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DV "gone wrong"

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DarthArts · 26/03/2018 18:29

I'm struggling for words....

What's DV done right supposed to look like?

This is part of Jane trying to argue why women don't need single sex spaces....own goal right there.

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OlennasWimple · 26/03/2018 20:16

Just when you think TRAs can't get any worse, there they go again...

They really do hate us, don't they?

"I didn't mean to murder her, m'lud, just slap her about a bit"

"Oh, OK then, just DV gone wrong, that's fine"

Hmm

Angry Angry Angry

Ereshkigal · 26/03/2018 20:16

Agree with pp that JF is losing it over Man Friday and our continued pushback. Feeling control of this situation slipping away. Hence these increasingly desperate and crass and callous tweets.

SardineQueen · 26/03/2018 20:15

Well if ever you needed evidence that

a. women's lives are worth less than men's lives and that

b. everyone inlcuding TIMs knows TIMs are men

Otherwise they'd be saying the same about TIMs murdered - that it's mundane, and probably due to misunderstandings, and their stupid fucking eggshell skulls.

Xenophile · 26/03/2018 20:15

What gets most women killed is the same thing as gets trans people killed: Male violence and toxic masculinity.

Not women, and not them asking for it.

Fuck you.

DancingLedge · 26/03/2018 20:15

Is the the same Jane Fae who wrote this?
www.newstatesman.com/media/2013/01/misogyny-intimidation-silencing-realities-online-bullying??

Cause this reads like anti- misogyny? Am I missing something here?

Xenophile · 26/03/2018 20:14

Fae isn't even correct about DVA murders. They are all pre-meditated, because DVA is pre-meditated. No-one accidentally smacks their wife/partner about. The trope of "man losing control" is just more misogynist bullshit designed to deflect blame from where it should be: the perpetrator onto the victim.

Victim blaming of murdered women is so easy for violent men, they can't answer back, and usually, the men have done such a good job of destroying the woman's life, friendships and credibility that people buy into the "she made me do it" narrative.

I really hope you are reading this Jane Fae. I agree with LangCleg, you really are a piece of shit.

LastGirlOnTheLeft · 26/03/2018 20:10

The devil has this one. Shameful and evil.

DarthArts · 26/03/2018 19:58

That's pretty much how I felt Lang.

Its the casual callousness that I find really very disturbing indeed.

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DarthArts · 26/03/2018 19:53

I've genuinely got no idea what's going on in Jane's brain and given the toxicity of that tweet I've absolutely got no desire to.

Absolutely agree with a pp wrt if Jane is interviewed in the media again this should be publicly challenged.

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LangCleg · 26/03/2018 19:52

Most of the time I am quite hardened to all this revolting stuff. I can just be blunt about it and rude to the horrible piece of humanity that posted/said it.

But this particular piece of despicable misogyny has really upset me. I feel a bit sick and my eyes are stinging.

Jane Fae - I hope you are reading. You are a piece of shit for saying this.

SusanBunch · 26/03/2018 19:50

I have been looking at wikipedia for stats about trans murders. In the UK, I think there have been 3 or 4 on the past 10 years. The one in recent days may have been a sex-worker according to Twitter. I remember the TIM lawyer who was pushed under a train in 2010. I was a lawyer at the time and he was very well respected (and at work, he remained male). He was actually murdered by another trans identified male. The others I can find were murdered by people known to them.

There are higher numbers in the US, but the US has a much higher population and a higher homicide rate. Many were sex-workers. There simply is no homicide campaign against trans people, definitely not in the UK.

Also, if Jane thinks it's so tragic that a TIM possibly working as a sex worker was murdered, would Jane spare a thought for the many many female sex workers who are beaten, raped, murdered every day of the year by clients and pimps. Thought not. Jane probably believes they have cis privilege.

BeatriceJoanna · 26/03/2018 19:41

Isn't Jane Fae also a rape apologist? I seem to remember an article from a few years back. Just goes to show that whatever these men do/have done to themselves - essentially they don't change.

I miss facts. Facts were ace. Oh yes, weren't they!

And evidence - remember that? It was awesome. Absolutely.

I am so tired of reading nonsense, responding to nonsense, trying to argue with people who spout nonsense.

swivelchair · 26/03/2018 19:34

If the next journalist that has Jane Fae on TV doesn't ask them about this they should be fucking ashamed, and hand in whatever press pass exists in this country.

DV gone wrong, eggshell skulll FFS exactly how bloody offensive does a person need to be before it's hate crimes?

CapnHaddock · 26/03/2018 19:33

When transwomen are murdered, it's a tragedy. When boring women get murdered, it's because we deserve it. We push men to kill us, to go that bit too far and smash our fragile eggshell skulls in.

Why the fuck is the media even giving airtime to this person?

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Xenophile · 26/03/2018 19:24

Presumably DV gone right is ok with Jane though.

We all know women should just STFU and let people like Jane speak all the time.

Jane was obviously even more upset by their drubbing on GMB than they appeared to be and is now lashing out at any woman they can.

53rdWay · 26/03/2018 19:02

Well that sounds like someone with a great grasp of women's experience of violence, definitely just the person we should believe about how women aren't REALLY afraid in mixed-sex toilets.

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DarthArts · 26/03/2018 18:59

And this is from the person who was on national TV arguing with Amy Desir about Self ID.

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dorothyparka · 26/03/2018 18:59

I miss facts. Facts were ace. And evidence - remember that? It was awesome. Constantly debunking unfettered batshittery is so bloody tedious.

holycheeseplant · 26/03/2018 18:54

Like sex gone wrong when a woman chokes to death from strangling.

JF sounds like they support Russia's shiny new DV laws.

ijustwannadance · 26/03/2018 18:53

Boring murder??Confused

SpringNowPlease2018 · 26/03/2018 18:52

I can only imagine domestic violence "gone right" is keeping the victim alive so you can keep bashing the heck out of them.

if you do it wrong and kill them you have to find another punchbag.

never come across this person before, luckily.

UrsulaPandress · 26/03/2018 18:51

Christ on a fucking bike.

Not much shocks me these days but that has really upset me.

SusanBunch · 26/03/2018 18:50

That is absolutely disgusting. The whole 24 post shitty thread drips in misogyny. Men are not a risk, bla, bla, bla. Women are hysterical hypocrites who should get over themselves. Murder is not that serious- it's just women with their stupid fragile skulls that should be able to take more punches.

How sick in the head would you have to be to demand to access rape crisis centres just to 'make a point'? But maybe rape is just 'sex gone wrong' though and the women should get a grip.

This is someone who is regularly invited onto serious news programmes to debate. Sickening.

Nickynackynoodle · 26/03/2018 18:49

Shouldn’t be allow d a public platform on anything, let alone women’s rights & VAWG. Disgraceful.

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