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Deaths of women and transwomen (may be distressing)

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OlennasWimple · 25/03/2018 00:14

I know I shouldn't be, but I'm incandescent about this tweet from our favourite women's officer Angry

It hopefully goes without saying that any murder is a serious issue, and no-one deserves to die because of who they are. The apparent murder of this transwoman in London is appalling, and should obviously be condemned.

But. But, but but...

LM blames "transphobes and the media" for "stirring up moral panics" about transwomen. So obviously the MAN who has been arrested for her murder is not to blame, it's the nasty TERFs....

And there is jack shit on LM's Twitter feed about the WOMEN who have been murdered in London recently. A Google search for "women killed in London 2018" brings up:

A woman found dead in Twickenham and her husband and children found dead in E Sussex

A woman stabbed to death in Camden

The sentencing of a man who raped and murdered his niece and attempted to murder another woman last year

The arrest of a man suspected of murdering a 22 year old woman who went missing on Christmas Eve

A woman who was stabbed to death on a steet in Redbridge in early January

The finding of remains believed to be a woman who disappeared from London, presumed murder, six years ago

A woman who was murdered in her home in January this year

And that is just from the first three pages of search results.

Where was LM's outrage about these horrific crimes? Where were the accusations of bigotry? Were they not terrifying too?

Angry Angry Angry

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Atthebottomofthesea · 25/03/2018 17:33

Is this the extent of their argument?

sane person: "Maybe we should wait for all the facts before jumping to conclusions?'

TRA "Transphobe"

It is ridiculous, it really is.

KittyMcKitty · 25/03/2018 17:02

Very sad and my condolences are with the victim and her family.

The language Jane uses when describing women is very much male language- women are “squaking” and have silly stunts - blaming and seeking to demean and trivialise us - nice!

Why do Jane, Lily et al refuse to name the problem and acknowledge that it is male violence?

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 17:01

If you want to make TRAs angry, make fun of them! Grin

AutumnStar93 · 25/03/2018 16:59

@TerfsUp No, no it's fine. Looking back at it now, I feel I took it a little too far. I just let my anger get the better of me. In a way, I did stoop to their level, but don't worry about it, you didn't make me uncomfortable at all. :)

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 16:52

AutumnStar93 I am genuinely sorry if I made you uncomfortable. It was not my intention and I apologise, too, if I made you feel bad.

AutumnStar93 · 25/03/2018 16:30

@TerfsUp You're right, I apologise. It just made me really angry, is all. I'll be more careful in future.

DeloresJaneUmbridge · 25/03/2018 16:01

Of course LM isn't tweeting or outraged by women's deaths as HE/SHE DOESN'T REPRESENT WOMEN... no matter what he/she thinks.

Am tempted to suggest that LM represents only LM but if generous I would suggest they represent trans women and trans women only.

Real women don't come onto the radar and if they do they are seen as TERFS if they dare to suggest something he/she (oh fuck it...HE) doesn't agree with.

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 15:53

I am not the language police not do I want to be but I am dismayed to see the use of "truscum" and "Ne-c**ts" to describe TRAs. I deplore it when TRAs use this kind of language and, to me, that abhorrence goes in both directions.

Let's not stoop to their level.

AutumnStar93 · 25/03/2018 15:27

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CapnHaddock · 25/03/2018 14:17

JF used some lovely misogynist language in that tweet. ManFriday has really upset the TRAs

TemporarySign · 25/03/2018 14:08

Surely this shows exactly why trans people do not belong in Women's posts, and should in fact have their own?

HermioneWeasley · 25/03/2018 13:29

These men will stop at nothing to attack women. They even take the murder of a transwoman (probably a prostitute) and claim women are to blame.

They are hideous misogynists.

We see you.

Mumsnut · 25/03/2018 13:26

This murder was an example of male violence.

Fear of male violence is the reason for the Man Friday movement.

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 12:46

That is odd, NotTerfNorCis. This is the story that is exactly in their wheelhouse.

LonginesPrime · 25/03/2018 12:44

I read it last night and was horrified by the response. Instead of just commenting how dreadful it is it was used as a score pointing exercise.

I thought the LM tweet was awful too - it's not like this was a historical crime stat, this is a person who has just died and whose family and friends are still grieving.

I thought it was terrible not to offer condolences or even acknowledge that this was an actual human being who died, but instead to say 'someone died and it made me feel really scared for myself'.

Completely clueless.

NotTerfNorCis · 25/03/2018 12:36

Lily and Jane both claim the media ignored Hersi Hersi's murder. It's a lie:

BBC

Daily Mail

Evening Standard

Get West London

Attitude

The Sun

Strangely I couldn't find it in the Guardian.

yetanothertranswoman · 25/03/2018 12:34

Do they really think every woman murdered has full media coverage

That's true - I think there were 3 or 4 murders of women just in one week a few weeks ago in a week and there was little coverage.

I think there were also other murders of men and children (stabbings) that get very little coverage - especially in places where such events are more common. 26 knife deaths this year - 6 teenagers and many from the black community. Mainly in London

HerFemaleness · 25/03/2018 12:27

@beerin, all their accusations are in fact admissions of their own motivations.

Beerincomechampagnetastes · 25/03/2018 12:21

One could even think that Lily & Jane actually welcome the opportunity that Niami’s Death brings for their advancement of the perpetual pissing competition they are in.
The fact the Jane said we were ‘self obsessed’ in her tweet would be laughable if I wasn’t truly shocked by how unreflective they actually are.

Madigan has blocked me.

Atthebottomofthesea · 25/03/2018 12:16

I am even more cross now that I have read the JF tweet. How dare they use the murder of someone as a means to score cheap points. Do they really think that this is just being ignored because the victim is trans? Do they really think every woman murdered has full media coverage?

Someone has died and all they can do is make it about 'me, me, me'

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 12:15

As others have said, I don't see Madigan and Fae weeping and wailing and rending garments about crimes committed against women.

If you want an ally, be an ally.

LangCleg · 25/03/2018 12:04

Yes, I think Jane Fae got in first and Lily, as ever, was jumping on the bandwagon.

A 24-year-old man has been charged with this horrible murder. Additionally, a 17-year-old girl has been charged with aiding an offender. The victim was out as trans. It seems, as said above, they were all known to each other. So unlikely to be a transphobic hate crime.

CircleSquareCircleSquare · 25/03/2018 11:52

I tell you what and I don’t know about you, when I go out a-murdering I always listen to Radio 4 first to see who to target.
Hmm
Male violence will never be tackled whilst this constant trans rights over women’s rights agenda is pushed.

PencilsInSpace · 25/03/2018 11:23

Jane Fae getting in on the act too twitter.com/JaneFae/status/977520480272908288 Disgraceful behaviour Angry

TerfsUp · 25/03/2018 10:46

L Madigan should keep up the tweets like that as the more there are, the more Madigan digs h** political grave.

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