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This woman is all of us.

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CAAKE · 17/02/2018 02:58

Lily Madigan speaking to a rapt audience at an Enfield North CLP meeting.

Photo is from this tweet -
twitter.com/enfieldnorthclp/status/964240546977013760

This woman is all of us.
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CroneAlone · 18/02/2018 17:27

It's Rik isn't it. From The Young Ones.

PeteAndManu · 18/02/2018 16:13

Gamer could you reply to PencilsinSpace post please? Or can’t you so you’ve moved the goalposts again?

I don’t think or want abuse to have a place in politics - seems to be women on the receiving end mostly - but if Lily is going to dish it out (including dirty tricks like breaching DP laws) then they should be able to take it. Unfortunately I don’t think they can and I think GC women will take the flack when it implodes. It shouldn’t be that way but that is what will happen. I would be sympathetic but I’m saving my sympathy for women in jails having to share with TIMs.

Ereshkigal · 18/02/2018 14:04

no matter what you think of a person's journey to get here, we are collectively WOMEN. (Remember, the law agrees with this!

LM isn't a woman, and the law allows for certain situations for women where even trans identified males with GRC can be excluded. So it is legally recognised that there is a difference.

BeyondTerfyCassandra · 18/02/2018 08:07

"YOU havent walked around in her shoes"

Dr marten boots are hardly rare, plenty of women here will have walked in them...

thebewilderness · 18/02/2018 02:05

WTF is it with people who seem to think that demonstrating their contempt for women adds verisimilitude to their argument, or their refusal to offer an argument?

Terfinater · 18/02/2018 00:26

Enjoy your fun girls. Have a great weekend :-)

We're women. Not girls . It's that biology thing again.

BitFuckedOffNow · 18/02/2018 00:06

Beyond this, I'm not really interested in participating in this thread anymore. I think its sad. My 15 year old has a better understanding of LGBTQ rights than anyone has shown in this thread.

Mm, and the rights of lesbian women who are being pressured to sleep with trans women with intact penises and being accused of transphobia if they don't? How about their rights?

What about the 80 percent of young people who would be likely to grow out of dysphoria if left to their own devices and not pushed towards transitioning and medical interventions? Many of whom are young women, who might well be survivors of sexual abuse, or autistic, or lesbians? Where do their rights fit in, when practitioners taking a supportive watchful waiting approach is considered transphobic?

TheDowagerCuntess · 17/02/2018 23:53

The lack of understanding that YOU don't get to tell someone what THEIR experience is.

😅

SimonBridges · 17/02/2018 22:58

The lack of understanding that YOU don't get to tell someone what THEIR experience is. YOU havent walked around in her shoes, you can only judge the outer package.

Yes, just like she can’t tell me what it is like to be a woman because no matter how hard she tries many of the things that makes a woman a woman will never be in her realm of experience.

I can’t imagine as a white person I would get very far as a BAME officer. So why is this different.

And Lily is 20 now. I’m willing to bet there. are young women in her constituency who are living independently with young babies right now. She isn’t a ‘young teen’.

thebewilderness · 17/02/2018 22:41

That is the double standard, Gamer. Your double standard.
Men like Lily are experts on women so they are the women's officer while women know nothing about the experiences of the trans identified male.

Myunicornfliessideways · 17/02/2018 22:41

Take a look at the record of the young MP who is Madigan's age and manages to behave like a professional adult. Madigan was legally an adult when they stood for a public position, were judged competent to take that post, and has stood on a public post with public responsibilities lobbing grenades ever since.

The whinging that 'don't be horrible to child' doesn't cut it.

Either the Labour Party should be held responsible for fielding a child in a political post and not controlling their behaviour (I'd have some sympathy for that POV, I think they've been astoundingly irresponsible in maintaining a young adult in a post they are evidentially not mentally fit for) or else we are talking about an adult in a political position who is behaving extremely badly and should be held responsible for that behaviour.

The fact we're even having this conversation illustrates clearly the male privilege accorded to a TIM, a biological woman would never be allowed this much indulgence and unconditional awww bless support.

Thisusernamethingistricky · 17/02/2018 22:34

The lack of understanding that YOU don't get to tell someone what THEIR experience is.

