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Dark and stormies all round! Bluestocking piss up

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QuentinSummers · 08/06/2018 23:05

A friendly place for feminist or general chit chat. Welcome all!

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KittyKlaws · 15/06/2018 09:20

I've been correcting people about GG all week. Not a single one of them had seen the comment in context or really knew what it meant, they were just repeating headlines. Very irritating.

KittyKlaws · 15/06/2018 09:18

I can't believe this but I don't think I've ever been in the pub. Setting my glass down here. Hello lovely women Wine

womanformallyknownaswoman · 15/06/2018 01:43

I don't like using this thread to talk about GG but so e things can't go unchallenged

Eg the accusation of Lazy thinking re criticism of GG's opinions - it's always curious how some launch personal attacks on people when they can't handle criticism - this time of GG - it's like she's a cult leader to them. Personal sideswipes are not a rebuttal but verbal abuse.

LighthouseSouth · 15/06/2018 01:27

False alarm, sorry! Receipt safe and well.

Waddlelikeapenguin · 14/06/2018 23:30

Oh no! Is it one you can recreate with credit card or similar?

I have caught up with the "clarifications" on the new newspeak it gets worse every time they clarify Confused
large whiskey slainte

LighthouseSouth · 14/06/2018 19:32

I think I've just put a needed receipt in the washing machine
Shock

Waddlelikeapenguin · 14/06/2018 18:56

Shock Weezol that looks like something my kids would kill for Grin

lighthouse you need your weekends to recharge Flowers

LighthouseSouth · 14/06/2018 18:47

Thanks Weezol

that looks like a cheery thing to keep in my work desk

Maybe everyone sells candy floss and I just haven't noticed.

Weezol · 14/06/2018 18:39

Lighthouse This is the stuff I get (sorry, don't know how to make the link less ridiculous).

groceries.morrisons.com/webshop/product/SweetZone-Candy-Floss/234167011?from=search&tags=%7C105651&param=candy+floss&parentContainer=SEARCHcandy+floss

LighthouseSouth · 14/06/2018 18:12

Permission - oh I only have to deal with them at weekends, sorry if it sounded like it's every day. It's a 3 hour round trip, so weekends plus a weekday or two if they are having a health crisis (which happens a lot).

don't be sorry at all about sounding chipper, I had more detailed vent on the elderly parents board, sorry, I was just drinking, so ended up dumping on you guys first (it was sheer luck that the EP board happened to come up on Active).

I might declare I'm having a month off but they will be all emotional about it. They could afford help. They just think it's my duty, or I've fallen into the role. But I have decided to scale back contact a lot. I've learned the FOG thing on these boards (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) and it sums up a lot.

PermissionToSpeakSir · 14/06/2018 16:50

Lighthouse it sounds really tough, do you get any respite?

I think there are charities who might be able to help- although it was a long time ago that I used to signpost to those sorts of things and since austerity things could have changed.

Maybe if you had a month off you could find it easier to face?

Sorry if I sound annoyingly chipper.

YourVagesty · 14/06/2018 14:29

Bertrand - you might like this: www.thetimes.co.uk/article/todays-feminists-arent-warrior-women-like-germaine-theyre-pearl-clutching-princesses-0xx9jm5bl

One of the few articles I've read lately that went against the grain re: current school of lazy thought on Greer.

LighthouseSouth · 14/06/2018 14:17

I haven't had candy floss for years. Can you even buy it in shops?

I've just been in Aldi and a woman stopped me and asked me some advice about cooking. It was surreal. I hate cooking!

Weezol · 14/06/2018 13:12

I had candy floss for breakfast and it made me feel splendid. Highly recommended.

LighthouseSouth · 14/06/2018 11:28

fried egg and buttered toast....

so I must read this article as I've lost the plot what terms are allowed now....

Waddlelikeapenguin · 14/06/2018 09:38

I don't know what to say about everything else. But it's amazing how the 12 rules of misogyny apply, isn't it

Everywhere & you cant bloody un-see it. thebewilderness has ruined us Grin even if i cant remember the numbers

Hair of the dog? Fry up?

Baroquehavoc · 14/06/2018 06:02

LighthouseSouth. Hugs. It's only a matter of time before I'm in the same position. Ironically I know how it will pan out because I've seen my mum looking after her mum.

That LOJ meeting with Alistair Campbell is always worth a watch. Makes me laugh every time.

I don't know what to say about everything else. But it's amazing how the 12 rules of misogyny apply, isn't it

womanformallyknownaswoman · 14/06/2018 04:41

Don't let the repetitive thudding of my head against the wall disturb you, it'll be reet.

I feel like that as well Weezol!

A crate of Sancerre and a lock-in to deal with MN's stupidity

Waddlelikeapenguin · 14/06/2018 00:37

Ah morph...

boatyardblues · 14/06/2018 00:26

Checking in for a nightcap (trashy Baileys pls) before I punch out for the night. Things are a bit odd tonight.

Another LOJ-related tweet (from the Brian Paddick thread) for those that enjoyed the Alistair Campbell one: mobile.twitter.com/DogLadyUK/status/1006676507635437569

PermissionToSpeakSir · 14/06/2018 00:12

It was on the WNTT q&a. A CSA survivor mentioned it and if some women find it so upsetting I'll have to rein it in. Sadly. I love my 'c' word. My fav. Brings me much mirth...

MrsFogi · 14/06/2018 00:07

I've been around since 2004/5 and this is a really rubbish day for mn. I need a G&T please BarWoman whilst I prop up the bar and ponder the steady disappearance of free speech and erosion of women's rights.

Theinconstantgardener · 14/06/2018 00:06

PermissionToSpeakSir
Was that on here?

terryleather · 14/06/2018 00:05

And Angry AC is smirking at not with!

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