If we renamed liver, which I hate the smell and taste and texture of, and called it deliciouswondermeat instead, and you put a plate of it in front of me, I still wouldn't want to eat it, because it's not the label that I find unappealing
Exactly this ^
I'm happy calling people by their preferred pronouns and acknowledging the gender they feel they are, and when I've been hit on by transwomen, I've politely declined (in the way I would with anyone I wasn't attracted to).
If someone were getting aggressive or pushy about sex, that would be a turn-off in itself so it wouldn't be happening anyway.
I don't feel threatened by someone drawing a Venn diagram that purports to be about me. People can obviously say what they like but this doesn't change what happens (or doesn't happen) in my bed.