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Magdalen Berns is back!

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nolongerblue · 04/06/2018 19:11

Hoorah!

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hollyhzd · 05/06/2018 14:10

Some of the personal insults on here directed towards Ash are unkind but Magdalen is absolutely right to call Ash out on her complicity in her workplace's sexism. Maybe it feels like kicking a puppy because these trans tumblr adultkids base their brand on their self-identified vulnerability, but it's all this trigger-warning safe-space poor me bullshit shutting down debates in universities and no-platforming feminists. Women's rights are genuinely threatened by this youtube claptrap and damn right it should be tackled.

It's a good video. Transgenderism isn't progressive, it's a deeply regressive anti-women political ideology and these daft youtubers are nothing but tools of the patriarchy. Young people aren't stupid, they will get it. They might not agree straight away because they're socialised in a sexist society and we all know that vocal assertive women with opinions are never going to win popular support over a cutesy non-confrontational girl apologising for her own femaleness, but if they're exposed to videos like Magdalen's they will begin to see through their misogyny and they'll get it eventually. It'll do no good to kowtow to their bloody preciousness.

nolongerblue · 05/06/2018 13:57

Thanks @FermatsTheorem. That's terrible.

Gahwhatever, i don't really see the similarity of position between TRAs and Radfems (or me, not sure I am a radfem). TRAs seem to be wanting to separate women's embodied experiences from womanhood. They seem to want to colonise women's experiences and redefine and rename them, even our bodies. They seem to be solidifying sex stereotypes and planting the idea that if you are not a woman/man who is like THIS, then you may not really be a woman or a man at all. Feminism, to me, is about saying that there are many ways to be a man and many ways to be a woman. You can be as you are and still be male or female. I say this as someone who suspects that some people are born with a biological drive to identify with the opposite sex and these people have gender dysphoria. But TRAs seem to be promoting an belief system which is counter to my goal to challenge sex stereotypes and sex based discrimination, especially when they seem to have been successful in removing to language to even speak about sex based discrimination.

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FermatsTheorem · 05/06/2018 13:51

Actually I think we owe it to children to tell them (gently) when they're talking complete bollocks so they get a grasp on the distinction between fact and fiction before they reach adulthood and the outside world tells them they're talking bollocks in a much less kind way.

Baroquehavoc · 05/06/2018 13:30

'does come off as 'cute chatty trans kid being belittled by embittered old feminist."

Apparently, ash is 26, not a kid. She chooses to act young and cute in a video asking kids for money.

Parents need to make their children aware that people aren't always who they claim to be.

GahWhatever · 05/06/2018 13:22

*But we are not on the same side Gah. Magdalen doesn't want your daughter to chop off her breasts but Ash does. Ash also made about £2k last month from her YouTube channel. And yet she's grifting to exploit young people like your daughter.

Two years ago, Ash was wearing make up and making videos with Riley Dennis. Ash is not your daughter's friend. Ash is fucking toxic and Magdalen is absolutely right to ridicule her.*

I reiterate: the teens LOVE ASH. I (as a feminist and a mother) need someone as eloquent as Magdalen to engage with Ash and actually debate. Ash is painted as a victim and this (if I didn't really like Magdalen) does come off as 'cute chatty trans kid being belittled by embittered old feminist. I'm trying to make my child see that if you take the Rad Fems and TRAs and the politicising out of it their position and mine are actually very close indeed, with just a tweak of emphasis. I'm not talking about violent males here, I'm talking about a huge swathe of bright young women who are choosing to be non-binary or male identified rather than being gay women.

FermatsTheorem · 05/06/2018 13:15

Nolonger Magdalen was attacked by a man, and a male bystander came to her aid - he (the bystander) actually came out of it worse than she did, I believe, and ended up having hospital treatment for his injuries. I believe Magdalen tweeted that he probably saved her life.

OrchidInTheSun · 05/06/2018 13:12

But we are not on the same side Gah. Magdalen doesn't want your daughter to chop off her breasts but Ash does. Ash also made about £2k last month from her YouTube channel. And yet she's grifting to exploit young people like your daughter.

