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Gender pay gap

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FlyTipper · 14/05/2018 08:08

The world divides into two: those who believe a gender pay gap exists, and those who don't.

Those who don't say women are doing different jobs. They are working part-time, prioritising home/family, do not want the high level responsibility and work load associated with high profile jobs. Thus women choose lower paid jobs because they prefer the conditions.

Those who believe it exists say two people presenting the same show or headlining the same film should be paid the same but clearly are not.

My position: women do different work and this largely explains the observed pay gap. But where the world is set up for men to succeed, women have to pick up the 'crumbs' they can. SO the pay gap doesn't truly exist, but that isn't because of women's choice.

As befits my character, I like to have my views tested. DO you agree?

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Picassospaintbrush · 16/05/2018 14:04

Regardless I can't be bothered with another afternoon/evening of having to repeat myself and explain my posts over and over again

Well that's great, you did say that yesterday however, and then immediately came back again to bore us some more though, so can you please stick to it this time.

fmsfms · 16/05/2018 14:02

@PicassosPaintbrush

Says the person that can’t refute my claims or address them so finds it easier to attack me personally.

yourlogicalfallacyis.com/ad-hominem

@moimichme

The supermarket case has yet to go to a tribunal, therefore no decision has been reached.

Can you honestly not see why a job that has to be done outside in all/most weather conditions, involves heavy physical activity, heights and is fairly dangerous by comparison to other jobs, might be paid more than a job that is mostly done inside, doesn’t require heavy physical activity (but of course is not stuck at a desk) and is not physically dangerous at all?

moimichme · 16/05/2018 13:58

Well, in the supermarket case, I believe one of the arguments was that more strength/skill/training was needed for the warehouse jobs, which justified the pay difference. But the tribunal found that the two roles' value to the company was similar, and so they should pay the warehouse and shop-floor staff the same. www.ibblaw.co.uk/insights/blog/equal-pay-case-could-lead-surge-workplace-discrimination-claims

It just seems backwards, to me, that a traditionally 'female'/caring profession should require so much higher educational qualifications vs. a similarly paid, traditionally male career...it seems to reflect that society, yet again, values 'hard work' if it is usually done by men, whereas women have to meet a higher standard for the same wages.

AssassinatedBeauty · 16/05/2018 13:57

PP - previous poster. Who is clearly moimichme, from the sequence and timestamps of posts...

fmsfms · 16/05/2018 13:55

@Assassinatedbeauty "That's not what the PP was referring to."

How else am I meant to interpret that comment?

Regardless I can't be bothered with another afternoon/evening of having to repeat myself and explain my posts over and over again

Or answering obvious questions like "Why have you brought supermarket warehouse workers and checkout staff into the discussion?" which came directly after a post comparing nursery workers and construction workers

Different jobs with different levels of physical activity and danger

Surely this was obvious, goodbye!

Picassospaintbrush · 16/05/2018 13:50

Well your last one makes no sense at all.

And also because you are exceedingly tedious and pompous.

AssassinatedBeauty · 16/05/2018 13:48

Oh my, don't be a total fool. @Picassospaintbrush hadn't even posted when I replied to you! How could I have possibly thought you were replying to someone who hadn't even posted yet?! Look at the sequence of posts and the timestamps...

fmsfms · 16/05/2018 13:44

@Assassinatedbeauty

As should be obvious from the person I tagged in my reply, I was not replying to @picassospaintbrush.

Why is it so hard for you to understand/interpret my posts correctly?

Picassospaintbrush · 16/05/2018 13:31

moimichme

That's a great point. The profit margins in housebuilding are greater than those in childcare, the constraint with pay is always the amount of money that flows that way.

Assisnated, the example quoted is incorrect anyway.

Picassospaintbrush · 16/05/2018 13:25

I think you have trashed this thread fmsfms, I doubt anyone else will want to discuss anything with you.

AssassinatedBeauty · 16/05/2018 13:25

Why have you brought supermarket warehouse workers and checkout staff into the discussion? That's not what the PP was referring to.

fmsfms · 16/05/2018 12:57

@moimichme

What's your point?

I would suggest that a manual labour job on a construction site is far more physically demanding and dangerous, hence the similarities in pay, and hence why supermarket warehouse workers rightly get paid more than male/female checkout staff

moimichme · 16/05/2018 12:38

If I may attempt to add another layer to this discussion, I also find it interesting that similarly paid (but different) careers which are predominantly filled by women vs. men for example, nursery workers vs. construction workers can have vastly different education requirements. You can start work in construction without any qualifications, and earn approximately the same as someone working in a nursery who must meet a much higher educational standard (which of course has additional training time and costs associated with it). I'm not saying it's unjustified for those working with young children to need certain minimum qualifications, but the disparity in required education levels is huge, for the same wages.

nationalcareersservice.direct.gov.uk/job-profiles/nursery-worker#

nationalcareersservice.direct.gov.uk/job-profiles/construction-labourer

thebewilderness · 15/05/2018 21:25

That seeking behavior that is the nature of all creatures great and smol, let us examine it and create an evo psycho explanation for how men are just naturally this way except when they are not and women are just naturally that way except of course for when they are not.

