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How to make love to a trans woman

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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Mummyoflittledragon · 22/03/2018 11:15

I meant to add, the term “fresh vaginas” makes me feel sick. It’s tapping into the misogynistic view of virginity and even paedophilia.

gussyfinknottle · 22/03/2018 11:13

I think I threw up a little bit.

Mummyoflittledragon · 22/03/2018 11:13

I’ve read the article and skimmed some other articles. This particular one is vile vile vile. The sad thing is that the site seems relatively moderate. I liked the article “Realize that comparing yourself is destructive”. The author advises the transwoman not to compare themselves to cis (grrrr) women. There is even a section about being kind and polite to others and how you treat others is a reflection on how to treat yourself so try to be compassionate. I think all MIT’s should read it.

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 11:12

Elendon I’m sure you’re right.

Even if LGB people statistically make up 1-25 of the young population, i’m Sure it would be higher in real life.

That article is targeting the wrong audience though, it’s assumed at straight men, it should be focusing on bisexual men because no straight man is falling for the ‘trans women’s vaginas are better’ line.

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TempusFugitive · 22/03/2018 11:12

More mental stability!!

The only trans woman i currently know is a whirlpirl of rage. She has been banned from a coffee shop i frequent for aggressive sarcastic and pasdive aggressive remarks always muttered under her breath. But even she is saner than this crew.

NoqontroI · 22/03/2018 11:12

😂😂😂 Better fresher vaginas. You couldn't make this shit up.

CaptainCardamom · 22/03/2018 11:10

Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy.

What's extra worrying here is the suggestion that this willing, fresh, perfect-bodied trans woman won't be like a normal woman, because she will always be up for anal sex, unlike those silly biological women who might let their own preference not to have anal sex get in the way.

No trans women would put her own preferences first or give any thought to whether SHE wants anal sex. They are all there to be man-pleasers.

It's so weird how such a lot of the "femaleness" that trans women hope and aim to adopt actually lines up with a very unreconstructed man's idea of appealing femaleness. Dresses, make-up, heels, up for anything in bed.

Datun · 22/03/2018 11:10

nauticant

Just bear in mind, the blogs being referred to are part of a transgender dating site, TransSingle.com, and as such they will include anything, however false or laughable it is, to get traffic.

I agree that is the point, and that is an arena in which these sorts of articles would be welcomed.

But it is these very fetishists who are driving the agenda elsewhere.

It is they who are insisting on all the language changes, the access to women, the insistence on pronouns and making misgendering a hate crime.

This is trans now.

PositivelyPERF · 22/03/2018 11:09

It’s fucking hilarious. I somehow don’t think they’re going to find it as easy to manipulate and gas light as many men into sex, as they do young lesbians. I still remember my three boys trying to excuse why they wouldn’t sleep with a TIM after I called them out on the ‘transwomen are women’ mantra. That’s where the whole house of cards fall down.

SuitedandBooted · 22/03/2018 11:08

I haven't had enough coffee yet to cope with that!

I was sent another article about "How to make love to your Trans Girlfriend" -(I've some strange friends!)

It was full of "Don't worry if your girlfriend is a bit shy about you touching her penis* Confused, and " Sleeping with a Transwomen doesn't mean you are GAY!!" - Erm, maybe not, but it's not exactly the first choice for hertrosexuals, is it? For most of the world, away from Trans Mothership, two male-bodied people having sex are either gay or bisexual. Not that it matters, anyway, I'm very much with Mrs Campbell on this "Does it really matter what these affectionate people do -- so long as they don't do it in the streets and frighten the horses!"

However, I DO have a big problem with the deliberate attempt to subvert reality, and make me accept their version of it.

Howyoualldoworkme · 22/03/2018 11:07

Oh I like the one about dating.
No saggy boobs and more intellectual conversation Grin
transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/05/17/merits-of-dating-transgender-females/

And more mental stability Hmm

picklemepopcorn · 22/03/2018 11:06

There is something very wrong with this sentence...

"Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-women. "

A lot of things in fact!

". Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy. It is, however, different from homosexual sex as you are having sex with a woman."

How is this a woman?

nauticant · 22/03/2018 11:04

Just bear in mind, the blogs being referred to are part of a transgender dating site, TransSingle.com, and as such they will include anything, however false or laughable it is, to get traffic.

RJnomore1 · 22/03/2018 11:04

If trans women have better bodies then women...

Then they have different bodies from women?

So they're not the same as women after all?

🤔

Freudian · 22/03/2018 11:04

PP,

Most men i think are genuinely worried about the issue. Some have been labelled homophobic for not wanting to sleep with "them"

Personally I'm concerned about men entering women's sport - my daughter kickboxes. Im also concerned about her right to female only spaces.
This is damaging our sons too, normalising mental illness and celebrating victim culture - will it be easier for him to find an oppression to tag onto rather than overcome, learn and succeed ?

noeffingidea · 22/03/2018 11:03

Women are the gatekeepers to sexual intercourse. That isn't true in many societies where women have very little power or control over their own lives.
I don't think it's true of our society either. Everyone is their own gatekeeper, because consent is now seen as an intrinsic human right. That is what some people don't seem able to grasp - no one is obliged to have sex with any particular person, for any reason.

Juells · 22/03/2018 11:00

men have to be gentle with these women, as they might not be used to their newly implanted vaginas

You can fuck women as roughly as you want, though. It's all they're good for.

It is very possible that Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women

Oh, they so wanted to say Trans women 'usually have better bodies' but read the sentence back and thought maybe they'd better add the 'It is very possible...'

speakout · 22/03/2018 11:00

Hilarious.

CaptainCardamom · 22/03/2018 10:59

Terfragette69 yes I know but what baffles me is how this person can't see that their argument isn't something they can possibly know. It's just flinging random cliched insults.

mummmy2017 · 22/03/2018 10:59

Very curious. When you get a woman excited her body tells you and provided fluid to make this pleasurable how did the doctor reproduce this effect?

ButchyRestingFace · 22/03/2018 10:58

This is comedy gold though.

Obv written by a trans-woman who isn't getting any and probably never has.

SusanBunch · 22/03/2018 10:58

Fucking hell. Love all the stereotypical ‘men have to take charge in the bedroom’ thing. Yes, because ALL women are clearly like that.

Obviously written by someone who has realised that nobody wants to have sex with him and is now trying to make out that they are really missing out.

Oh and having sex with a trans woman who has not had surgery is like having sex with a man. Full stop.

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:58

Yes, I agree PsychoPumpkin There are a lot more bisexual people. They simply don't admit it. I studied Classics and bisexuality was probably more prevalent during Greek and Roman times than heterosexuality.

BeyondDeadlySiren · 22/03/2018 10:57

”They have a sexual appetite that very few cis-women can compete with”

Make your mind up - I thought they had a reduced sex drive which is why they’re totes never sexual predators...? Hmm

RJnomore1 · 22/03/2018 10:57

Hold on

Is this whole things actually about closeted gay men???

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