And with that, my irony meter just exploded.

LassWiADelicateAir · 17/02/2018 22:29

If he was widening the bandwidth of being a man, I'd applaud

Alex is a very good looking man.

picklemepopcorn · 17/02/2018 22:24

I know, Alex is gorgeous! But he isn't redefining womanhood. He's a great man, though.

As for Lilly's immaturity, why is she a women's officer if she is young and silly?

TellsEveryoneRealFacts · 17/02/2018 22:11

Yes. A teenager. It is dumbfounding that 1. the level of maturity to recognize that this IS a teenager and to bear that in mind when contextualizing the content she puts on social media

Not a teenager by the way. Hope that helps you.

PencilsInSpace · 17/02/2018 22:05

Right look, is Lily a fragile TEENAGER or is they up to the job of representing women in their constituency? One or the other. Lily is 20 now BTW. Women in Lily's constituency deserve decent representation. If Liliy is a fragile teenager who can't be held responsible for anything then who's pulling the strings? They need to be held responsible.

This isn't dumbfounding it's just fucking dumb.

The lack of understanding that YOU don't get to tell someone what THEIR experience is

Arf.

ReanimatedSGB · 17/02/2018 21:56

Ooh, if Alex was simply a straight man who liked eyeliner, I'd be in there... (possibly missing point of thread but I love glammy men...)

ReanimatedSGB · 17/02/2018 21:55

I'm not sure that Madigan is all that fussed about trans/LGBTQ rights either, TBH. I think Madigan's focus is the specialness of Madigan, end of.

Mayday01 · 17/02/2018 21:53

No one tells women what their experience is either, it works both ways. Cis my arse.

Mayday01 · 17/02/2018 21:52

Gamer, so which is Madigan.
A strong independent potential trailblazing political leader, or a tremulous gentle girl?
You can't have both.

Gamer · 17/02/2018 21:48

Yes. A teenager. It is dumbfounding that 1. the level of maturity to recognize that this IS a teenager and to bear that in mind when contextualizing the content she puts on social media. God help us all if social media was around when I was that age, and 2. The lack of understanding that YOU don't get to tell someone what THEIR experience is. YOU havent walked around in her shoes, you can only judge the outer package.

Beyond this, I'm not really interested in participating in this thread anymore. I think its sad. My 15 year old has a better understanding of LGBTQ rights than anyone has shown in this thread.

Of course, silly me popped on to a thread that was only ever meant to heckle a TEENAGER, so I shouldn't have expected much. :-)

Enjoy your fun girls. Have a great weekend :-)

picklemepopcorn · 17/02/2018 21:18

Like Alex.
No surgery, no hormones, still sleeps with women, but as a lesbian. Alex says straight women are discovering their inner lesbian, by fancying Alex.

And apparently 'she's' widening the bandwidth of being a woman.

If he was widening the bandwidth of being a man, I'd applaud.

This woman is all of us.
SusanBunch · 17/02/2018 21:06

This particular young person being a woman's officer will be a woman for the rest of her life, and she deserves to participate and be represented.

Lily has not undergone surgery, has not taken hormones, has not got a GRC. Has basically done nothing to prove any sort of long-term irreversible commitment to living as a woman. Lily is a teenage boy who has said one day that he is a woman and the whole world has accepted it and elected him women's officer. He has a girlfriend as well, which apparently makes him a 'lesbian'. He is basically a heterosexual male.

thebewilderness · 17/02/2018 20:59

Only males can be transwomen, so it would be unpossible for them to be women since women are adult human females.

thebewilderness · 17/02/2018 20:44

This particular young person being a woman's officer will be a woman for the rest of her life, and she deserves to participate and be represented.
Madigan could desist at any time and live as a man. That is the problem with self-ID.
The 8th rule of misogyny: Men are whatever men say they are and women are whatever men say they are.
Can you mandate belief?
Can you codify into law the idea that some people can mind over matter themselves out of material reality and into the opposite sex and must be treated accordingly?
It is like transubstantiation. A belief that no one actually believes.
Will you allow people to drug and mutilate children based on this belief that no one believes?

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