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Alert the TRAs! Transphobia against transwomen!

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LaSqrrl · 06/06/2018 08:27

The tweet:
Straight men: would you date a trans person (m to f) if they’re hotter than regular women

The responses are a bunch of straight 'cis' men displaying obvious transphobia. I wonder if the TRAs will tell them to DIAF, or threat to rape them? Given lesbians are ordered to 'love the ladystick', or suffer the consequences, I am very curious to see what consequences befall straight men.

Answers on a postcard.

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YessicaHaircut · 06/06/2018 11:01

Very interested to see that the men on Twitter are allowed to tell the truth with impunity, when women are attacked and banned for doing the same.

Alert the TRAs! Transphobia against transwomen!
GibbertyFlibbert · 06/06/2018 10:56

And the record of men when it comes to honesty about sex is how big?

I am a lot less active in LGBTI groups than I once was but at one time I knew a lot of trans people. Almost all hard partners.

I had a friend a couple of friends in the States. Very attractive young women. They would read surveys like this and giggle because they knew from experience that most men were very keen to get them into bed. And if men realise that there is zero chance of an "accidental" child, they can become very enthusiastic.

One of the scare tactics transphobes use is "if you transition, nobody will ever be attracted to you". It's complete rubbish.

LaSqrrl · 06/06/2018 10:54

I think that the result of this twitter thread is that the woman who posted the original tweet on twitter will get banned. And NOTHING will happen to the het males who proudly displayed their "#literalviolence"

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SuitedandBooted · 06/06/2018 10:52

Still waiting fro the TRA pile-on.... I think it will be along time coming.

Glad to see so many pointing out that any man dating a Transwoman is not straight. The relationship is fine, and entirely their business, but they can't force others to accept their delusion.

Reality is still out there.

BeyondSceptical · 06/06/2018 10:52

Ah I know the answer to that one too - apparently it's "triggering" Hmm

AgonyBeetle · 06/06/2018 10:50

If the TiMs are all so convinced that trans women are women, why don’t they date each other and leave everyone else the fuck alone.

Confused
BeyondSceptical · 06/06/2018 10:49

Re changing sexual attraction. There is a thought that some hetero AGP males are attracted to women pre transition, however post transition, their attraction doesn't change exactly - they view being penetrated as the "ultimate femininity". So they change to having sex with men to fulfill that fantasy - the men are just part of the validation, not a real attraction.

Of course there are also those who are bisexual or who become "lesbian" (yes, they are airquotes - I'm not agreeing at all)

nauticant · 06/06/2018 10:47

I mean NO ONE not even TIMs themselves actually believe TWAW. It's ridiculous.

True but I do think that TRAs know that TWA(not)W and they know that the rest of us know that TWA(not)W, but that's not the game. The game is to make us say TWAW while not believing it. It's taking pleasure in the coercion. It's a power thing.

bd67th · 06/06/2018 10:44

Also yet more evidence that a woman's "no" is seen as negotiable and a man's isn't.

hackmum · 06/06/2018 10:43

nauticant: "Which is why I feel sorry for the homosexual young people who are encouraged to transition in the expectation that they will find themselves happy in their modified body and then able to get the partner of their dreams. What they'll be doing is removing a very large part of their potential dating pool."

Yes. It's really terrifying. And how can you possibly know at 15 or 16 that this is what it's going to be like? You're showered with people telling you how wonderful and brave you are for coming out as trans and you feel you must be pretty damn special. And then 10 years on, what are you left with?

Opheliah · 06/06/2018 10:42

TRAs always harp on at feminists saying "you're views are bigoted and dated, in the real world everyone believes TWAW."
Well...
In the real world (well OK a random twitter poll) about 89% of men know TW are men.

I mean NO ONE not even TIMs themselves actually believe TWAW. It's ridiculous.

LaSqrrl · 06/06/2018 10:42

A better question would be to ask TW who fancy women if they would sleep with a TW.

It is a good question. The TW-TW partnerships I have seen over the years have generally been transsexuals that 'transition' and get together, calling themselves 'lesbians', rather than just embracing a homosexual relationship (as men). Internalised homophobia much?

