How to make love to a trans woman

There is a thing whereby some men are attracted to transvestite or transgender people who dress / look like women superficially but have a penis. And a sex industry in some places based on this.

I've never really understood it but presumed it was for men who find that whole idea appealing because they are basically bi or gay or unsure.

is it awful to say my first thought on reading the title was:
provide a mirror and narcissus will take care of himself

Lol!

Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh

What do they think ours are? Fucking fishy and stanky? Old?

Fresh indeed! But this is some crappy dating site. They've paid an amateur writer.

What a lot of old crap.

"It is very possible that Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women"

It's hilarious. I particularly liked this bit:

Sex with Trans women who have not had the surgery is different, and it really helps if you are bisexual. If you are not, then this is the best chance for you to try. Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy. It is, however, different from homosexual sex as you are having sex with a woman.

Now, why, I wonder, is it helpful to be bisexual given you're having sex with a woman?? Hmmm. And "best chance for you to try" what?? To become bisexual? Surely we're not going along the conversion by fucking route, are we?

Why can't a woman be more like a man?

Women are the gate keepers to sexual intercourse.

It's men who have made the rules regarding sexual intercourse.

I remember being blocked by Owen Jones on Twitter

He was fulminating that lesbians who wouldn't suck trans cock were transphobes, but when I asked him when the last time was he had licked a transman's clit he blocked me for homophobia......

I don't think utter misogynistic bullshit even begins to cover this tripe. I am so sick of reading about trans stuff because I don't give a damn how anyone lives their life but it should not be allowed to impact on real (refuse to use cis) women in what should be women's safe spaces, women's prisons, women's sports and their lives in general.

CaptainCardamom

They are basically saying real women are fat, saggy with unpleasant old vagina', it's thoroughly disgusting!

They don't half fetishise trans-women in that article.

Oh god. I really hope that blog is a spoof. How can anyone who's spoken with a woman for 5 minutes believe this stuff? My favourite bit so far is the section explaining femininity.

[https://transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/03/05/transgender-women/]

Women have a deeply ingrained need to look elegant and fashionable.

Words that aptly and precisely capture femininity would be, your body makes you feel sexy, your face makes you pretty, your smile makes you gorgeous

Women do not walk or move slovenly

women don’t walk; they gracefully slide

I don't think this blog is remotely representative of the views of genuine transexuals who go to great effort to pass.

Wow that writer is very confused.

wtf is a better proportioned body anyway? How can they possibly know all about how a trans woman's freshly made vagina compares to all the natural vaginas? How can they possibly label all trans women as a class as being simpering in bed - they can't know that!

What a pile of guff.

Speaking as a man - apologies if I'm not supposed to be in here.

I find this article repulsive. Some questions

What exactly is the ideal proportion for the female form ?
Why would a surgical wound made from inside out penis be more appealing than a REAL vagina.?
Why do these people pretend that heterosexual men even would consider this as an option ?
They are not women.... at all. They are deeply troubled men. Sex is 5% of a relationship why invite the chaos such a person is surrounded by into ones life ?

Im actually appalled that this narrative is being presented and poisoning our kids minds. How my young daughter and son will navigate this issue growing up concerns me a great deal.

Transwomen who identify as lesbian are heterosexual. Is my humble opinion on the matter.

I can't wait for them to start telling straight men that they're transphobic for not considering transwomen and that they're vagina fetishists for wanting the women they sleep with to be er... women.

Most straight men would rather put their penis into a vagina, than into an inverted penis. Harsh but fair.

'Better' is a phrase based on socialised expectations and values.

Unravel the concept from stereotypes of what a woman should be.

Noting of course that women want to reject the very concept of 'better' womens bodies.

Notsexistatall.

Cross post again!

I know all there is to know about the crying game.

I remember this article from its first appearance. My general view is that the writer is someone with a few issues and probably poor mental health. One unhappy, messed up individual. Who should simply be ignored by the vast majority of us.

Regarding LGB, which is sexual orientation, this is an interesting article.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41498713

It's obvious that the majority HLGB is the H, though I would query the B. Bisexuality I think is much more prevalent.