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Matthew d'Ancona in the Guardian - 3rd spaces as the solution

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rowdywoman1 · 03/04/2018 08:19

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/apr/01/transgender-equality-women-only-carriages-caledonian-sleeper

This seems to me to be a thoughtful and reasonable article. Apart from his irritating use of 'cis' he talks about the need "to build toilets that accommodate trans visitors without making cis women feel uncomfortable." and that in rape crisis centres, trans women seeking work will have to accept that their aspirations are trumped by the rights of the horribly violated. Sorry, but there it is"

It was good to read an article which genuinely tries to navigate a way forward and move the conversation on. And slightly unbelievable to see a second constructive article in the paper that has acquired such a reputation for dismissing women as transphobes and bigots. I wonder whether he'll get the same reaction that Hadley Freeman did?

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LangCleg · 03/04/2018 08:57

rowdy - I agree, but if you substitute sexual predator for either MRA or AGP, I think the point stands. The AGPs are in charge of the TRA movement now and they don't want to blend in quietly and peacefully. They want to barge in and be validated. Matthew's article is still framed that the argument is between feminists and transsexuals - and it really isn't. As he would know if he spent a bit of time on here and saw how transsexuals and feminists actually interact with one another - a few disagreements, yes, but often broad agreement and many paths for ways forward.

hackmum · 03/04/2018 08:57

rowdywoman1 - of course I take your point. I don't for a moment think that all (or even most) transgender people are predators. As you say, there are plenty of transwomen who have been peacefully going about their business for decades without doing any harm to anyone.

I do think, however, that the current wave of transactivism is largely driven by people with an anti-woman agenda. In some cases, it's because they want access to women's and girls' spaces for sexual reasons, and in others, perhaps, it's just because they are men's rights activists who hate women.

There are also a lot of people who have been swept up in the transactivist cause who are neither predators nor woman-haters, but who are simply gullible idiots who imagine that the transactivist cause is a progressive one.

rowdywoman1 · 03/04/2018 08:51

hackmum
While I do think that some predators have jumped on the back of these issues I don't believe that seeing them as representing a whole group gets us anywhere. Where does that position leave all the teenage girls transitioning - the main group growing in numbers? Where does that leave all the transgender women who many of us have known for decades?

Positioning transgender people as predators is really unhelpful - just as it is positioning all scout masters, priests, swimming coaches as predators just because there have been a significant number of paedophiles who infiltrated those groups.

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ThatEscalatedQuickly · 03/04/2018 08:50

Yeah we are all just rolling around in roubles. Hmm

At least The Guardian is finally making space for some articles that don't tread the usual lines.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 03/04/2018 08:49

' In the best sense of the word, he is a liberal who, faced with an ethical conundrum, decided to err on the side of trust of his customers.'

Well no, Matthew. He's decided to trust his male customers and disbelieve the female ones. Think about it.

(I like what Ancona is trying to do with this article but he needs to do a lot more listening to women before he will really grasp this issue.)

LangCleg · 03/04/2018 08:47

In reality a lot of us long ago came to the conclusion that current transactivism is an organised effort by sexual predators to invade women's spaces and gain access to potential victims. I think it's quite a steep hill to climb to persuade people like D'Ancona and even Hadley Freeman that that is the case.

Exactly. They still don't understand that it's not about transsexuals any more.

No feminist ever has objected to third spaces. All the solutions he offers here have been suggested and supported by feminists and point blank rejected by TRAs.

It's a good article but he is still stuck in the false TRA framing.

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 03/04/2018 08:45

Particulary loving this one

We have had Russian money given to us and a 'platform'

Excellent. I want some beluga caviar too

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AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 03/04/2018 08:43

Like ahem...

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53rdWay · 03/04/2018 08:42

Third spaces totally reasonable. Practicalities of hashing them out in various circumstances would prove difficult of course, but trying to work it out anyway is a lot better than deciding it’s all a bit confusing so let’s just abolish single-sex spaces altogether and call women bigots if we object.

hackmum · 03/04/2018 08:40

By the abysmal standards of recent articles in the Guardian, then this is quite good, though by the standards of what would constitute a decent analysis of the issues, it doesn't come close.

The problem now is that most of us have come to the conclusion that this isn't about a conflict between women's rights and the rights of transgender people. If it was, there would be a way of discussing it and, hopefully, resolving it amicably. In reality a lot of us long ago came to the conclusion that current transactivism is an organised effort by sexual predators to invade women's spaces and gain access to potential victims. I think it's quite a steep hill to climb to persuade people like D'Ancona and even Hadley Freeman that that is the case.

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 03/04/2018 08:38

He comes across as a bit of a knobber but kudos for attempting to propose a solution.

The TRAs are going to hate it though