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mermaids and children in care

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Terfmore · 15/03/2018 08:59

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This is Mermaids advice for professionals working with children in care who may be trans. It is mind boggling shallow in the way it deals with the topic (not unusual for the trans lobby).

There is no trauma based analysis whatsoever. No consideration why a child who has experienced very difficult circumstances may well want to self identify into something else.
It makes no comment that a child in care is, due to neglect and other factors, likely to be emotionally less mature than peers.
It has little understanding of the legal technicalities that would arise if a child in care (not adopted) was making these kind of decisions.

This is the affirmation model -
"If you transition, what if it’s a mistake? This is a scary myth that many trans people face day to day. If a young person tells you they are trans and want to transition it’s safe to say that they are pretty sure about it. This myth actually tells a young person ‘being trans is a mistake’ which is a very distressing thing to hear. We must be open and curious about a young person’s gender identity and support them through their transition in whatever way we can. Only 0.1% of people who transition have a reversal."

At the end it gives information about how to help the young person change their identity to have a new name and "gender marker".
How fucked up would that be for a child who has gone from their family of birth, probably through multiple placements and then to have the opportunity to have a whole identity of your own. It would be so tempting

Irresponsible and so obsessed with their own agenda imo it is harmful.

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Somethingweird · 15/03/2018 10:18

This is an article I found which deals with the fact that there is very little evidence of transitioning being a good thing in the long term:

"saying transition is a healthy choice does not make it so".

It's quite long but a good read.

pdfs.semanticscholar.org/8a67/da92b326feb553c59fa5f92ab077b535e4d1.pdf

The 0.1% figure is entirely bogus, and is based on older transsexuals (who to be fair had to jump through hoops to get sex reassignment surgery, so were extremely unlikely to seek reversal surgery). It takes no account of the recent explosion in adolescents identifying as trans, nor of the affirmative approach.

It is naïve and reckless in the extreme to ignore attachment issues/trauma/mental health problems and treat gender difficulties as a standalone matter.

NaiceBiscuits · 15/03/2018 10:04

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BetsyM00 · 15/03/2018 09:47

Only 0.1% of people who transition have a reversal.

Says who? How can they have produced that whole document without one single solitary reference to any research or studies?

MickHucknallspinkpancakes · 15/03/2018 09:31

Holy moly the table....just the table alone....

I'm learning German at the moment....how will they take up these pronouns in the nominative and accusative function.

The mind just boggles.

rememberthetime · 15/03/2018 09:29

Kids in care are an easy target for them. Already traumatised and looking for role models.

And no parents to look out for them.

and looked after by social services who are no doubt "trained" by mermaids too.

No blocks in their way at all.

Freshlylaidterf · 15/03/2018 09:17

Had a quick skim through. Not good.

Lottapianos · 15/03/2018 09:04

'If a young person tells you they are trans and want to transition it’s safe to say that they are pretty sure about it'

How incredibly irresponsible. At an intensely vulnerable point in a person's life, when their identity is not yet fixed, and they have experienced additional trauma, adults should be forcing them down one particular path, which seems to be largely irreversible. Dreadful