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How to make love to a trans woman

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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speakout · 25/03/2018 10:01

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speakout · 25/03/2018 09:51

PositivelyPERF

Sorry.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/03/2018 09:43

One of Rod Liddells pieces in the Sunday times this morning is on this subject. Another touches on Labour’s (non) AWS and yet another on a women's college barring staff from calling the students women.

go.mumsnet.com/?xs=1&id=470X1554755&url=www.thetimes.co.uk/article/nothing-proves-jeremy-corbyn-is-anti-semitic-just-everything-he-says-anddoes-sh0n23hg0?shareToken=af852b89b79b6e1e0a18f22783d11523

PositivelyPERF · 25/03/2018 09:16

Oh gad, I wish I’d left this to read AFTER breakfast. 🤢

speakout · 25/03/2018 09:15

Unpleasant but realistic.

AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 09:11

It's really a pretty unpleasant idea, but try pointing that out and you'll be inundated with cries of transphobia. For the ones who expect lesbians to sleep with them (shudders).

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AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 09:05

The whole "fresh" thing always makes me think of a tube of Pringles, which really isn't the most erotic analogy.

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OtterInDisgrace · 25/03/2018 05:27

Good luck with that.

Wombman · 25/03/2018 05:26

There's plans to transplant uteruses into mtfs

OtterInDisgrace · 25/03/2018 05:16

All joking aside, I think we should be highlighting the whole procreation business when trying to deal with the TRA.

OtterInDisgrace · 25/03/2018 05:14

Hey. Someone said it before me and elsewhere, but if our stale old fannies and bodies are so lacking, let’s let the transwomen get on with repopulating the human race.

We may as well retire, seeing as transwomen - who ARE women, btw - can do it better.

I give the human race 50 years, max.

Hanging up my womb, cos it’s just not needed any more. Oh! Let’s think on that one!

Jux · 24/03/2018 21:51

That article makes some very good points, pickle, sensible, not overstated and factual.

picklemepopcorn · 24/03/2018 20:05

Is this relevant here? It's an interesting read, though long!

www.commentarymagazine.com/articles/the-disappearance-of-desire/

CircleSquareCircleSquare · 24/03/2018 18:16

My poor stale fanny, someone left my cake out in the rain.

speakout · 24/03/2018 18:10

TerfsUp yes of course, bit how can a vulva be "created"
Cosmetically perhaps, functionally not.
Sad.

TerfsUp · 24/03/2018 18:03

That leads me to another question: when transwomen have genital surgery, does the surgeon create vulva in addition to a vagina?

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MaisyPops · 24/03/2018 15:00

Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-women.
Fucking hell!!!!
Because being a woman a having a hole which pleasures men right?!

Oh and being a woman is about having the right proportioned body... to appeal to men.

There's a certain type of transwoman who seem to think:
Sparkles, eyeliner and dresses = woman
Hole to sexually please men = woman
Body in the correct proportions to appeal to men = women

Hmm
smithsinarazz · 24/03/2018 14:55

(I know, I know, this is just some dick being a dick, and the article isn't necessarily representative of anything, and it's wrong to have a pile-on. But what a dick.)

smithsinarazz · 24/03/2018 14:49

Damn it, my vagina's never been the same since I pushed a baby out of it - I suppose trans women'll never have that problem...

But you know what? Life doesn't have to be a sodding competition. Even if you grew up playing Who Can Piss The Highest.

Flomper · 24/03/2018 14:48

@jux, greatbidea, although a trip to Thailand will show that many of them are already there. Many also married at home though sadly so not really out of circulation.

BlooperReel · 24/03/2018 14:41

So a Trans woman is 'fresher' with their 'implanted' vaginas?! I have never read such horseshit in my life.

Also, do they think men will fall for 'anal sex with a tanswoman who hasnt had surgery isnt the same as homosexual sex'.... Hmm

Jux · 24/03/2018 12:29

I do wonder if all the so-called men who would actually be looking for the sort of woman being described in that article, were to bugger off to date/fuck/abuse TWs and leave us awful cis-women alone, then life would be considerably better for us. In fact, the article is insulting to both women and men.

Perhaps if we were to encourage TWs to take those sort of men out of circulation?