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How to make love to a trans woman

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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Terfragette69 · 22/03/2018 10:45

Would love to hear what the 'twanzactivists' handmaidens have to say about this?? Fresh vagina. 😂😂

ShotsFired · 22/03/2018 10:45

The author didn't look too closely at the tags on the image they used, did they? Grin

www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-beautiful-pair-lovers-talk-bed-387937291

How to make love to a trans woman
Hypermice · 22/03/2018 10:44

Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender sex experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions

Or cocks.

Genuine question: Do transwomen who identify as lesbian (ie ‘men who still want to have sex with women’) accept transwomen as partners then? Or is it only natal women/lesbians who are bad if they don’t like ladydick?

WonderLime · 22/03/2018 10:42

I’m confused how a trans-woman is on one hand is 100% woman, but at the same time something entirely different from a woman (different sexual appetite, less ‘frigid’, more ‘animalistic).

Either trans-women are the same as ‘cis’ women or they are not - both can’t be true at the same time. Hmm

Basseting · 22/03/2018 10:41

sorry, i know it doesnt add anything to the discussion but i think my head just exploded with the stupidity and misogyny of this.

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:39

I don’t know, momo.

In an ideal world that’s exactly what trans people would do and a few years ago I thought that was the beginning and the end of it.

Some men and some women preferred to present as the opposite sex, it was harmless and I was happy that they were living as they wanted to live.

Then came CIS, TERF, Self ID, taking positions meant for women, rejecting third spaces, silencing women...

I’d love not to have a problem with the trans agenda but I do for the reasons listed above, and because I fear for my daughters, I fear for free speech.

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UndomesticHousewife · 22/03/2018 10:38

I really can’t see telling a heterosexual man who wants to have anal sex to do it with a trans woman because they are women just ignore the penis is going to make them go ok then if they either aren’t bisexual or are sexually attracted to trans women Confused

TerfingHell · 22/03/2018 10:37

I have a serious question.

Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women, which helps during lovemaking.

How does better proportions help in lovemaking?

LangCleg · 22/03/2018 10:36

Zero mention of female pleasure, which is obviously irrelevant.

That's what screams out, isn't it?! It couldn't possibly occur to this fool that actual women might say to their partners what can you do for me? rather than never anything but what can I do for you?. Absolutely no comprehension that a sexual relationship could, and should, be mutually fulfilling.

It's what you write, presumably, when you are steeped in sissification porn.

Jux · 22/03/2018 10:36

Having sex with a transwoman who hasn't had a vaginoplasty isn't the same as having homosexual sex because you're having sex with a woman? A woman who has a penis and no vagina.

Yeeees.

TempusFugitive · 22/03/2018 10:35

They hate women because men dont buy their crap but they are all softly softly come road test me batting eyelashes to the men. Why dont they have the exhilarating experience of making love to each other? Or are they too inhibited?

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:34

Sorry OP didn't mean to be so tetchy. I hadn't seen your third post.

Solanas' SCUM manifesto

www.ccs.neu.edu/home/shivers/rants/scum.html

Quotes from the article:

To call a man an animal is to flatter him;

Being an incomplete female, the male spends his life attempting to complete himself, become female.

the male is, nonetheless, obsessed with screwing; he'll swim a river of snot, wade nostril-deep through a mile of vomit, if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him. He'll screw a woman he despises, any snaggle-toothed hag, and, further, pay for the opportunity. Why? Relieving physical tension isn't the answer, as masturbation suffices for that.

And regarding that last quote you will not find a heterosexual man on the planet who will have sex with a trans woman.

Mouthtrousersafrocknowandthen · 22/03/2018 10:34

A surgical opening accessing a section of transplanted colon.

Jazz Jennings is apparently having one made from the peritoneum as they thought the colon idea was too revolting.

deydododatdodontdeydo · 22/03/2018 10:33

That article is so badly written, mysoginist and frankly transphobic, I wonder if it was actually written by a fifth columnist.

Momo18 · 22/03/2018 10:31

Wow, I have no words.

So basically women are shy and frigid, trans women however are more woman in bed. Why can't they just be trans without attacking women!?

BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:30

And yes, most straight men would be put off by a penis (for which they would no doubt be accused of transphobia)

Orangesox · 22/03/2018 10:29

Wow. That makes for an interesting read. Not quite sure why my husband married me when he could have a fresh vagina housing, better proportioned, permenantly sexually aroused trans-woman Hmm

The term “implanted vagina” struck me as odd.... it’s not an implant, it’s another body part fashioned to make a neo-vagina. It’s not an organ transplant for Christ sake!

BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:29

Could it also be that most men never meet trans women, because proportionally there aren't that many of them?

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:28

If someone wrote an article talking about how trans women’s bodies were obviously masculine under their clothes or that in order to ‘make love’ to them you had to ignore the fact that they still had a penis, and how it’s actually nothing like having sex with a natal woman then you’d be accused of transphobia, but this article is fine as misogynistic views have always been acceptable.

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MyBrilliantDisguise · 22/03/2018 10:27

Does "internalised inhibitions" = "I really don't want to do that?"

BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:26

Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender sex experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions; they are missing out big time

Do they really believe that's why most men won't experience it?

HomeTerf · 22/03/2018 10:26

Zero mention of female pleasure, which is obviously irrelevant.

"They have a sexual appetite that very few cis-women can compete with.'
Because sex is a competition. Try a bit harder, laydeez (or fake that enthusiasm.)

GruffaloPants · 22/03/2018 10:23

Says it all really, doesn't it? Laden with hatred of women, their sexuality, their bodies.

Still, at least my partner is willing to overlook my stale, uncomfortable vagina, frigidity and ill-proportioned body, goodness knows why Grin.

I now demand to see a similar article from the PoV of a sex doll, slating transwomen.

MyBrilliantDisguise · 22/03/2018 10:23

Please don't call them 'cis men.'

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:22

I’m sure the majority of trans women don’t actually talk about women this way and this is only one person behind this article, but it’s such a disgusting way to talk about women and their bodies.

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