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I just outed myself as a “Terf”

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Zintox · 26/02/2018 22:38

Oh good grief. I will have to name change after this as it’s too outing.

I am involved in an organisation which works with local Maternity services representing women’s views and helping to shape the service.

At a recent meeting we were discussing accessibility and a fellow member mentioned trans. It was picked up as a discussion point so I left it but it got me wondering what my organisation’s stance was.

Tonight I was talking to the Chair (I have a position of authority too) and asked the question.

She is usually so well informed but in this just looked at me and said “what about people born in the wrong body?” I said I didn’t think we could ignore biology and I couldn’t support that in the context of our work.

Can. Of. Worms.

I’ve now sent her a link to some resources but basically she now thinks I’m an evil bigot. Arrrgh! This is beyond awkward.

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SmurfOrTerf · 26/02/2018 22:50

Yes but I'm sure a lot of places don't have a policy, until a TRA shoves their way in.
Then the policy is well women can fuck off

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Zintox · 26/02/2018 22:47

I asked my organisation’s position on trans.

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AskBasil · 26/02/2018 22:46

This ideology of people born in the wrong body, has been uncritically accepted hasn't it?

Yet there is absolutely no scientific evidence, that anyone can be born in the "wrong" body. Just, none. At all.

Zintox · 26/02/2018 22:46

She hasn’t read the thread yet. She may not at all.

The issue is that I cannot be on board with pretending biological men are women and vice versa. It’s in the context of a trans man being pregnant and accessing maternity services.

I fully support that they receive services it’s more about language and the erasure of women for example by talking about “people who access maternity services” rather than women.

It’s about where do I draw the line and speak out? As I am in a position to raise this and see it discussed but might in the process end up seen as a bigot and perhaps lose my position.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 26/02/2018 22:43

I don't get what question you asked, or what it is that you couldn't support?

SmurfOrTerf · 26/02/2018 22:40

HA ha didn't she like the thread you sent her ?

Isn't it an issue for people working with maternity services not to understand biology Grin

C0untDucku1a · 26/02/2018 22:40

I dont understand how it is relevant to trans? Is it about how to approach trans men?