If you ask twenty lesbians anything, you'll get twenty different lesbians views and that's great and valid, then a number of bisexuals and straight women will join in, drowning out the views of the lesbians, which is more problematic but we're well used to it. 
This lesbians has no problem with young people attending gender clinics. I understand that of those presenting under a certain age, the overwhelming majority will turn out not to have life long gender dysphoria and that's fantastic. I think that not being trans is easier than being trans although I'm aware, for some, that's a contentious view. Those presenting later, are far more likely to be trans and more likely to go on to have some kind of treatment. Clinicians seem to have a good handle on sorting out who needs what and I wouldn't presume to know more than them.
I know that the number of children seeing help for gender related issues has risen exponentially over the last decades and I also know that the numbers of children seeking help for all kinds of distress and mental health problems has risen exponentially too. I think that children getting professional help for their distress and mental health problems is an overwhelmingly Good Thing and that funding needs to increase in all areas to meet these needs.
I'd like to see a world that was much more open to butch women and presentations of female masculinity. As someone who is attracted to, and has had relationships with, non feminine women, I'm aware of how difficult everyday life can be for them. There seems to be a bit of a squeeze on acceptable types of gender presentation from some sections of the feminist movement and I think that non conforming women, will continue to be a victims of that. I don't see any of them being 'pushed into being trans' but those who favour masculine names, masculine clothes and masculine pronouns, can, on occasion, be made uncomfortable by the 'biology is everything' stance. I do see them hanging with the trans men, although they are perfectly happy with their own bodies.
As for the view that trans women will take over the lesbian community, I don't have much truck with it. I remember when the very same arguments were made about bisexual women; that they would arrive with their straight privilege and tell us what to do, while spreading sexually transmitted infections. It was vaguely annoying to be occasional asked to have a threesome with a man. However, I think that overall lesbians did more to change the views of the bisexual women who wanted to hang out with lesbians, than bisexual women did to change the lesbian community.
That debate did a lot to solidify my view that penises aren't powerful enough to overwhelm the lesbian community and to imagine that they are, is a form of submission to the patriarchy.
As for the ongoing 'cotton ceiling' thing, I find it distressing. The objectification and sense of entitlement over women's bodies isn't unique to lesbians. Straight and bisexual women are also told constantly, that they should be allowing themselves to be used for the sexual pleasure of anyone who asks. We should be loudly and insistently rejecting this on all fronts, raising our voices in unity to shout 'fuck off' at every predator. There is nothing about being a lesbian that has made me less able to tell people I don't want to have sex with, that I don't want to have sex with them, if anything, it might have given me a tiny bit more practice in saying 'no'.
(NB, this post is what I understand is know locally as a 'plop', I'm not going to read any replies or come back and argue my position. I'm finding the aggression of those who disagree with me a tad wearing and very time consuming. I'm supposed to be working today.)