Two years ago, Ash was wearing make up and making videos with Riley Dennis. Ash is not your daughter's friend. Ash is fucking toxic and Magdalen is absolutely right to ridicule her.

therealposieparker · 05/06/2018 13:12

I don't think Ash is that young either, she's not a kid.

nolongerblue · 05/06/2018 13:10

@FermatsTheorem

Can I ask what the reference is to the guy who helped Magdalen out and if he is ok? I only heard yesterday that she was attacked by a guy - is that what you were referring to? What happened?

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Baroquehavoc · 05/06/2018 13:07

I don't think Magdalen is trying to appeal to the likes of ash any more than ash is trying to appeal to the likes of Magdalen.

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 13:05

Ugh taking money that kids don't have much off and grooming them

Ugh ugh ugh

Ash is absolutely fine, and coining it

GahWhatever · 05/06/2018 12:59

As an aging feminist I enjoyed Magdalen's sarcasm, a lot, but am disappointed by the video.
My transgender (only just) adult offspring loves Ash Hardell, and a couple of years ago gave me all their Christmas money to send to Ash who was crowdfunding to get their book published.
Up to about half way through Magdalen's video I was going to show it to my child: 'see, the ideas are the same, it's the nuances of interpretation that are different: the trans plan is to make sex unrelated to gender and so is the feminist one! We are on the same side!' and then Magdalen started being rude. There's no way I can show my child that as a basis for a discussion.
Look: she's very young and very peppy and slightly irritating but Ash Hardell is no fool. She has lived out some horrid times in her life through social media while being beautiful and eloquent and chirpy and the teens LOVE HER! If we could find someone as eloquent as Magdalen to engage with someone like Ash it would have such huge impact on our young people, rather than being something else to disenfranchise them.

Baroquehavoc · 05/06/2018 12:45

hipsterfun, one website said 26 years old.Shock

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 12:32

I'm afraid I included Riley. That's how annoying. Grin

hipsterfun · 05/06/2018 12:26

I don't think I've heard a more annoying voice.

Surely you’ve heard Riley J. Dennis?

Dear god, kids these days. I feel old.

hipsterfun · 05/06/2018 12:24

How old is Ash?

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 12:18

I thought she was taking the mickey at first, then I realised it's her actual voice

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 12:17

I don't know why ash has followers. I don't think I've heard a more annoying voice.

therealposieparker · 05/06/2018 11:48

Ash makes lots of cash out of exploiting and indoctrinating others into the cult of trans. Magdalen was kind.

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 11:40

Oh yes yes yes

WeAreGerbil · 05/06/2018 11:38

Nicola Thorp is the woman who challenged PWC about high heels.

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 11:30

Who is Nicola thorp

speakingwoman · 05/06/2018 11:24

Nicola Thorp is inspirational.
As said, heels are particularly noxious given the effect on health.

gendercritter · 05/06/2018 11:02

The basis of what Magdalen was pointing out was fantastic and people like Ash should really have a listen to the key message she was getting across - the whole ‘what did you do to counter the sexism’

Ash has privilege. No doubt they're vulnerable on some level but 500k followers puts you at an advantage in society. And yet still, when coming up against sexism, instead of doing any real good and tackling that (difficult to do, I appreciate), Ash has taken the discrimination and looked inward rather than out. They are literally subsuming a societal problem into a personal issue of being trans/different. It's the ultimate female submissive act. 'I am wrong' rather than 'society is wrong.'

I think sometimes the narcissism runs so strong in these people, you need someone to mock what they're saying and point out how silly it all is. Ash is so very self-obsessed and ultimately is doing harm. They will have lots of vulnerable followers. I get why people feel for Ash. It's very hard not to. Ash seems like they need a lot of help and guidance. But you also need to keep in mind how many people they will be influencing negatively.

Pratchet · 05/06/2018 10:18

She should be on actual telly.

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