Hi Babel 👋if you want to talk about me, just name me, it's far less confusing.
I think your post illustrates the point being made here by a number of posters, including me. You perceived our last exchange that you refer to as me 'trying to derail a thread', presumably because you thought I didn't want to discuss the actual issues. I was actually challenge you on some of your core ideas, and you didn't really provide me with a response other than 'this is my opinion'. Which is great, but it's not actually evidence is it? Presumably you believe that because you're a woman and I'm a man, your opinion on objective facts about feminism is worth more than mine.
See my response to Dowager below for why that's not true.
Now I don't want to rehash that debate here again, (I'm genuinely not into derailing threads) but I do encourage anyone who is interested to have a look at Babel and my previous exchange on the topic of men in feminism. It's a pretty good object study in a lot of the points I described earlier in this thread.
And for what it's worth I only ever post under this username (I think I namechanged once when I first joined the site) please feel free to check with MNHQ if you don't believe me.
Dowager
I accept if a white man was talking about what racism feels like, then of course his opinion would carry less credibility. But that wasn't my position.
I'm saying that if someone makes an argument about the substance of a position i.e does racism still exist in the UK, is the gender pay gap a result of sexism/the Patriarchy etc then their personal identity/race/sex is irrelevant to the validity of their argument.
It stands or falls on its own merits and if the only way a person can rebut their argument is to draw their race/sex into the debate, then they simply don't have a rebuttal.