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Where do we draw the trans line....?

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loveyouradvice · 02/06/2018 16:07

Really interesting reading all the Daily Mail comments on latest Man Friday article.... most seemed quite happy with the idea of transsexuals using women's facilities, but no transwomen with dangly bits.

This used to be my position - and may still be so... but I am really concerned the more I read about certain transsexuals (the previously macho late-transitioning type).... those with rampant AGP which leads them to fetishise women's bodies and being in women's spaces in a very mansplainy way.... I feel very squeamish about sharing space with them.... and was deeply shocked by learning that some comb bins for used tampons and pads and wear them to "feel more like a woman" and then celebrate and share this online with other fetishists.....

My suspicion is that for the sake of what one might see as the transsexuals we have long shared space with, out of courtesy and respect, that yes it is okay for them to be in some women's spaces .... But my concern is that with TRAs being so active and the transgender movement steamrollering ahead, that more of the aggressive AGP type are going to feel liberated to come out of the closet and into our spaces....and the balance will shift

I know this is just academic - given that focussing on No Self-Id is our priority - but would be very interested in hearing what other's think as I try to clarify my own position

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R0wantrees · 07/06/2018 21:39

I recommend Lord of the Flies... I had forgotten about it until recently.
(Wiki)
*At an allegorical level, the central theme is the conflicting human impulses toward civilisation and social organisation—living by rules, peacefully and in harmony—and toward the will to power. Themes include the tension between groupthink and individuality, between rational and emotional reactions, and between morality and immorality. How these play out, and how different people feel the influences of these form a major subtext of Lord of the Flies"

Bowlofbabelfish · 07/06/2018 13:41

Not at school, but I’m a huge fan of the golden age sci fi stuff in general, so have loads of Bradbury’s stuff.

It’s a frightening book. Lots of work from that time and on had a similar rather dystopian view of how technology might affect society. The lack of slow critical thought, deep understanding etc is worrying to me. I suppose we were the last generation who grew up without technology.

EmpressOfSpartacus · 07/06/2018 13:38

Did anybody else read Fahrenheit 451 at school?

R0wantrees · 07/06/2018 13:29

& of course the idea of burning books (or the modern equivalent) is a big issue.

R0wantrees · 07/06/2018 13:26

I'm not sure if its a specific mindset with Eng Lit, but when I read, I 'm doing so to understand things that may be relevent better rather than to prove a point of view. May have a think about that!

Bowlofbabelfish · 07/06/2018 13:16

The Babelfish method of referencing is half remembered read stuff augmented by google and an arc of papers on the floor around where I’m sitting...

Clearly I need to up my game, tips gratefully received rowan you are a veritable mine of info! :)

R0wantrees · 07/06/2018 13:06

TBH it feels like writing an undergraduate English literature essay. I did a lot of these a few years ago. I used to have a pile of books and papers on the floor in those days. Only difference is that with the internet, the floor is clear! Wink

Sarahconnor1 · 07/06/2018 12:45

Now I'm a bit disappointed. Don't get me wrong your ability to reference articles, threads etc is brilliant but I was hoping for a mind palace or at least index cards.

R0wantrees · 07/06/2018 09:49

Sarahconnor1 Neither I'm afraid & those who know me will find both suggestions amusing Grin

EmpressOfSpartacus · 07/06/2018 09:45

I've got a Times subscription & a collection of open-access links to their gender-critical articles. If anybody ever needs one, PM me.

Sarahconnor1 · 07/06/2018 09:18

R0wantrees Do you have a database of all this stuff or just an excellent memory (I'm imagining a mind palace of some sort).

thebewilderness · 06/06/2018 22:13

Omg no way do they wear used tampons and pads ?? Why oh why ? That has turned my stomach ! Creepy as fck

Do not google it, I warn you. You do not want to know.

Geordiegirl1988 · 06/06/2018 22:03

Omg no way do they wear used tampons and pads ?? Why oh why ? That has turned my stomach ! Creepy as fck

Waddlelikeapenguin · 06/06/2018 21:56

Thirded!
I think I have a crush on Rowan's brain BlushGrin

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 18:30

Thank you both, I have some time at the moment. We all do what we can Smile

LangCleg · 06/06/2018 18:26

I've said it before you are amazing and a total asset to FWR for this Rowan.

Seconded. You're tireless.

Ereshkigal · 06/06/2018 18:15

I've said it before you are amazing and a total asset to FWR for this Rowan Thanks

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 13:27

Happy to try to to help if I can Smile.

Pratchet · 06/06/2018 13:10

Honestly if I ever needed a 'remember that case where...' I would be on MN with a Rowan klaxon straight away. Star👏🏻

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 13:08

I do like a quote and reference though.

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 13:07

Its just c&p! Smile

Pratchet · 06/06/2018 13:03

Rowan you are a one-woman wiki

R0wantrees · 06/06/2018 12:58

it was the men who called the police because they objected to the presence of other-sex bodies in their single sex space

(extract re #ManFriday & Hampstead Heath Pools)
"We're clearly not men, but we've just been allowed in by Hampstead's own policy,' Mrs Desir said. 'Women's safeguarding has gone out the window.'

Hannah Clarke, 39, who also attended the protest yesterday, said: 'I would hate to think that I had upset anybody here today, but this is the point of a protest. We want to keep single-sex places single-sex and that was the aim of today. And clearly it's not just women that want them to stay single-sex, is it?'

There was widespread anger among the male swimmers at the pond. Peter John, 81, said he thought the invasion by the women was 'ridiculous' and urged the them to use the pond for female swimmers."

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5780623/Female-protesters-break-men-lido-leap-pool.html

EmpressOfSpartacus · 06/06/2018 12:51

I wonder why it's only us Northern girls that had to wear navy knickers? I call that discrimination.

I wore navy knickers & a little navy pleated skirt in Essex, but I liked hockey better than netball.

MyRelationshipIsWeird · 06/06/2018 09:51

you would think feminists I stress of protesting at a pool and claiming they are male and tying up police resources and just looking silly that they would have put their energy in to far less ironic things

I don’t think it was the feminists who decided to tie up police time, it was the men who called the police because they objected to the presence of other-sex bodies in their single sex space. And rightly so. Sadly the same situation in reverse was not taken anywhere near as seriously, hence the stunt, which has served its purpose well and brought the issue to the attention on the public - we love you ManFriday!

As for your inflammatory washing up/taking kids to the park comment, you've shown your hand. We see you.

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