To a degree 'Caitlyn' Jenner falls into this group as well, even though previously (seen as) heterosexual, and a definite AGP. One wonders if the homosexual urges were underlying, or whether he was always bisexual (or pansexual as the kool kids call it these days). Possibly worse though, he is a Republican and chummy with Trump. Should someone be tagging in @realDonaldTrump to see if he fancies 'Caitlyn'? Should the TRAs send him death threats after he replies "hell no"?

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bd67th · 06/06/2018 10:41

Yet more evidence that #cottonceiling exists solely to facilitate male sexual entitlement to women's bodies.

nauticant · 06/06/2018 10:33

the easy way to stop your blood boiling about other people’s opinions, is to stop seeking them out in order to be offended.

This is one of the most ironic posts I've seen on MN.

Waddlelikeapenguin · 06/06/2018 10:32

Wow they arent being attacked for being bigots at all! I liked #YFrontCeiling Grin

Stoops to pat nauticant

nauticant · 06/06/2018 10:29

Which is why I feel sorry for the homosexual young people who are encouraged to transition in the expectation that they will find themselves happy in their modified body and then able to get the partner of their dreams. What they'll be doing is removing a very large part of their potential dating pool.

Kyanite · 06/06/2018 10:29

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exWifebeginsat40 · 06/06/2018 10:29

the easy way to stop your blood boiling about other people’s opinions, is to stop seeking them out in order to be offended.

try it. you might like it.

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 10:27

I remember when James O'brien pushing someone on the radio about where they draw the line as to a 'genuine' transwoman who should be let into the women's toilets etc.

Current case in USA re Women's homeless project reported here:
abc30.com/3514544/
'Shelter forced women to shower with person who identified as a transgender woman and sexually harassed them, lawsuit says'

(Extracts)
"A prominent Fresno charity, homeless women, and the transgender community all say they're experiencing a nightmare come true.

Nine women homeless women signed on to a lawsuit against Naomi's House and its parent company, the Poverello House, saying the last place they could go to feel safe is now dangerous because they're forced to shower with a transgender woman.

The Naomi House bills itself as a gentle haven of healing and a safe haven for single, homeless women, but a new lawsuit says it put a lot of women in harm's way in a very vulnerable spot -- the shower.

It says the shelter requires them to shower in groups, and it opened its doors to a person who identified themself as a transgender woman who made lewd and sexually inappropriate comments, and leered at them while they were naked.

"This is the biggest fear they bring up, that you're going to have people who may not even be transgender in bathrooms and settings where people are naked and their privacy rights are being violated," said Peter Kapetan, who filed the lawsuit on behalf of the women.

Poverello House administrators tell Action News federal law says they have to treat a person identifying as a woman as a woman -- and there's no way to test whether it's true.... continues

Adell Scot, a local transgender advocate, even offered to train Naomi's House employees on how to recognize people just pretending to identify as the opposite gender."

discussed (with other examples of issues in Homeless projects and Women's refuge)
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3266198-No-True-Transwoman-transadvocates-question-whether-TW-is-genuine-after-said-TW-sexually-harasses-women-in-homeless-shelter

BeyondSceptical · 06/06/2018 10:26
BeyondSceptical · 06/06/2018 10:25

400 responses when I checked, which basically go...

No
No
No
No
No
No
No
Hell no
No
No

#LiteralViolence

nauticant · 06/06/2018 10:25
Smile
LaSqrrl · 06/06/2018 10:25

Oh come on TRAs (including the MN regulars), you can surely do better than this? Ensure that the Cotton Ceiling is not just for lesbian knickers, but for het-dude jocks!

And surely the Degenderettes should be all over this afront to their 'authenticness'?

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Rufustheyawningreindeer · 06/06/2018 10:22

You are very special and clever nauticant

And it is a funny tweet...what a twat

nauticant · 06/06/2018 10:20

Whenever I post it, another poster will come along and pat me on the head and it makes me feel special and clever.

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