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Dark and stormies all round! Bluestocking piss up

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QuentinSummers · 08/06/2018 23:05

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MistressFunbox · 10/11/2018 06:22

I wish I had suffragette pizza

I'm drunk in New York. My Bodyclock thinks it's a week next Tuesday and I don't know what to do!

(Probably have another drink?)

ISaySteadyOn · 10/11/2018 06:12

On a happier note, DD1 made a figure of a suffragette out of pizza dough yesterday and said 'I made it for you, mummy. 'Smile

ISaySteadyOn · 10/11/2018 06:10

Cup of tea, please. Something calming.

BirdseyeFrozen · 10/11/2018 00:07

Evening all, I plucked up the nerve to call in before bed. Just checking that there is no swearing going on.
You are all an inspiration, I know it gets so tough for you all at times, but a big thank you, you keep me sane. Flowers

arranfan · 09/11/2018 23:09

You sound in need of something that is both nerve-bracing and soothing, ISaySteadyOn - what's your preference?

ISaySteadyOn · 09/11/2018 22:53

Can I collapse on the sofa please? I have just disagreed with a good friend about the word 'cis'. She doesn't hate me and we didn't argue, we disagreed but dear Goddess, it was hard to say it. I had to though!

ErrolTheDragon · 07/11/2018 23:32

I've never had hot elderflower - it's the quintessence of early summer so I can't quite imagine it other than chilled. More the ginger season now.

arranfan · 07/11/2018 23:20

Been travelling for work and am away from home so could do with a settling and calming nightcap.

A hot elderflower or pink ginger would be good.

The company's gentle hubbub can soothe me as I settle down and then wend my way to bed.

bluetitsaretits · 04/11/2018 21:56

Evening all. That cake sounds lovely, I have some fresh ginger, honey and real lemon drink here if anyone needs a comforter.
Artist Rachel Maclean's film 'make me up' is on BBC4 at 10 (on iplayer after).
"This darkly-comic film takes a satirical look at the contradictory pressures faced by woman today. "
Should be good. Weird, but good.

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b0bqt8g3

QuentinWinters · 04/11/2018 20:02

Ooh candle sounds lush laura

LauraMipsum · 04/11/2018 19:06

I've got a posh scented candle going (someone gave me one as a gift - I've never owned one before, but it's lovely!) and I think it might be time for an end of weekend gin. Smoked nuts would be just the thing, I'll swap you for a gin if you like arran

arranfan · 04/11/2018 15:16

I have plenty fruit cake to leave on the counter for those who fancy it. I'll drop some cheese, smoked nuts, and tapas-style bits as well.

I might have one of those orange and almond cakes as well if that suits?

QuentinWinters · 04/11/2018 15:10

I need some kind of soothing ambience and drink today. Plus cake I think

arranfan · 03/11/2018 16:24

Meeting amenities still not sorted despite multiple contacts and the organiser is plainly hacked off with my requests.

Very busy weekend and workdays leading up to the event so there's only so much that I can do.

Bracer and snacks welcome. I'll see if lively or soothing music or hubbub suits me better.

QuentinWinters · 31/10/2018 13:24

That sounds spectacularly rubbish Arran, hope it goes well.

arranfan · 31/10/2018 12:58

I'm having a rough time with a jobsworth and in need of a bracer to keep my eyes on the prize and retain my full tact and diplomacy in the face of no co-operation.

I have a meeting to attend, in an unknown venue, with unknown seating plan, unknown speakers, specialist topic etc. I have substantial hearing loss so asked the organisers if I could have a seat with a good sightline to the speakers and to be notified of any unusual vocabulary items. It's standard practice to ensure that I can see the speaker and that they know not to turn their backs and talk, cover their mouths etc.

The overall organiser told me that I'd need to speak to the people there on the day. I've asked for a contact address in advance so that I can have this in place (it's not fair to spring it on people) and am getting nowhere.

I need something calming and yet bracing...Honey, ginger, and lemon with a smidgen of chilli? Or just the honey, ginger, and lemon with some spiced tapas style broad beans?

arranfan · 27/10/2018 14:55

Still not much smell nor taste but I am improving. I can breathe and the cough is reducing.

I might risk a ginger and lemon. And some music while I recover from disassembling and reassembling a piece of furniture after cleaning all of its nooks and crannies.

silentcrow · 26/10/2018 00:40

Eight! That's even more than me, I can feel officially Not Guilty now. Grin Although I did order the beautiful Suffragette: The Battle for Equality by David Roberts today. And my daughter bought Jacqueline Wilson's Opal Plumstead (whilst wearing a FiLiA t-shirt, no less).

LauraMipsum · 25/10/2018 22:14

Only eight? Grin

I'm drinking Badger and attempting to stop myself starting a massive twitter war with an arsehole.

TheClitterati · 25/10/2018 14:27

silentcrow the News From Nowhere stall was fab wasn't it. I came home with EIGHT lovely feminist books (2 for DC for Xmas).

TheClitterati · 25/10/2018 14:24

Hope it helps.

I've gone from years of full on (and worsening) sinus infections usually resolved only by antibiotics, every time I had so much as s sniffle, along with massive problems flying etc, to barely any issues at all now.

If I do start to feel sinus issues starting I go back to using the netti pot twice a day and it sorts it out.

arranfan · 25/10/2018 13:56

Arranfan using a Neti pot regularly cured by chronic sinusitis issues.

I've got some salt and bicarb, plus a squeezy bottle and a helpful video. Tonight is the night.

So, definitely in need of a post-sinus-irrigation bracer later, please.

TheClitterati · 24/10/2018 22:10

Arranfan using a Neti pot regularly cured by chronic sinusitis issues.

Hope you are starting to feel
Better.

QuentinWinters · 24/10/2018 20:52

Omg that thread is a sure sign how many people are visiting this board but not feminist. I had to step away

ErrolTheDragon · 24/10/2018 15:29

I'm sure I must have a pot of Greek honey somewhere in my baggage...

It's a bit early but I think we may need to mix up some passion fruit martinis this evening.

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