I'm feeling so conflicted about being a feminist and what it means.
Mainly I think women should be able to choose their own path, and should look for partners that support this. So fuck that to the idea women should work full time but carry all the home making and childcare responsibility.
But while women allow men to get away without doing their domestic share or emotional labour, we all suffer.
And meanwhile women have to put up with bullshit at work from men whose wives 'don't need to work' so they don't get it when family life encroaches on the professional.
Sorry this is a bit of a rant - I think the wives of powerful/rich men are entitled as feminists to put family first but still think it would be easier for women en masse if they all told their husbands to fucking do their share around the house and look after sick kids while pursuing their own business / political agenda.
Does this make sense?