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Article (advert) for working as & using prostitutes on BBC today, running a brothel, punters invisible as usual

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KittTheCar · 17/04/2018 18:55

here

While it's always interesting to read perspectives I find this one a bit proaganda-y, specifically:

  • Police officer turned brothel owner saying police will turn blind eye (he's someone "in the know" and as an ex copper will be seen to be a good moral type of person generally
  • Woman saying why should anyone judge her - which always comes up, from a feminist point of view it is striking that yet again we have a defensive woman while the men who - if anyone is to be judged should be the ones to be judged - are pretty much out of the picture in this part
  • It's clearly an advert for this particular brothel
  • The idea that paying for sex is normalised is presented as a good thing, and that groups of men will come as a starter to a night out. Do they really do this? I mean, a lot, in the UK? I took it as more of a suggestion to readers - "it's all fine and normal, come along with your mates!"

Posting on the feminist board for obvious reasons - I find the normalisation of buying women for sex really worrying and extremely unpleasant. Women these days feel it's not something they have any right to dislike. The happy hooker narrative is in full swing.

Did this read to anyone else more or less like an advert for this particular brothel?

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SparkleBuns · 17/04/2018 19:04

I see what you mean though I thought similar when I saw it. I didn't watch the video but the thumbnail shows a confident, clean looking woman with the "I enjoy being a sex worker" vibe floating around the article. As if they're all like that and it's all cool and fun and safe now

SparkleBuns · 17/04/2018 19:02

Yuck.

Alot of men say they worry about having sex without consent nowadays by accident cos it's so fucking hard to know, obviously so maybe this is their easy way out. Pay money upfront to buy the consent.

KittTheCar · 17/04/2018 18:58

Yes this bit

"There are a lot of younger gentlemen coming in, handsome gentlemen - people that you wouldn't think would need to pay for sex, but it's easier for them than dating," she says.

"Sometimes friends will come together before a night out. It's become a lot more normalised."

I think this is supposed to say oh well these men are handsome and could get sex for free so it's not really unpleasant for the women working (questionable).

And the friends going along together thing is grim. Men bonding over sexually exploiting some women before a night out.

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