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Guess how I got suspended from the Labour Party?

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IAmDavidLewis · 22/05/2018 23:17

Well, one of the weirdest days in my life concluded with me receiving a letter informing me of my immediate suspension from the Labour Party. They believe I may have breached the rules by subverting the intention of All Women Shortlists, Women’s Officers or minimum quotas for women. Unfortunately, this does mean that my political ambitions are on hold for a while. I shall of course be continuing to self-identify as a woman every Wednesday, as that is my gender identity...

I have to say a huge thanks to @namechangeah for all her help, guidance and, more importantly, proof-reading! I wouldn’t have gotten to this point without it. I’d also like to thank everyone for their support today. I hope this has helped a bit.

And the Telegraph called me an “activist”! Achievement unlocked Grin

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Offred · 24/05/2018 20:24

Lol super match.... if those things are done to a transwoman then it IS because of how they identify.

It shouldn’t be done to anyone but the point is it happens to women no matter how they identify and where it happens to transwomen it is happening as a direct result of identifying as part of the group that is subject to this crap.

mrsreynolds · 24/05/2018 20:19

Kudos my friend

speakingwoman · 24/05/2018 20:11

to be fair I do see my trans colleague being mansplained at, talked over, undermined, undervalued.

So there are some experiences she has that are very similar to those we have. There is overlap.

But not the bio stuff obviously.

Bowlofbabelfish · 24/05/2018 20:01

How do you know there aren't trans women that have had those things done to them because they have been perceived as the female sex both socially and bodily?

That’s not the points she’s making. She’s saying that regardless of how one presents there are some things that can ONLY happen to biological women. Being fired when you’re pregnant for example.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/05/2018 20:01

Hum, I seem to increasingly not 'living as a woman' as I get older. I even put the bins out today.

Ereshkigal · 24/05/2018 19:55

And TIMs that genuinely pass that well are not that common.

Ereshkigal · 24/05/2018 19:54

That's not the point. It doesn't happen to women because of how we identify, it happens because we are female.

SupermatchGame · 24/05/2018 19:32

Being catcalled, sexually-assaulted, blamed for your rape, called "hysterical" for objecting to porn on a tshirt at a conference, ignored, and talked over in meetings. All of which are things done to you by others because of your female sex, not things done to you because of how you identify.

bd67th How do you know there aren't trans women that have had those things done to them because they have been perceived as the female sex both socially and bodily?

BetsyM00 · 24/05/2018 19:30

Just searched Twitter for David Lewis and terf. This was the only result.

One, and it didn't even directly call him a terf. Compare and contrast to the ManFriday chaps. I can't believe David hasn't even been mass reported to the police!

Guess how I got suspended from the Labour Party?
MrsFogi · 24/05/2018 19:28

I am 29 pages late to this party but I just wanted to pop in and say a huge "Thank you" to you David. Whilst you may have been suspended hopefully the discussion of that will assist in shaking out how unworkable the policy is and the hypocrisy and misogyny of the labour party in dealing with this issue. I certainly feel you would have been much more representative of me than Lily Madigan is or has been.

The more men who are willing to self-identify as
women in order to shine a light on this issue the better because unfortunately it seems that women's voices have been drowned out and silenced in this "debate that is not allowed to happen".

Thank you!

AuntGertrude · 24/05/2018 19:19

Brilliant points by Hackmum.

Thank you David! Flowers

speakingwoman · 24/05/2018 17:26

"That’s an inaccurate explanation of criminal law. The element is mens rea not intention.

Was trying to keep things simple. But yes the mental element of a crime is called the mens rea."

that was the least of your problems there....

EmpressOfSpartacus · 24/05/2018 17:09

David, if you're ever in London I'd love to buy you a drink. A feminine glass of wine on a Wednesday or a manly pint on any other day of the week.

EmpressOfSpartacus · 24/05/2018 17:08

Pippa Bunce's gender identity is bi-gendered which remains constant. However, her gender expression varies from day to day. She does not have a female identity so would not qualify for AWS or the role of women's officer in the Labour Party. She is also not able to change her legal gender under today's laws or under legal self id - and I doubt she would want to.

Which would then mean that Pippa Bunce, and anyone else who just chooses to look feminine sometimes or claims to have some "girl genes", would not be able to legally self id and thus would have no right to use women's changing rooms, toilets or any other women-only facilities?

IAmDavidLewis · 24/05/2018 17:00

@SimonBridges Not that I’ve seen, for the simple reason that I don’t go near the hate platform that Twitter seems to have become. I’ve seen a screenshot of a tweet that calls me a “transphobe”, so there’s that. If anyone does see a tweet calling me a TERF, please let me know so I can feel justified in getting the “Tired of Explaining Reality to Fools” tee-shirt.

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Bowlofbabelfish · 24/05/2018 16:59

I’m aware I’m getting more publicity on this because I’m perceived to be a man by society at large and it doesn’t sit well with me.

Any publicity on this is good. Yes it’d be lovely if people listened to us women but if people listened to us women then we wouldn’t be in this mess in the first place.

So crack on and don’t feel bad about it.

SimonBridges · 24/05/2018 16:55

David, I have a question.
At any time in this debacle have you been called a TERF?
I ask because we are told that it is not a misogynistic term yet it only seems to be applied to women.

bd67th · 24/05/2018 16:39

@ErrolTheDragon

What evidence would there be to show that somebody was or wasn't living as a woman?

What, in the 21st century U.K. constitutes 'living as a woman'? Other than making use of sex specific facilities, or doing things specific to female biology (menstruating, gestating, giving birth, breast feeding, having hot flushes.....) there is surely nothing now which is more than a mere stereotype.

Being catcalled, sexually-assaulted, blamed for your rape, called "hysterical" for objecting to porn on a tshirt at a conference, ignored, and talked over in meetings. All of which are things done to you by others because of your female sex, not things done to you because of how you identify.

SarahAr · 24/05/2018 16:19

That’s an inaccurate explanation of criminal law. The element is mens rea not intention.

Was trying to keep things simple. But yes the mental element of a crime is called the mens rea.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/05/2018 16:18

What evidence would there be to show that somebody was or wasn't living as a woman?

What, in the 21st century U.K. constitutes 'living as a woman'? Other than making use of sex specific facilities, or doing things specific to female biology (menstruating, gestating, giving birth, breast feeding, having hot flushes.....) there is surely nothing now which is more than a mere stereotype.

TransplantsArePlants · 24/05/2018 16:13

Thanks

It wasn't perfect but it was something

merrymouse · 24/05/2018 16:09

Why? Because the court looks at all the evidence and makes a judgment on whether the defendant is telling the truth or not.

What evidence would there be to show that somebody was or wasn't living as a woman?

ToeToToe · 24/05/2018 15:57

Excellent work, Transplants Star

TransplantsArePlants · 24/05/2018 15:46

The PE letter was from me

TransplantsArePlants · 24/05/2018 15:43

Ireneony

I think the Rachel Dolezal comparison bears repeating again and again. I totally agree with you

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