What could be more offensive to misogynist men than for women to act like people?

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/05/2018 21:09

Fgs. Of course you didn't say that women like shopping, that was suggested by another poster as an example of an interest that women in general have (more so than men) that could be seen as about things. You disagree, I think, although are unwilling to discuss why.

What people are attempting to discuss is the definitions of "things" and "people", and the idea that these might have built-in biases. You disagree, I think, although are unwilling to discuss why.

Gender differences exist, I'm not going to say that studies didn't find what they did. It's this insistence that it is mostly down to inevitable biological differences that seems to be unproven, to me.

fmsfms · 15/05/2018 20:57

@flytipper the only question you asked in your last post was "How did lobsters get shoved in with male behaviour?"

fmsfms · 15/05/2018 20:56

More studies for you guys to ignore and disregard and deny:

Gender Differences in Personality and Interests: When, Where, and Why? onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1751-9004.2010.00320.x

Men and Things, Women and People: A Meta-Analysis of Sex Differences in Interests emilkirkegaard.dk/en/wp-content/uploads/Men-and-things-women-and-people-A-meta-analysis-of-sex-differences-in-interests.pdf

The Distance Between Mars and Venus: Measuring Global Sex Differences in Personality journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0029265

"Gender differences in interest and enjoyment of math, coding, and highly “systemizing” activities are large. The difference on traits related to preferences for “people vs. things” is found consistently and is very large, with some effect sizes exceeding 1.0. (See especially the meta-analyses by Su and her colleagues, and also see this review paper by Ceci & Williams, 2015)." heterodoxacademy.org/the-google-memo-what-does-the-research-say-about-gender-differences/

Another thought experiment: if you arrived on Earth from another planet and had no knowledge of the "nature vs nurture" debate, no knowledge of feminism, patriarchy or anything relevant to the discussion - eg you were totally neutral, unbiased and uninformed.

Would you be more likely to be convinced by the realms of scientific studies, many of which have been posted in this thread - or by the gender studies/social science "patriarchy, social conditioning" line.

Reminder of what I said in my very first post: "Of course it's not so black and white to say these differences are either 100% nature or 100% nurture, neither should be disregarded."

Does social stigma exist - of course
Should the influence of nature/biology/hormones be ignored? Of course not

FlyTipper · 15/05/2018 20:55

Flytipper: Answer my question, fms. No, please answer my question

fms: Answer MY question, Flytip, you derailer, how dare you!

Sigh. I'll have to call it a day. Had a laugh though.

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fmsfms · 15/05/2018 20:48

@flytipper "Girls like things and boys are interested in people"

As already explained several times - pointing out that on average at a population level that girls are more interested in people related careers, and boys in thing related careers, does not mean that boys can't be interested in people professions and girls can't be interested in thing professions.

I'm so tired of repeating myself

fmsfms · 15/05/2018 20:38

Well you're now trying to derail again.

You know what a straw man is,, right?

It's when you misrepresent someone's position so that it becomes easier for you to attack their position

I never said "Women don't like shopping"

Now you've made me explain what a straw man is, is this always how you debate? With straw men and derails.

This my last attempt at a relevant and fruitful discussion:

If you could wave a magic wand and eliminate overnight all social conditioning, stigma and gender stereotyping - do you think more women in male/female relationships would still choose to be the primary child raising parent, or would it be 50/50, or would more men choose to?

I think it's absurd to suggest that the sex that creates the life,, feels it grow, carries it and nourishes it for 9 months, brings into the world and feeds it from her breast is only staying at home because of the patriarchy

FlyTipper · 15/05/2018 20:35

How did lobsters get shoved in with male behaviour? Dominance hierarchies require people to read other people. Guess what, humans are highly social animals. In fact, very few mammals live in the gregarious social groups we do. So guess what, people are good at reading other people. What fms doesn't appreciate is the 'standard' view of women:people link is drenched in sexism. Girls like things and boys are interested in people, just maybe not always in the ways scientists expect e.g. shopping and aggression. Offhand I can think of some others: male politicians plotting against their enemies, strategy games that men like, men seducing women; women curating 50+ pairs of shoes, girls collecting Pokémon cards and pens and teddies and....You get my point.

On a more serious issue, I'm actually rather indifferent if there are small innate differences between sexes. I expect there are some. But the damage is done when, from these small foundations a narrative is promulgated and enhanced, then entrenched at school, at work and so on. And then the scientists go back and identify small differences in early life and use them to justify the existence of the big divides Confused.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 15/05/2018 20:26

Is this how you always discuss things? Where anything you don't want to talk about is a derail or a straw man?

fmsfms · 15/05/2018 20:23

By that logic designing a car isn't an engineering/thing career because ultimately it's going to be used by a person

I don't feel the need to discuss categories which are commonly accepted and I had no part in coming up with. By all means knock yourselves out with this derail

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/05/2018 20:16

I think what people want to discuss is what the categorization of people and things is based on, what the definitions of these things are.

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/05/2018 20:15

Um, engineering and surgery are done for people, no? Or have I misunderstood?