surgeon on duty looked at him and said “I can’t do this one, that’s my son”. Explain”

The answer of course is that the surgeon’s his mother, but most people asked can’t get it. That. That we automatically assume a woman couldn’t be in that role.

Pratchet · 23/06/2018 12:50

That hasn't been done. Screenshot please.

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 12:48

@Pratchet what concerns?

I was addressing the ridiculous claim that it is mens fault that they die whilst doing dangerous jobs.

If you can't see the inherent sexism/misandry in that post, or you do and ignore it then clearly you are no egalitarian

Pratchet · 23/06/2018 12:42

Fms: this is a feminist forum. Your concerns might be better addressed on a forum for males?

fmsfms · 23/06/2018 10:19

Lol at this page,, someone rightly points out that men are more likely to do dangerous jobs and people argue it's their own fault for ignoring HSE and doing drugs in their workplace, what?

Yeah, what about all the semi slaves building football stadiums in Qatar and Skyscrapers in the UAE?

womanformallyknownaswoman · 23/06/2018 08:58

Who the fuck requests "consent" BEFORE you date them?!

New tactic- - seems like he needs to watch it!!

tigersox · 23/06/2018 08:54

Yours is a Nice Guy. A man who 'just wants to understand' and is 'in favour of equal rights'. Some of them even call themselves feminists. But if they want sex, or to be right or for you to tell them how great they are, their behaviour changes. Same ones that talk about the friend zone. And how Nice Guys finish last.

http://nice-guy.urbanup.com/7159576

@MrsTerryPratchett ah yes, he was definitely one of those. I was meant to tell you all in a prior post how he's an advocate for women's rights and helps out his mum with her domestic violence charity/business/not sure what it was he said it was re DV though.

And yet he sulked that I wouldn't jump into a relationship before meeting Confused and give him commitment and "consent" WTF from the start rather than drop my barriers and expect him to work so hard (I said I liked chivalry/respect). When I dared to ask what he was up to I got told how he's a grown ass man who doesn't have to tell me and told I need to apologise for overreacting because it's all my fault he wasn't going to answer because I made no commitment so he didn't need to sayConfused

I was only asking a question but it did become a crime. So I blocked him. Who the fuck requests "consent" BEFORE you date them?!

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womanformallyknownaswoman · 23/06/2018 08:49

4% of all venture capital goes to women-led startups although they perform better than male-led ones. Women have to take a token man along to any discussions and presentations as the men believe the words coming from his mouth, not hers. I do the same - I have a friendly male geek who's doing some work on my tech startup who's an introvert and doesn't like people. But we have an agreement that he will accompany me sometimes so that the men (who prevail in tech startup land) will have someone to make them feel comfortable and to "give the venture credibility" in their eyes. So fucking tiresome.

ApocalypseNowt · 23/06/2018 08:07

@TheLesserOfTwoWeevils are you me?!

I love a rare steak (sometimes even a blue steak!) but persuading people to take this order can be difficult. Love pints too.

Inevitably when our order arrives the steak and pint are reverentially placed before DH while his weedy salad gets slung in my direction.

ADarkandStormyKnight · 23/06/2018 07:53

It’s The World Cup, not the Men’s World Cup.

coolcahuna · 23/06/2018 07:43

Not being able to just sit quietly in public without a man thinking you are there for him to talk to. Literally happened to me last night.

animaginativeusername · 23/06/2018 07:42

Women not being equal work opportunities because she 'might' have children in the future

loveulotslikejellytots · 23/06/2018 07:39

And the last one.

Very basic, obvious examples of male privilege please?
loveulotslikejellytots · 23/06/2018 07:39

I found this on Pinterest a few years ago...

Very basic, obvious examples of male privilege please?
Very basic, obvious examples of male privilege please?
Very basic, obvious examples of male privilege please?
Pratchet · 23/06/2018 06:45

Being in a world where people are promoted by others of their own because of what sex they are, and complaining that if the other sex wants to do something about that, it would no longer be a 'meritocracy' Hmm

PennyWistful · 23/06/2018 06:30

Walking down the street and not having anyone rate your looks just because you’re female.

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